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hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

It is true she didn't beg him to train her and it is also not bad to retrieve your stuff back. He bought the wig and wanted it back. I don't see a big deal in that too.

More reason I'm always nonchalant when it comes to women matters, I've break it down for one that I hope she doesn't think she owe me marriage because I'm sticking out my head for her, I've never subscribed to that school of thought and now isn't the best time to do that.

Some men will learn in the hard way.

jojothaiv:
More reason I'm always nonchalant when it comes to women matters, I've break it down for one that I hope she doesn't think she owe me marriage because I'm sticking out my head for her, I've never subscribed to that school of thought and now isn't the best time to do that.

Some men will learn in the hard way.

e get the level of understanding for woman matter when you go get,you go realize say na you even suppose dey owe her marriage not the other way around. Marriage should be a reward package you gift her for been a good gal friend. I wonder why a man would now be begging a woman to marry him. It's such a shame any time I hear or see such. It means that the man doesn't even understand the power dynamics in romantic relationships.

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

One of the worst things a man should do is to train lady wey no be your wife, sis, mum, relative . Even when you want to assist make e be say u dey do such for Ur wife, sis, mum, relatives and good male friends as well.

Instead of you to use your money to sponsor woman for school, is it not better you use the money to carry 2 sure odd? At least you go know say if you kpai, you kpai and if you hit you hit. E better pass being fooled all years and still suffer some needless heartbreak

Money he would've used for more productive things

The girl was asking him is it only one time he sent him 70k for school fees that he's claiming he trained her in school?

geoworldedu:
It is true she didn't beg him to train him, and it is also not bad to retrieve your stuff back. He bought the wig and wanted it back. I don't see a big deal in that too.

It is totally wrong and inhumane to try to retrieve a gift as paltry as a wig, from a lady you previously dated.
A gift is not meant to be retrieved. Did he sign an agreement with her prior to the wig gift?
The guy is too petty!

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

The Guy just registered for Geh Geh University, finished 1st semester and realised he has been a Mumu

SQLmastar:
It is totally wrong and inhumane to try to retrieve a gift as paltry as a wig, from a lady you previously dated.
A gift is not meant to be retrieved. Did he sign an agreement with her prior to the wig gift?
The guy is too petty!

to you it's petty. To him he just realised he has been fooled. There are gifts I will never buy for a gal. Especially gifts that lasts long e.g phone,wig,laptop etc. I prefer things that will not last long so there will be no need to retrieve them once things go south. The ultimate rule is do not give more than you can afford to lose,same rule applies to betting. So you see it's actually a form of gambling.

stainzvill:
E better make I train broilers than to train woman wey I never pay anything on top her head

...nailed
You can feed fat on Broilers.
That everyone can agree including the women

In Geh Geh's voice "Never train a woman to school, instead buy Keke for her father let him pay you balance"

Where do men keep finding these ebinpami type of girls?

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

Shout out to those men who always thought throwing money at women is the best way for them to love you, don’t get me wrong I do spend money for women but then I can only establish a woman who have given me child because on a long run even if she decided to walk away from the relationship or marriage I know there’s a lifetime connection which is the child we had together, make no mistake as a man to be training a woman for school whom you are not legally married to or even no commitment, so many cases yet men nor Dey hear word, true true she nor send you make you train her for school na your mind send you that message lol 😂

Hmmm ....was there a contract? ... and she broke the contract? If no ... I see no reason for him to be upset with her. I see no reason for her to be abusive to him ... after all he had done for her ... she should've been giving him a big "thank you" for bringing her home through this chapter of her life. Her bf ... or whoever had interest in her should be checking off the ungrateful box

Cmanforall:
She must have weighed the guy’s pocket
And she possibly has other boyfriends

If the guy is doing very well financially and has flashy car and a house, those her friends will replace her

Another poor decision, he shouldn't have dated broke girl in the first place, now that the game is over he should simply go for girls in his league and nothing less.

