₦airaland Forum

2mch:
Go and do your research. Nobody need help and work harder than 90% of women in polygamous marriage. I know how much I have helped and how many have to keep boyfriend to take care of their kids. Yes, most of the touts and criminals are from polygamous home. Just go to the prison and ask. It’s not every child you can bring up in such environment and they will succeed. Raising kids require a lot of monitoring which don’t exist in polygamous home. You actually have to be present as a parent to raise good children. It is not the duty of one parent alone. Father and mother have different roles in a child’s life.

Again, I stand on it that 90% of polygamous wives are single mother. Even one prominent politicians who is known for many wives, I know the shege his wives are seeing raising children he hardly even know. Leave story.

You nor lie.

I know up to 7 different politicians in my environment with their numerous wives and children who are struggling to survive. Each wife and her children with their own survival, the day we went to execute a project in the main building of one even ordinary water they couldn't buy. I wasn't surprised since I already know some of them but my staff were shocked.

The one directly opposite our compound is everyday fight among the step children and buying of goods on credits, till date and the first wife is still owing my sis 2k ontop ordinary hair relaxer we kuku dash her.

If I mentioned one governor that couldn't even pay his cleaners till most of them stopped the work you won't believe it.

Who nor go nor know. I just pity who dey admire big cars and mansion in polygamous homes.

Funkymode:
Lagos will always be number one hotspot for baby mamas and sugar daddies

While Abeokuta takes the lead when it comes to single mothers as 95% ladies in Abeokuta are into Olosho (hookup) and out of this percentage, 93% - 94% are single mothers, while 1% - 2% are not single mothers

Na wa o. Abeokuta dey beat Lagos in terms of Ashawo percentage

One would have thought that Lagos would be worse and that ladies brought up in Abeokuta will have better home training, morals and culture

What happened

iamL:
You nor lie.

I know up to 7 different politicians in my environment with their numerous wives and children who are struggling to survive. Each wife and her children with their own survival, the day we went to execute a project in the main building of one even ordinary water they couldn't buy. I wasn't surprised since I already know some of them but my staff were shocked.

The one directly opposite our compound is everyday fight among the step children and buying of goods on credits, till date and the first wife is still owing my sis 2k ontop ordinary hair relaxer we kuku dash her.

If I mentioned one governor that couldn't even pay his cleaners till most of them stopped the work you won't believe it.

Who nor go nor know. I just pity who dey admire big cars and mansion in polygamous homes.

You too don de notice am. Imagine what the average wife of polygamist is going through. Then come down to the poor ones. No be better marriage, na single mother I see them as. Dem de actually feed the man most times. I no know why those guys de deceive themselves de deny. Maybe them wish to have many wives. Dem think say na just plenty knacking until all the children come and they cannot afford it. Only to japa or fight the woman to provide.

Na the worst marriage for any person on this earth in this modern age. Even a very prominent musician with many children, one naira he no de give all him wives and baby mama. Na dem de fight for their lives with their children. Na just name dem get. Shi shi no de.

Till you move close to these people you don’t know how bad it is. The children grow up like wild animal and fight for survival from small. No difference between them and babymama.

sofiscatedmoron:
It’s been there since
Marriage is a waist of time, baby mama is the way to go








21. Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

To slap you dey hungry me.

ZombieTAMER:
They're already here to defend evil as usual

tell them 50 people were kidnapped yesterday by bandits

they will tell you how 100k died in Europe during the Holocaust.

It is a Global phenomenon.

This eyes of Lagos go just come here dey post ChatGPT-polished fan fiction...as if we don't know the true story.

And in which part of the world are there no babymamas and sugar daddies? Abeg, write on novel stuff, and profer solutions while at it! Stop telling us what we already know with AI English!

Even quoting stats? 40% of who? Where's your survey study? Abeg get out!

