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yinkus6750:
The girl should have allowed him go with the wig, instead of the show of shame been displayed here.
The man really embarrassed himself by going to disrupt the lady's sign out.
He failed to read the obvious signs that the girl was in the relationship for education sponsorship benefit.

That is why I advised men to always collect pussies from her while helping her. Don't be churchy while she will be milking you.

The two of them displayed show of shame. The guy should have left the place immediately because that girl can use sharp objects to harm him.

Berankis:
You just further explained my view up there!
It is simply sense of responsibility but should be done with caution.

Your right
Men are wired to provide for their family and most men see it as God given responsibility.....that's why women live longer than us

Just some weeks ago, a thread was on nairaland asking where are their fathers and listed all the richest men in Nigeria, all still have mothers , but none has a father anymore

Also a survey of the richest women in America was made and it was discovered that the women made their riches from only two sources - both men.
First is those who inherited their fathers wealth.
Second those that made fortunes from divorce settlement.

That's why as a man, Work very hard and play even harder cos at the end of the day it's not guaranteed that you will get a return for all your investments

SQLmastar:
It is totally wrong and inhumane to try to retrieve a gift as paltry as a wig, from a lady you previously dated.
A gift is not meant to be retrieved. Did he sign an agreement with her prior to the wig gift?
The guy is too petty!

Wigs are expensive these days. Some worth 500k or more. He bought it to invest in the relationship. Since the investment is not working let him do what he wishes.

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

The guy should just walk away.lesson learnt.spend what you could afford to lose on a woman.collecting wig or weapon is petty and childish. What he should have collected before is common sense

This video made 😂😂😂.

Grateful that I have never been in a situation where a man will snatch my wig off my head and hold it hostage. Lmao!🤣🤣

Ungrateful... B...
No sponsor any B if no B ur family relative.

When we tell una to dress natural, una go dey put goatie hair and some hair wey some bad oyibos girls don use before on top una heads. See the shame na. Because of wig many ladies leave their hair unkempt. Big Shane! Remove am!!!
Yeye boyfriend and girlfriend. U serious fellas

AllBlack:
This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen.
Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper she just met and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the man wey give her the power wey I blame.

I'm currently experiencing the same in my relationship.
I had to end the relationship on 2nd of this September.
My babe went for service and left our relationship of 4yrs for a guy he meet @NYSC.

This is someone I wanted to marry immediately she is done with her service. This was our plan, but because of a guy she just meet she left and said I should console my self.

The one thing that made it easy for me to move on was because I didn't not invest much on her apart from money spent on airtime calling her.

Duo painful, but lessons learned. Don't make mistake of thinking that your babe cannot do shit. Be guarded and have it at back of your mind that anything is possible thus proceed with caution.

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

when will men start having sense when it comes to spending on women, kudos to the girl the man really deserve it. Foolish man

starpower:
See most just start feeling over special with such sacrifices. Better to start with someone who won't derail one progress. I am currently supporting someone but really it not worth it, it prevents one from knowing there true motives in the relationship. The word is DESIST.

me too. But this girl loves and always waiting to marry me, infact she is not happy we are not married by now although is very young and comes from a poor background I mean poor. I met her a virgin and the love she has for me is mindblowing. That was what made to be spending on her without consideration. What do you think in this case

I love Geh Geh, God bless Geh Geh Opue!

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

Please take Esthers' hat off of your head, e no fit you at all.

Sue the girl make you sef collect 450k na.





😀😀😂😂

Well, to me. The dude just invested in bie bie bank. Just like what my elder brother used to say back in those days. NEVER YOU INVEST IN BIE BIE BANK! It's just unfortunate for the day dude. Let him just bone and continue with his life. After all, there are many fishes in the river let him throw more net so he can catch the good fish.

Before you pay her fees…. Go and Read EVE by James Hardley Chase. 😂😂

Successsearch90:
me too. But this girl loves and always waiting to marry me, infact she is not happy we are not married by now although is very young and comes from a poor background I mean poor. I met her a virgin and the love she has for me is mindblowing. That was what made to be spending on her without consideration. What do you think in this case

When she sees someone more capable than you

Tears will be your inheritance

Hhh4444:
Lol,where are those that will say "not all women are like that"? Una go learn the hard way. Women don't deserve your kindness. You might be doing what ever you are doing just like a philanthropist would normally do,but women don't see it like that.They see your kindness as foolishness. If you happen to be in their midst when they discuss men,you would vow never to be nice to any of them. Make sure any woman you deal with calls you stingy. The word "stingy" is a compliment from women. One was calling me stingy the other day. I told her I am a proud stingy man. Na so she laugh. Last last we ended up having fun. Money when I go use train woman for school,I go gather the money set fire on am. I go use the money as rizler to roll weed smoke. When I finally understand female nature,I stop to dey dash dem even #100. No be say #100 big pass me,but I hate to be called a fool for giving out my money.

you are doing well my brother and you will go far in life

Praise202:
When she sees someone more capable than you

Tears will be your inheritance

lmao
You clearly don't know her.

