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Mumu go invest money for women body...c ur life nw

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

So the lady never made any signs also for her to be helped from your write up.
The guy chooses to be a father Christmas to the useless lady you mean I guess.
Haba Bros.
Your analysis no be at all.

My own be say make him no carry d wig go juju

Saybal:
Even with all these videos and enlightenment more men are still falling victim to all this Almajiri on wigs

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ALMAJIRI ON WIGS

I strongly believe it's high time for men or guys to allow the the low level people to train themselves.
*You can't give what you don't have*
Majority of these low level classless ladies would allow betrayed your trust, investment on them for crumbs .
Guys should stop carrying the responsibilities of the so called ladies.
It will always end in a disaster for many guys.
Most of the ladies are not worthy of such investment.
The only person worthy of the investment in women is someone's MUM
cest fini.

SQLmastar:
It is totally wrong and inhumane to try to retrieve a gift as paltry as a wig, from a lady you previously dated.
A gift is not meant to be retrieved. Did he sign an agreement with her prior to the wig gift?
The guy is too petty!

You can't tell a broken man what is paltry or petty. He is hurt and broken and that's what he can use to cope with his depression at the moment. Isn't it far better than getting drunk or commiting suicide?

Who observed the only guy who's trying to protect her, shortly aborted after seeing no male(simp) coming around to support them.

At least no threat to life there. How long would you learn? Low life with money would always hype pucciiiii....

The chap is unhinged. Needs to learn manners

MrColdsweat:
Woe unto anyman wey dey get expectation from women. Enjoy them and set them free.

Enjoyment @ her own choice or acceptance.

geoworldedu:
You can't tell a broken man what is paltry or petty. He is hurt and broken and that's what he can use to cope with his depression at the moment. Isn't it far better than getting drunk or commiting suicide?

But he has breached the law by publicly assaulting the lady.

This is a punishable offence by the Nigeria civil law.

CJStarz:
My own be say make him no carry d wig go juju

Is he the only person that know juju house?

Juju dey pass Juju !

You go bow for the result o.......

Okoko must suffer and there shall be no happy ending for okoko.

Embrace Geh geh's teaching or perish.

I rest my case.

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

Setting up business gbawa gi onu.

Very soon, nobody will want to stay or marry Nigerian girls.

wink2015:
But he has breached the law by publicly assaulting the lady.

This is a punishable offence by the Nigeria civil law.

Is there any law that says that you cannot reclaim the gift you gave someone back? Please school me, I want to know. All he did was took his wig back, nothing more I saw in the video. It was the woman that was displaying too much. The man was just standing there with the wig.

That's why Training Girlfriends is like helping and raising a Dangerous Animals in turn will kill you, better to help struggling one Man and helping 10,000 women.

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

That how my ex wanted me to train her in school I told her she need to born for me first .

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

GehGeh just dey smile, upon free admission to his university, the foolish guy no still apply. See his result, F9.

No be only God. Why God no use her papa

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

occfx:
GehGeh just dey smile, upon free admission to his university, the foolish guy no still apply. See his result, F9.

vinboss:
No be only God. Why God no use her papa

Maybe her papa is busy sponsoring another gal somewhere that na why she too think say she'd better find herself one bobo to sponsor her too.

You see... There are things you people don't understand about life, about how a man and woman are "wired". It is not "simping", it is just how God constructed life to run.
All of you shouting Gheghe University, it is not really about that. Even a wife in your house that has bore you children can still mess you up, most especially when a man trusts too much!
A man is wired naturally to take responsibility for people around him, responsibility in terms of security, finance, health etc. How come you as a male become enraged when your mother or sister is assaulted and you are ready to die? It is that same protection instincts, same thing that will make you put your life on the line to provide for your wife, children and other dependants except when "you don't have" and "not having" too can still shorten a man's life from depression. It is just the way a man is programmed.
Some of you come here to shout Simps but you are still the same ones that buy iPhones for your girlfriends or to even convince a girl to date you.
What is not reasonable is to give all your life worth to a woman in the name of training her, only do what you can afford to. Even in physical investments or businesses there are losses.
Bottom-line is... Only do what you can afford to, so that you can easily move on (without kpaing any woman) if she doesn't turn in your favour. Women follow their hearts and hardly show gratitude, most especially when you have slept with them, they believe all is paid back even if your investment is in trillions.

I remember my own experience. My babe became a chartered accountant on my bill, with daily upkeep allowance, for more than two years. She was the first among her friends to own a phone back in 2001 when GSM arrived. Ironically, it was that same phone she used to send me a breakup text.

When I confronted her, I was just smiling. I told her I already knew the end from the beginning. She asked why I still did all that for her, knowing she was playing me. I told her straight: “I was young, and I wanted to feel responsible for someone’s life.”