Lukuluku69:
It is a Global phenomenon.

poverty is not a global phenomenon

Ilekokonit:
Na wa o. Abeokuta dey beat Lagos in terms of Ashawo percentage

One would have thought that Lagos would be worse and that ladies brought up in Abeokuta will have better home training, morals and culture

What happened

Economy and lack of contentment

ZombieTAMER:
poverty is not a global phenomenon

There are homeless people in the Richest countries of the world.

Lukuluku69:
There are homeless people in the Richest countries of the world.

There are junkies in the richest countries of the world...

it's called free will

ZombieTAMER:
There are junkies in the richest countries of the world...

it's called free will

Not every Homeless individuals are Junkies.

Lukuluku69:
Not every Homeless individuals are Junkies.

Yes in the poverty capital of the world ruled by Tinubu

40% of the populace practice open defecation

ZombieTAMER:
Yes in the poverty capital of the world ruled by Tinubu

40% of the populace practice open defecation

Obasanjo, Yar' Adua, Ebele Jonathan, Buhari also took turn to rule in that Poverty Capital of the World.

Glad you know that there are Homeless people in the Western World too.

maasoap:
You see, very convenient for you to make assertion that louts are from polygamous families. I don't know how many polygamous families you know in your area that fit that description which made you to conclude like that. With confidence that 90% of polygamous men couldn't afford more than one wife.

Also, he has failed to tell us how come, if polygamy causes toutism, there are more inmates in the US, a country that outlaws polygamy, than there are in countries like The Federal Republic of Nigeria in which polygamy is legal.

This how we know that their position in born out of hate hence, should not be used as a basis upon which to build civilization.

Kobojunkie:
If success in marriage is merely defined by the length of time the couples in the marriage have stayed without a divorce, then a good number of the sugar daddies fueling this baby mama phenomenon can equally boast of doing it the old fashioned way. No be so?

🥱🥱🥱
What exactly do you mean by this? What ia the logic in what you have expressed here?

Yes, many of them we know of have been married to the same woman for many decades, never minding the fact that the details of the marriage as well the quality of living and living for the wife in the marriage may be nothing to write home about.

This poor arguement is becoming stale already!

Anytime we bring up the fact our parents and their parents had marriages that span 50 years, people like you bring up the quality/quantity arguement and try to make it look like long marriage = poor quality marriage. At the same time, you ignore completely the fact the short marriages we see today are often riddled with the same things you see in what, in your opinnion, is bad marriage simply because it is long.

And you mentioned living conditions for the wife.

Again, you are bringing up that stale old feminist propaganda that the marriages of previous generations was such that the wife's condition is bad.

I would like you to mention those 'bad' conditions of life women endured in the marriages of the older genaration and show that it was the norm?

You think there are no people who are aware that this arguement of yours is nothing but mere leftist and feminist propaganda?

But I guess, the married should be deemed successful because the woman has allowed it endure-or maybe has been forced into doing so-- for as long as she did. 🥱🥱🥱

Again, pure lies!
This whole idea of women being victims in older marriages, is nothing but pure lies meant to decieve the public about the reality of its social heritage and making it unpopular.

Mention ''what the woman allowed'' or what she was ''forced'' into and show that it was the norm at any point in time!

Kobojunkie:
Nigeria had a family system that should be kept?

Yes, we had and still have a proud family system THAT SHOULD NOT ONLY BE KEPT, BUT ALSO CELEBRATED! No one is buying into your propaganda and this false sense of moral and civilizational superiority!

You mean the very same system that kept women as property of their husbands, children, particularly female children as subhuman who were only to be bred for property and wealth in the future to the highest bidder -- Nigeria's bride price system -- and also expected to take on the burden of fixing the mistakes of their progenitors, some before old age, all without a guarantee of comparable reward? 🥱🥱🥱

No, the family system DID NOT KEEP WOMEN AS PROPERTIES OF MEN. THAT'S A BIG FAT LIE FROM FEMINISTS AND THE LEFT ON ORDER TO INFANTILIZE WOMEN AND MAKE PAINT THEM AS VICTIMS OF NOTHING!