She can't leave me cos she is not like that

This useless men / boys will never learn....... whenever they see dis type of thing happened to others, they will always think dia babe is different

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

Almajiri don drop quote

EvilMerodack:
Where are those always preaching "If a woman is worth it..."?

The fact that it worked out well in your case doesnt make it a norm. In fact, when making sweeping statements, exceptions are noted and they dont invalidate it

When people say "All women/men are this", they sure know not all are like that, but the few exceptions dont make the rule, they are part of the rule

If i would need to search down to a bag of beans to find a non-beans content in it, then its still safe to call the entire bag a bag of beans. The other foreign materials in it dont invalidate the tag

Someone was just advising me to train in girl in school, to discuss with her to promise not to betray me so after school she and I will get married, I told him no way in hell.

God forbid, let me get her pregnant first and put her in my house then she can be going to school from my house period.

Successsearch90:
me too. But this girl loves and always waiting to marry me, infact she is not happy we are not married by now although is very young and comes from a poor background I mean poor. I met her a virgin and the love she has for me is mindblowing. That was what made to be spending on her without consideration. What do you think in this case

similar here but I tried to leave early because i notice how fast she was seeking approval, pregnancy entered, we are married but really in economic terms the risk is too much. We love with irrational thinking, reality set in. If you are young let them go and develop themselves, in most situations 💯 if things turns around will they choose one. I see how my wife stare at other guys around me, knew chances are I better be careful with future, it just my observation, i didn't complain on it, she is an adult with are independent choices. I don't over do support right from time. Am stoic in thoughts. My focus is always to be appreciative of myself, take quality time to value myself and I wrote my will early. Better always to find someone who has greatly invested in themselves, as you have, instead of falling for emotionally exploitation.

But she could send him messages requesting for those monies repeatedly

AllBlack:
This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen.
Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper she just met and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the ma
n wey give her the power wey I blame.

Lol🤣🤣🤣🤣

AllBlack:
This one is 1000 times smaller than the ones I have seen.
Years ago in NYSC camp, I saw a girl sitting on the laps of a corper she just met and receiving the call of the man that paid all her school fees and bills and even her camp bills. Nothing she no tell that man. She blasted him till he started crying and begging her. All for a corper she met 3 days ago but I don't blame her one bit. Na the man wey give her the power wey I blame.

a fool in love gets parted with his money
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........ Thats why I've plenty goat farm. I dey cashout yearly

luminouz:
You are advising people to desist yet you are CURRENTLY SUPPORTING someone?

Why don't you take your own advice huh?

so if I made a mistake, but circumstances reduces my chances of outright loss, I should also mislead others into gambling. There are situations that can put you in such conditions, you just leave it to chance after noticing your decision are irrational. Emotions are not something to count on, it changes faster than one thinks, see if your honest with thyself, you will know some bad decisions 😉, that the outcome was good, but you can't pretend that type of decisions process is not sustainable. I have a older customers, they are both friends, I swear the outcome was opposite for each. But that because his other friend actually accepted reality like me not to over support, anytime he is in my office, he will emphasize, I shouldn't over support o.

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

no God use am na blinded love use am

boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kebnCh2wE_w?si=urDk0QF2RguOiUJX

A Nigerian lady shocked many after telling her boyfriend, “Did I tell you to train me in school?” when he tried to collect his wig back on her graduation sign-out day.

I wonder why some guys ney dey use their brain follow woman instead them go dey their sense , this na the result of using sense with woman

Difrent:
Were you there
You no know say women can lie? No just assume say the guy dey mad.....
He's mad after realizing he's been played.

He shouldn't give what he can't forget. That display was childish, on someone's daughter sign out day, which was supposed to be her happy day. See as em spoil am because of giving. Givers are meant to be humble and blessed not arrogant.