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A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

Where are those always preaching "If a woman is worth it..."?

The fact that it worked out well in your case doesnt make it a norm. In fact, when making sweeping statements, exceptions are noted and they dont invalidate it

When people say "All women/men are this", they sure know not all are like that, but the few exceptions dont make the rule, they are part of the rule

If i would need to search down to a bag of beans to find a non-beans content in it, then its still safe to call the entire bag a bag of beans. The other foreign materials in it dont invalidate the tag

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

I feel like crying

Sirchiboy:
I feel like crying

This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen.
Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper she just met and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the man wey give her the power wey I blame.

The girl should have allowed him go with the wig, instead of the show of shame been displayed here.
The man really embarrassed himself by going to disrupt the lady's sign out.
He failed to read the obvious signs that the girl was in the relationship for education sponsorship benefit.

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

Ubunja has sufficiently addressed this issue. Men need sense to regulate the "sex resource".

Like they always say "Simps will learn the hard way"

Some men never learn 🤬🤬🤬🤬

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

There is nothing like read body language, it's not your responsibility so shy away from it whether body language is giving or not. She has parents let them do their parental job not you

Woe unto anyman wey dey get expectation from women. Enjoy them and set them free.

EvilMerodack:
Where are those always preaching "If a woman is worth it..."?

The fact that it worked out well in your case doesnt make it a norm. In fact, when making sweeping statements, exceptions are noted and they dont invalidate it

When people say "All women/men are this", they sure know not all are like that, but the few exceptions dont make the rule, they are part of the rule

If i would need to search down to a bag of beans to find a non-beans content in it, then its still safe to call the entire bag a bag of beans. The other foreign materials in it dont invalidate the tag

See most just start feeling over special with such sacrifices. Better to start with someone who won't derail one progress. I am currently supporting someone but really it not worth it, it prevents one from knowing there true motives in the relationship. The word is DESIST.
Modified: I wanted to move on, when I noticed it not going to be an healthy situation in the long-term as emotions are weightless, but pregnancy entered(I did DNA o, because people are unpredictable) and got married. But it really stressful on the provider, hard to have healthy relationships like that. You are busy providing for all, they feel you are boring as they rarely know what it cost to provide and be accountable. You end up grooming a monster at your own expense.

Yahoo boyz go buy iphone 16/pay sch feez for their girlfriends dey brag about am .

Hehehehe

An uncle is battling almost same thing currently. Invested heavily on a stark illiterate that doesn't even know how to open a banks door. I created all her bank accounts for her in 2014. After some brushing business boomed, and village girl had turned my uncle to a house boy. Hard lesson learner. The day I will visit the village, that lady will see fire from me.

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

All these gals dating kids cos he can buy you wig.

Instead of me to train girl in Nigerian University, I rather use that money train myself in GheGhe University of Wisdom and Understanding

😫

Even with all these videos and enlightenment more men are still falling victim to all this Almajiri on wigs

COMRADES are speechless, thank God such a heartbreak had never happened to me

ExudeLoveToAll:
There is nothing like read body language, it's not your responsibility so shy away from it whether body language is giving or not. She has parents let them do their parental job not you

Men and woman don't think alike.
Its better you make your intentions clear at the start so that every one can determine what to do.

Not that you will now be kneeling up and down with flowers. Who told you I like flowers over money?

One of the people that failed Jamb and didn't get admissions into GehGeh University

E better make I train broilers than to train woman wey I never pay anything on top her head

E be like the wig cost. E pain am

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

Please is this real or continent 😂

AllBlack:
This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen. Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the man wey give her the power wey I blame.

this one pain meee I can't stop crying for that innocent man

She No Kuku send am, Owo ti wọ gbo lọ.





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TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

The only reasonable statement in your gibberish

Peacecore:
The only reasonable statement in your gibberish

I beg your pardon