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This is so heartbreaking😭😭😭😭😭😭 This is evil😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 You don't treat a man who treats and accepts your child this way. Paternity fraud should be a punishable offence.

If you refuse to learn lessons from other people's experiences, you will learn them through your own experience.

@RitableP
https://x.com/RitableP/status/1962510422390534401?t=sM9qb1U36w2RTEQWUPRiFw&s=19

"The Worrisome Trend of Paternity Fraud in the Society And Aftermath Effects."

How on earth can some ladies be this wicked? It is because the power to conceive and bear kids was never the privilege of a man? You married a man with a mindset of fraud - desecrate your marital vow/bed and worst of all commit abominable act of conceiving you supposed husband offsprings with your exes.

Why not continue sleeping with your ex if marriage is not for you? Anyway the Holy Scriptures says; "the heart of a man/woman is desperately wicked. Who can know it......" Meanwhile, the lady should always bear in mind that there is always a consequence for any wickedness of this act;

"But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out..."(Numbers 32:23 KJV‬).

Imagine! What an eternally painful experience for me inadvertently raising kids seared by other men in my matrimonial home. Well, for now, let them continue to be on the gwonpy, gwonpy horse back riding. We will see where it leads too.

Society is not that bordered as far as men are at the receiving end. Society only cares if women are at the receiving end.

You think society really care about men?

Sounds like fable but cases like this exist
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Buharidgeneral:
Sounds like fable but cases like this exist
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Even if it is..there are take home from the stories...God bless gehgeh!!!

Imagine DNA is free in hospitals or can be accurately determined through an App. The cry that will happen in every home will be unimaginable.

It's becoming very worrisome...

But it's just the best now, get DNA test for every child your woman gives birth to.

Lie lie cock and bull story. " ....you took the 2 boys to the hospital the next day..." The boy that's already bedridden in the hospital

What is even more worriesome is that at least 70% of these paternity fraud stories posted online are fake and people actually believe them.

paternity fraud will not end. It's becoming very worrisome...

But it's just the best thing now, get DNA test for every child your woman gives birth to.

DO DNA TEST IF POSSIBLE SO THAT YOU CAN CLEAR YOUR DOUBTS WHERE NECESSARY.

Dpsychologist:
Society is not that bordered as far as men are at the receiving men. Society only cares if women are at the receiving end.

You think society really care about men?

Majority of the laws against men are made and supported by men, that is the irony of life.

Shora fobirin oo.

You gats dey guide everyday against that gender, but situations like this stem from lack of proper of prioritisation of our own interests as men.

As a man, when you go dey plan things you go dey plan am for your family join, but women every decision dey make selfish. Imagine see this one excuse "Not spoiling the family bloodline".

Women nowadays though they don't care, hypergamy animals, they want the richest men, who drive the richest cars, who have the biggest prestige & influence as the husbands, to cheat on them with their ex, & sugar boys. Zero shame, zero empathy towards their husbands or family.

I pity men wey no dey fear women, hard lessons will be learnt.

Everyone should stop crying wolves jare. Men need to work on their lifestyles. You climb on her and in less that 2 muntes you're done, like a fowl and it keeps happening everyday with no results.

You try and try, no solution because your reproductive health has been severely damaged. All these nonsense were never common in those days. If you meet a child on the street for the first time, you don't need to guess who his father is rather, you simply ask him of his father cos of semblance. Go to villages during festive seasons. Na those villagers go dey ask, oooh are you mr/Mrs so and so's child? Its the semblance

This generation called genz does a lot of weird stuffs that are capable of bastardising their reproductive health. Go to hospitals and see able bodied men diagnosed with low counts. You mix alomo with other concoction so that you'd be high, take colos and other dangerous drugs, mixed with liquor. By the time you're ready to have babies, you start blaming the women. When some of them can't endure the pressure and long wait, they go out and test their fertility. No woman would want her home to break. Such circumstances could encourage a paternity fraud. Its the women's side we're seeing. Who knows how many times the men have gone to meet other women who aren't their wives and contracted STDs? One of my brother's friends had HPV from another lady and was childless for nearly 2 decades. I'm not in support of paternity fraud but we men need to take our health seriously. He married 3 times, same situation. One of them had a son but he later discovered the son wasn't his. It was after divorce that the woman opened up and said to him that...someone who doesn't know he's destroyed his life already. I was there when she said this, over a prolonged argument. I was shocked

Look at the number of those undergoing kidney-related issues and compare the number with those from the opposite gender. You'd be shocked. Stop drinking nonsense, exercise well, eat organically instead, ignore those fast foods and drink a lot of water. You'd be ok

The rate at which married women mess around ehn , I won’t be surprised that the story is true despite sounding fake.