Jakarta:
An uncle is battling almost same thing currently. Invested heavily on a stark illiterate that doesn't even know how to open a banks door. I created all her bank accounts for her in 2014. After some brushing business boomed, and village girl had turned my uncle to a house boy. Hard lesson learner. The day I will visit the village, that lady will see fire from me.

You'd better mind how you'll handle the matter,cos some of those girls are very fetish and diabolical,mk she no go do u bad. Sora e

With this craze for social media attention it's really difficult to know what is real or not. All the same, the guy should have just walked away, infact he should thank God .

I been think say na only me get sense for here, we dey two now

Doctorova:
Dry skit.......

Instead of you to attend Gehgeh prestigious University, you no gree. Now see the result

starpower:
See most just start feeling over special with such sacrifices. Better to start with someone who won't derail one progress. I am currently supporting someone but really it not worth it, it prevents one from knowing there true motives in the relationship. The word is DESIST.

You are advising people to desist yet you are CURRENTLY SUPPORTING someone?

Why don't you take your own advice huh?

Hahahaha. Gehgeh needs to give that guy a special admission to his university.

The guy needs it desperately.

Hhh4444:
➜Lol,where are those that will say "not all women are like that"? Una go learn the hard way. Women don't deserve your kindness. You might be doing what ever you are doing just like a philanthropist would normally do,but women don't see it like that.They see your kindness as foolishness.
➜ If you happen to be in their midst when they discuss men,you would vow never to be nice to any of them.
➜ Make sure any woman you deal with calls you stingy. The word "stingy" is a compliment from women. One was calling me stingy the other day. I told her I am a proud stingy man. Na so she laugh. Last last we ended up having fun. Money when I go use train woman for school,I go gather the money set fire on am. I go use the money as rizler to roll weed smoke. When I finally understand female nature,I stop to dey dash dem even #100. No be say #100 big pass me,but I hate to be called a fool for giving out my money.

1. Stop deceiving these men, abeg! Clearly, nothing that these men do compares to what philanthropists do, since in their minds, these men are convinced that by sponsoring the women, they gain ownership rights to those women. That is, instead, what sociopaths do, not philatropists. There, "kindness" isn't kindness at all, an attempt at purchasing the rights to another human for themselves. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Sure, some women go all out to take advantage of such gullible yet dangerous species among men, but that does not mean the men are themselves in their right mind, or backed by sane ideas.

3. Well, if being stingy towards women is your thing, then go for it. So long as you commit no crime and violate no other person's rights, you are free to chisel out your character in the way you want, while you also accept that those women who hate stingy men are also in their right to do so.

Kobojunkie:
1. Stop deceiving these men, abeg! Clearly, nothing that these men do compares to what philanthropists do, since in their minds, these men are convinced that by sponsoring the women, they gain ownership rights to those women. That is, instead, what sociopaths do, not philatropists. There, "kindness" isn't kindness at all, an attempt at purchasing the rights to another human for themselves. 🥱🥱🥱

2. Sure, some women go all out to take advantage of such gullible yet dangerous species among men, but that does not mean the men are themselves in their right mind, or backed by sane ideas.

3. Well, if being stingy towards women is your thing, then go for it. So long as you commit no crime and violate no other person's rights, you are free to chisel out your character in the way you want, while you also accept that those women who hate stingy men are also in their right to do so.

K

I think this is a skit joor but if it's true, when did paying 70k once amount to training someone in school?
Peradventure the man has done more and the girl is lying, he should leave her to karma.
Guys don't give what you cannot afford to lose maka ezigbo heart break.
Some women are ingrates with entitlement mentality.

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

''In Her own case he wanted to preserve her.
Also he didn't want her to pass through the ordeals she had told him before.
She had told him that she lost her father when she was 6...And that she had experience heart breaks.
He did not worship her, he only pitied her, and wanted to correct her impression.''

Lol... Funny...

It reminds me of a matter here on nairaland, yesterday.

But I was told that everything has its own reason for been in existence. Let wait and see if the new relationship end well with her.