So, since you claim they were kept as men's belongings, why don't you tell us how on earth they were considered men's propeties AND SHOW THAT YOUR CONCLUSION IS FAIR!

The same goes for the girl child. Go on ahead and defend the lie that families in the past kept girl children as properties!

Or you think because the feminist left was backed up and heavily funded by individuals and organizations and also governments around the world, and because they had the loudest speakers then whatever they concieve in their corrupt and degenerate mind is correct?

You mentioning the bride price system and painting it black by calling it a system where girls are SOLD, is proof that you, like all the feminst left, care about is propaganda and a specific framing of the narrative.

First of all, there is no evidence anywhere to show that bride price is injurious to women in anyway, shape or form. Infact, it is the wish of women in cultures where such is practised that a bride price be paid on their head, by their intending husband as they all see this as a sign of their husband's commitment to them.

MiddleDimension:
🥱🥱🥱 What exactly do you mean by this? What ia the logic in what you have expressed here?
This poor arguement is becoming stale already! Anytime we bring up the fact our parents and their parents had marriages that span 50 years, people like you bring up the quality/quantity arguement and try to make it look like long marriage = poor quality marriage. At the same time, you ignore completely the fact the short marriages we see today are often riddled with the same things you see in what, in your opinnion, is bad marriage simply because it is long. And you mentioned living conditions for the wife. Again, you are bringing up that stale old feminist propaganda that the marriages of previous generations was such that the wife's condition is bad. I would like you to mention those 'bad' conditions of life women endured in the marriages of the older genaration and show that it was the norm? You think there are no people who are aware that this arguement of yours is nothing but mere leftist and feminist propaganda? Again, pure lies!
This whole idea of women being victims in older marriages, is nothing but pure lies meant to decieve the public about the reality of its social heritage and making it unpopular.
Mention ''what the woman allowed'' or what she was ''forced'' into and show that it was the norm at any point in time!

When you are ready to digest and dissect reality as it is, let me know. You can't really expect me to dissect what are mere delusions, now, do you?

Kobojunkie:
When you are ready to digest and dissect reality as it is, let me know. You can't really expect me to dissect what are mere delusions, now, do you?

kekekeke
So, all of a sudden, our resident 'enlightened' has run out of ideas now that he has been properly challenged

MiddleDimension:
➜kekekeke So, all of a sudden, our resident 'enlightened' has run out of ideas now that he has been properly challenged

I see you may be a bit lacking in the comprehension department, too! Now I understand the reason behind the gobbledegook of a response! 😑😑

MiddleDimension:
➜kekekeke So, all of a sudden, our resident 'enlightened' has run out of ideas now that he has been properly challenged

Now I understand the reason behind the gobbledegook of a response you previously posted! 😑😑

Kobojunkieee:
Now I understand the reason behind the gobbledegook of a response you previously posted! 😑😑

You don't understand anything.

Kobojunkieee:
Now I understand the reason behind the gobbledegook of a response you previously posted! 😑😑

Also, you said something about working your entire life till you die.

Well, Joe Biden probably thought so too even to the point of standing again in an election despite the obvious fact that he incapable of carrying on.

MiddleDimension:
✓ Also, you said something about working your entire life till you die.
Well, Joe Biden probably thought so too even to the point of standing again in an election despite the obvious fact that he incapable of carrying on.

Now, I am definitely certain of the source of the gobbledegook responses.

Kobojunkie:
Now, I am definitely certain of the source of the gobbledegook responses.

Congratulations for learning this word recently.

MiddleDimension:
➜Congratulations for learning this word recently.

A word I have notoriously used at least 2500 times on Nairaland alone since 2007 is a word recently learned? WOW...🥱🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
A word I have notoriously used at least 2500 times on Nairaland alone since 2007 is a word recently learned? WOW...🥱🥱🥱

Nairaland resident sociologist.