There is a married woman messing with another married man she made her husband buy a property from . After three kids for that matter.
The older one gets the more the first hand experiences of the deceit in the hearts of humans . Whenever I see the husband I just weak.

Men should start acting very responsibly in the society. They should stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. This is the only solution. Men should blame themselves for this and take responsibility.

Softmirror:
Men should start acting very responsibly in the society. They should stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. This is the only solution. Men should blame themselves for this and take responsibility.

All parties should be responsible . Why men and men only ? There are two consenting adults when the knocking happens . Equal responsibilities

True the case f Paternity Fraud seems to be on the rise. However, some of these stories seems made up.

I usually assumed all this stories are concocted but I witness one recently that shook my beliefs...
Your husband travelled abroad to hustle and within 2 months you already conceived for an elderly man twice your age, while still living in the house your husband built.
You delivered, did naming ceremony in the actual father house and return back to your husband home with the b**tard.

The poor man is in the cold breaking his back just to send cash home

dominique:
What is even more worriesome is that at least 70% of these paternity fraud stories posted online are fake and people actually believe them.

I agree this one is probably a cooked up story but cases like this happen. Are you saying paternity fraud isn't common?

This is super story!
Whenever fake stories like this are posted, they often have so many parts that scream falsehood!

Jman06:
This is super story!
Whenever fake stories like this are posted, they often have so many parts that scream falsehood!

The best way to convince us that the stories are fake and lies is for you to conduct paternity test on your children for us to see the result.

Meanwhile …..

blaise26abj:
The rate at which married women mess around ehn , I won’t be surprised that the story is true despite sounding fake.

It is not just a married woman thing...it started from single days......they get pregnant and pin the baby in who has more money and ready for marriage among their toasters .....

So the issue also rests on greed

The way things are going people would be marrying their siblings in years to come unknowingly because of deceit from the daughters of eve.

Softmirror:
Men should start acting very responsibly in the society. They should stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. This is the only solution. Men should blame themselves for this and take responsibility.

See mentality ahbeg

When a man is wrong the man should be blamed and when a woman is that devilish, men should still be blamed?

And here you are talking about taking responsibility. SMH

Buharidgeneral:
Sounds like fable but cases like this exist
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You sounded so confused that I'm laughing at your confusion. A short sentence that managed to contradict itself

Softmirror:
Men should start acting very responsibly in the society. They should stop sleeping with their fellow men's wives. This is the only solution. Men should blame themselves for this and take responsibility.

But married women are free to open their tights for willing men, right? Women who bring bascard children home will always be at the receiving end when caught

jaephoenix:
I agree this one is probably a cooked up story but cases like this happen. Are you saying paternity fraud isn't common?

When women are the culprit of the story, they always claim it's fake....

But if the story is about a man cheating and raping..they won't call it fake

maasoap:
But married women are free to open their tights for willing men, right? Women who bring bascard children home will always be at the receiving end when caught

If men refuse to chuck their rod and control themselves, this things won't be happening.

dominique:
What is even more worriesome is that at least 70% of these paternity fraud stories posted online are fake and people actually believe them.

Yes, they might be fake, but things like this happen a lot. So many women are evil and heartless. When a woman loves, she loves like a fool on heat. So in a society where we condemn women who are not married, we tend to glorify the MRS title over everything else, and the men these women are in love with are not ready to marry and house them; they, in turn, marry the next available simp they never loved and continue sleeping with the one they loved. Note that this women always love the strong man figure in their life. They want a man who can command them, and they will obey. They always want to bear children for those men who can command them, because they see them as the ideal man. While the husband, they got married too as the weak one they can show off the society so they will not be looked down upon.

What did she mean by she didn't want to mix bloodlines with his? Why marry a man you don't want to have kids with? Deceiving the man and making him think those are his kids, along with having him take care of them financially is sheer wickedness. He should take her to court and at least have her repay all the money he has spent on them over the years, then divorce her and marry another woman to start having kids with. He can't take back the years he has wasted with her but he just shouldn't make the mistake of marrying another single mother or someone with an ex they can't let go of.