₦airaland Forum

NotOfThisWorld:
What did she mean by she didn't want to mix bloodlines with his? Why marry a man you don't want to have kids with? Deceiving the man and making him think those are his kids, along with having him take care of them financially is wickedness.

Because she sees him as a weak man. she wants her children, especially sons, to be strong. That is why they say women have a big brain. in this life i always advice all men to marry a woman that you know genuinely loves you and not the one you think you love. She never loves her husband she only married him because her ideal man, the baby daddy, was not ready to house her; he doesn't see her as a wife material, so she tries so much to seek self-validation from him. While the husband is the one who is available to wife her and take away societal shame from her eyes, in her eyes, he is a simp. While the baby daddy is strong and a red pillar so therefore she doesn't want to have a bloodline of simp. Have you not asked yourself why mothers-in-law always have problems with their daughter-in-law?s They do not want any woman to control their son; hence, they all want a strong son, and how can you get that when the father is a weak man, a simp.

Eriokanmi:
Everyone should stop crying wolves jare. Men need to work on their lifestyles. You climb on her and in less that 2 muntes you're done, like a fowl and it keeps happening everyday with no results.

You try and try, no solution because your reproductive health has been severely damaged. All these nonsense were never common in those days. If you meet a child on the street for the first time, you don't need to guess who his father is rather, you simply ask him of his father cos of semblance. Go to villages during festive seasons. Na those villagers go dey ask, oooh are you mr/Mrs so and so's child? Its the semblance

This generation called genz does a lot of weird stuffs that are capable of bastardising their reproductive health. Go to hospitals and see able bodied men diagnosed with low counts. You mix alomo with other concoction so that you'd be high, take colos and other dangerous drugs, mixed with liquor. By the time you're ready to have babies, you start blaming the women. When some of them can't endure the pressure and long wait, they go out and test their fertility. No woman would want her home to break. Such circumstances could encourage a paternity fraud. Its the women's side we're seeing. Who knows how many times the men have gone to meet other women who aren't their wives and contracted STDs? One of my brother's friends had HPV from another lady and was childless for nearly 2 decades. I'm not in support of paternity fraud but we men need to take our health seriously. He married 3 times, same situation. One of them had a son but he later discovered the son wasn't his. It was after divorce that the woman opened up and said to him that...someone who doesn't know he's destroyed his life already. I was there when she said this, over a prolonged argument. I was shocked

Look at the number of those undergoing kidney-related issues and compare the number with those from the opposite gender. You'd be shocked. Stop drinking nonsense, exercise well, eat organically instead, ignore those fast foods and drink a lot of water. You'd be ok

Hear foolishness in d highest order

The story seems made up and and it's riddled with ignorance. First, it's medically possible and very common for a biological father's blood not to match with his biological child. Also, the elder son or two sons story seems rushed, muddled and mixed-up.

MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE was the beginning of Men's downfall right from the beginning of time when women had no say, had no rights, had no choice.

Women of old(our great great grandmothers) got tired of being used, of being seen as sex slaves, of been seen as baby making machines, of being objectified. So they started the WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE, IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER.

If only men could get pregnant, Maternity fraud would be a pandemic across the globe but since only women can get pregnant, the result is what we see as Paternity Fraud.


Men should continue to live with the consequences of their actions

Softmirror:
If men refuse to chuck their rod and control themselves, this things won't be happening.

No need to dey drag this matter between men and women. Bring bastad kids home, get caught, get chased out with your bastad children. Simple

IamMobisola:
MEN ARE POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE was the beginning of Men's downfall right from the beginning of time when women had no say, had no rights, had no choice.

You sure? Because in many countries like USA and UK where polygamy is outlawed, their marriages fall like pack of cards, and at a faster rate than the countries where polygamy is legal.

Women of old(our great great grandmothers) got tired of being used, of being seen as sex slaves, of been seen as baby making machines, of being objectified. So they started the WHAT IS GOOD FOR THE GOOSE, IS GOOD FOR THE GANDER

Your great grandmothers didn't start this, your generation did. And the difference between their marriages and your generation marriages is clear in terms of stability and peaceful homes

If only men could get pregnant, Maternity fraud would be a pandemic across the globe but since only women can get pregnant, the result is what we see as Paternity Fraud.