She thought I was her boyfriend, that’s why I agreed to a so-called platonic relationship. But truth is, I just needed company to stay focused. She thought she was fooling me, but she was only fooling herself. She cried, we both moved on. She got married years later. Me? I’m not married, but I’ve got a daughter and we’ve since relocated.

From that experience, I created some rules for men. If it goes beyond chilling or casual outings, shine your eyes. The moment you start spending on things that will break your heart when she leaves, my brother, you’re writing your own eviction notice from peace of mind.

10 Street Rules Every Man Must Know:

If she asks you to buy something that will pain you when she leaves, don’t buy it. Emotional damage is more expensive than iPhone.

If she asks for money immediately after sex, my guy, that’s not romance—that’s payroll. Respect yourself.

If she’s begging for a phone you can’t buy for your cousin, tell her to bring marriage list. At least if you spend, spend officially.

If she wants school on your bill, no wahala. But secure your legacy first—make sure she’s carrying your surname before carrying your money.

If her lifestyle is always above your salary, abeg run. You can’t finance “soft life” on minimum wage.

If she only loves you when your account is full, she’s dating your bank, not you.

If after eating your money she still introduces you as “just a friend,” downgrade her fast. Don’t be ATM with no PIN.

If she never contributes—no airtime, no shawarma, not even pure water—she’s not a partner, she’s a project.

If every outing must be in expensive spots just to prove love, my guy, heartbreak dey loading.

If you can’t proudly introduce her to your mum, sister, or pastor, keep your wallet zipped.

And that’s why I love Montreal ladies. You go out, she pays her bill, you pay yours—or you split it like civilized people. No stress. No “sponsor me” drama. If she orders lobster, she already knows she’s paying lobster money. Everybody clear, everybody happy.

novaman:
I remember my own experience. My babe became a chartered accountant on my bill, with daily upkeep allowance, for more than two years. She was the first among her friends to own a phone back in 2001 when GSM arrived. Ironically, it was that same phone she used to send me a breakup text.

When I confronted her, I was just smiling. I told her I already knew the end from the beginning. She asked why I still did all that for her, knowing she was playing me. I told her straight: “I was young, and I wanted to feel responsible for someone’s life.”

She thought I was her boyfriend, that’s why I agreed to a so-called platonic relationship. But truth is, I just needed company to stay focused. She thought she was fooling me, but she was only fooling herself. She cried, we both moved on. She got married years later. Me? I’m not married, but I’ve got a daughter and we’ve since relocated.

From that experience, I created some rules for men. If it goes beyond chilling or casual outings, shine your eyes. The moment you start spending on things that will break your heart when she leaves, my brother, you’re writing your own eviction notice from peace of mind.

10 Street Rules Every Man Must Know:

If she asks you to buy something that will pain you when she leaves, don’t buy it. Emotional damage is more expensive than iPhone.

If she asks for money immediately after sex, my guy, that’s not romance—that’s payroll. Respect yourself.

If she’s begging for a phone you can’t buy for your cousin, tell her to bring marriage list. At least if you spend, spend officially.

If she wants school on your bill, no wahala. But secure your legacy first—make sure she’s carrying your surname before carrying your money.

If her lifestyle is always above your salary, abeg run. You can’t finance “soft life” on minimum wage.

If she only loves you when your account is full, she’s dating your bank, not you.

If after eating your money she still introduces you as “just a friend,” downgrade her fast. Don’t be ATM with no PIN.

If she never contributes—no airtime, no shawarma, not even pure water—she’s not a partner, she’s a project.

If every outing must be in expensive spots just to prove love, my guy, heartbreak dey loading.

If you can’t proudly introduce her to your mum, sister, or pastor, keep your wallet zipped.

And that’s why I love Montreal ladies. You go out, she pays her bill, you pay yours—or you split it like civilized people. No stress. No “sponsor me” drama. If she orders lobster, she already knows she’s paying lobster money. Everybody clear, everybody happy.

You just further explained my view up there!
It is simply sense of responsibility but should be done with caution.

The only woman I will spend money on is the mother of my children and my wife and I am even doing it with caution.
The quality of ladies in Nigeria has dropped so bad, you will be extremely lucky to get a good girl nowadays and the surprising thing is that almost all of them think that they are good.

If you must marry a female grad just go nysc camp in your state of residence, during their camping you'll meet so many that are really scared of labour market, you can marry as many as you can, even those ones trained by SIMPle guys. Just learn from the calamity that befallen a SIMPle guy, don't pity them, because among his siblings many are unschooled.

Melagros:
COMRADES are speechless, thank God such a heartbreak had never happened to me

you dey give dem money for hairdo?

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

The man is very foolish. Simps will never learn.

But truth be told, that thing dey pain sha

As a man never you train someone that's not your wedded wife or your direct siblings. I come in peace

Emerikoss:
Please is this real or continent 😂

Yes it's one of the newly discovered continent making it eight in number from seven

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

Were you there
You no know say women can lie? No just assume say the guy dey mad.....
He's mad after realizing he's been played.