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TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

Well said. My only challenge here is that many of you will not say the same thing if the situation was reversed. Imagine a man trained by a GF turn against her? Would you say the same thing?

Hhh4444:
e get the level of understanding for woman matter when you go get,you go realize say na you even suppose dey owe her marriage not the other way around. Marriage should be a reward package you gift her for been a good gal friend. I wonder why a man would now be begging a woman to marry him. It's such a shame any time I hear or see such. It means that the man doesn't even understand the power dynamics in romantic relationships.

A cultured man you're and I tip my hat to that.

Most men are still in the dark, more reason folks like GehGeh and all this X patriarchy fellas are going for the kill, not all will be liberated but to the few who will sit and see things for what it is, I raise a glass.

Reason why I ignore messages for help from females. It is when they need help that they can say anything.

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

Why won't she be right,because of u lots are ungrateful soul,when he was busy spending school feed and allowance she dnt say this and what happened to her parents,now the guy might have noticed some foul play thats why he waited this late,the guy needs to enroll in ghe ghe school of common sense, we the student have been warned against people like you

Na this ugly thing dey scam my brother, he disappointed the brotherhood.
Never sponsor a girl you have not married to school, and you want to sponsor to school, the school must be close and she must be going from home with belle or baby.

So some of my brotherhood never wise

He should have used that money to buy male and female goats. Sorry, man.

Bwilliam:
Please take Esthers' hat off of your head, e no fit you at all.

wildernessVoice:
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ALMAJIRI ON WIGS

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You are right. I know idiots who make such useless investment. Others should learn.

TheHatofEsther:
She's right. You were just used by God for that aspect. She doesn't owe you anything.
There even other men that setup business for ladies and don't expect anything back

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

Ladies should know that some guys can go a long mile to harm them.they should be careful,if you know the guy is not your taste try and be stopping him not to spend on you.

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

Now ask this money miss road dude what he achieved training this lady?

The only thing he can take home for training her is the reward of sex. Time, money, energy and resources wasted.

They will always learn the hard way, gone are the days when I used to blame the female folks for things like this.

Any man wey no wan get sense please teach him a lesson by using his senses.

Any woman that is telling you that money is the reason SHE can love you then JUST know she is a thief. WALK AWAY!

LOVE IS FREE, IT HAS BEEN LIKE THAT SINCE THE CREATION OF THE WORLD. LOVE CAN NEVER BE BOUGHT WITH SILVER AND GOLD.

MAKE UNA TRY GET SENSE!

emmykk:
Ladies should know that some guys can go a long mile to harm them.they should be careful,if you know the guy is not your taste try and be stopping him not to spend on you.

Oga go and train your sisters, brothers and nieces.

The only women you must train outside your blood sister and daughter is your WIFE and the less privilege.

emmykk:
Ladies should know that some guys can go a long mile to harm them.they should be careful,if you know the guy is not your taste try and be stopping him not to spend on you.

You know ladies won't stop at draining a guy who won't see the signs on her face that she doesn't love him. Some guys even when the girl tells them they don't have common feelings the next they'll do is send money.

starpower:
similar here but I tried to leave early because i notice how fast she was seeking approval, pregnancy entered, we are married but really in economic terms the risk is too much. We love with irrational thinking, reality set in. If you are young let them go and develop themselves, in most situations 💯 if things turns around will they choose one. I see how my wife stare at other guys around me, knew chances are I better be careful with future, it just my observation, i didn't complain on it, she is an adult with are independent choices. I don't over do support right from time. Am stoic in thoughts. My focus is always to be appreciative of myself, take quality time to value myself and I wrote my will early. Better always to find someone who has greatly invested in themselves, as you have, instead of falling for emotionally exploitation.

wow. We are exactly in the same situation the only difference is that have not married her yet. I want to ask, does have children with you? If so, and she is still staring at other guys suggestively, then wow. It is truly dangerous. a risk.
And we love each other so much ehn. Like she literally dying for me. And she also wants us to get married quick. What do you suggest I do

hoygift:
But if you look well she no beg am true true, some guys no fit talk, read body language, them just carry that mentality say if you spend money on woman she go automatically love you. Even in the stone age it was never like that.

lol so ghe ghe was right all along.this guy just used his life to prove ghe ghe right

SAMBARRY:
lol so ghe ghe was right all along.this guy just used his life to prove ghe ghe right

Even if they're 20 gheghe the matter no go go down.

Saybal:
Even with all these videos and enlightenment more men are still falling victim to all this Almajiri on wigs

"Almajiri on wigs" got me laughing out rolling on the floor 🤣 🤣 🤣. Thumb up bro!

NeoWanZaeed:
Stupid content

Is it a content?

Ladies are all ingrates. They are like toddlers.
Every time you buy sweet for a kid, I love you daddy. The day you forgot to buy, I won't play with you again daddy. You're not my friend.

I trained the one I called wife in some courses. She finished, and told me. I have done nothing special. Today we are no more together.

You see this life ehn, just be hard on ladies and they will respect you and even love you. Be nice and yould be taken for a Mumu.

That's the truth young guys, be careful.

StoryHaven:
Ladies are all ingrates. They are like toddlers.
Every time you buy sweet for a kid, I love you daddy. The day you forgot to buy, I won't play with you again daddy. You're not my friend.

I trained the one I called wife in some courses. She finished, and told me. I have done nothing special. Today we are no more together.

You see this life ehn, just be hard on ladies and they will respect you and even love you. Be nice and yould be taken for a Mumu.

That's the truth young guys, be careful.

lol...just imagine. This one na even your own wife...when I dey tell them say wife is not excluded,them go think say na joke.

Hhh4444:
lol...just imagine. This one na even your own wife...when I dey tell them say wife is not excluded,them go think say na joke.

My wife bro. She had School Cert. When I married her. Now she is a bilingual secretary. Long story guy.
I use to dislike guys calling soft guys SIMPS but ladies like my wife prove them right.
Just be hard and merciless even if you love them dearly and they will respect and love you.

The only thing I love about the comments here is that no woman was exempted. The guys said "all women". Even the one that called me bitter says he cannot give woman N100, na only knack e fit give. I always knew I didn't miss out on anything. Na why I never fail to tell them to go and marry who they like and leave me.


As for the lady in the post, an ingrate she is.
I recommend parents training their kids. Whatever you have to do, please do it. So they don't become indebted to anyone and think they have to pay with a commitment as serious as marriage. My heart goes out to the guy.

EmperorIsaac:
Ubunja has sufficiently addressed this issue. Men need sense to regulate the "sex resource".

Please, the link to ubunja's material on this

Karma will surely call then she il ask again.

stainzvill:
E better make I train broilers than to train woman wey I never pay anything on top her head

Even the one wey you pay for anything can happen. The only thing I tell people is, learn how to move on and be ready for everything in life.

FaAbData:
Please, the link to ubunja's material on this

Search his name...and check his profile. You'd see unlimited links bordering on this subject!

Jakarta:
An uncle is battling almost same thing currently. Invested heavily on a stark illiterate that doesn't even know how to open a banks door. I created all her bank accounts for her in 2014. After some brushing business boomed, and village girl had turned my uncle to a house boy. Hard lesson learner. The day I will visit the village, that lady will see fire from me.

No go drag wig o 😂

EmperorIsaac:
Search his name...and check his profile. You'd see unlimited links bordering on this subject!

Thanks