No need for that, every gender has their naturally assigned biological roles. And for every wayward man out there, be aware that there is equally one wayward woman with him.

Men should continue to live with the consequences of their actions

Just because men are the ones speaking out about paternity fraud doesn't mean they are at the receiving end facing greater consequences.
Remember that men are the ones initiating paternity tests, you can very well guess the outcome for the victims when caught

maasoap:
You sure? Because in many countries like USA and UK where polygamy is outlawed, their marriages fall like pack of cards, and at a faster rate than the countries where polygamy is legal.


Your great grandmothers didn't start this, your generation did. And the difference between their marriages and your generation marriages is clear in terms of stability and peaceful homes


No need for that, every gender has their naturally assigned biological roles. And for every wayward man out there, be aware that there is equally one wayward woman with him.


Just because men are the ones speaking out about paternity fraud doesn't mean they are at the receiving end facing greater consequences.
Remember that men are the ones initiating paternity tests, you can very well guess the victims when caught

It's funny you said my generation started this and yet, many first borns who are 50years of age and above have found out through DNA tests that they aren't biological children of their fathers like they thought.

As for foreigners where polygamy is outlawed, it still didn't stop men from having numerous side chicks while been married, did it? It didn't stop them from having another family elsewhere, did it? A lot of these women come online to social media to call their husbands out for bigamy, cheating and all sorts. So no be today.

What i mean by men facing the consequences of their actions of "Men are polygamous in nature", is that they are been made to raise another man's child for years without knowing and once they do the DNA test, do you know the kind of heartbreak it gives them? Some end up committing suicide, some miserable for the rest of their lives. And the women? Divorce is not the end of the world is it? She still has her children and moves on with her life

Government should look into the price of DNA

Onucs:
See mentality ahbeg

When a man is wrong the man should be blamed and when a woman is that devilish, men should still be blamed?

And here you are talking about taking responsibility. SMH

That is the kind of mentality that APC people have according to the Lagos is no man’s land lawyer Bwala.


https://fij.ng/article/flashback-joining-apc-makes-the-brain-stop-working-and-4-more-daniel-bwala-anti-tinubu-remarks/


Your BATified interlocutor is clueless about responsibility.

Racoon:
How on earth can some ladies be this wicked? It is because the power to conceive and bear kids was never the privilege of a man? You married a man with a mindset of fraud - desecrate your marital vow/bed and worst of all commit abominable act of conceiving you supposed husband offsprings with your exes.

Why not continue sleeping with your ex if marriage is not for you? Anyway the Holy Scriptures says; "the heart of a man/woman is desperately wicked. Who can know it......" Meanwhile, the lady should always bear in mind that there is always a consequence for any wickedness of this act;

"But if ye will not do so, behold, ye have sinned against the LORD: and be sure your sin will find you out..."(Numbers 32:23 KJV‬).

Imagine! What an eternally painful experience for me inadvertently raising kids seared by other men in my matrimonial home. Well, for now, let them continue to be on the gwonpy, gwonpy horse back riding. We will see where it leads too.

The federal government really needs to come in and do something about this evil nigerian ladies are currently doing to hard working nigerian men.

fxexperts:
Yes, they might be fake, but things like this happen a lot. So many women are evil and heartless. When a woman loves, she loves like a fool on heat. So in a society where we condemn women who are not married, we tend to glorify the MRS title over everything else, and the men these women are in love with are not ready to marry and house them; they, in turn, marry the next available simp they never loved and continue sleeping with the one they loved. Note that this women always love the strong man figure in their life. They want a man who can command them, and they will obey. They always want to bear children for those men who can command them, because they see them as the ideal man. While the husband, they got married too as the weak one they can show off the society so they will not be looked down upon.

You should be differentiating the women to specifically say nigerian women not all women in the world loves those type of men you are referencing.

Mrexcell:
You should be differentiating the women to specifically say nigerian women not all women in the world loves those type of men you are referencing.

You are right in a way though, i think it is basically Nigerian women, because it is because of the culture that has caged a Nigerian womans mentality that she has to always crave a man they see as strong.