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Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by iammolise(m): 9:28am On Sep 06, 2025
YeyeGbami:
Or go knack carry disease, soappy dey solve many problems. Aje!
You get my point 👍
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by ironheart(m): 9:30am On Sep 06, 2025
This re the kind of post we need on nairaland
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Goodlady(f): 9:36am On Sep 06, 2025
fitinwell:
No matter how well you spell this truth, cannot control,sexual appetite among individuals... So the reality here is prevention against unwanted pregnancy...
Durrr. We still believe in chastity.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by fitinwell: 9:53am On Sep 06, 2025
Goodlady:
Durrr. We still believe in chastity.
Who are the "We"

As you type this morning.. can you count how many teenagers indulging sweet sex at there boy friends Lodge?

Even adults not married?

All i'm saying protect yourselves from unnecessary pain and body shaming..
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by donborg(m): 9:55am On Sep 06, 2025
LawWithEbele:
S£x is sweet. But responsibility is sweeter.

Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background. Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Labour stalled. Both mother and child were in danger. Thankfully, the hospital manager prioritised saving lives over money. The CS was done. Mother and child survived.

Then reality struck. They had no essentials. Even ordinary spirit and cotton wool had to be borrowed from other patients.

The baby daddy went out to fetch hot water and pap, promising to return in a few hours. Ten hours later, he was nowhere to be found.

The baby, unable to latch, was given water and glucose. But hunger cannot be deceived. She cried uncontrollably. The mother, who was fit enough to take pap, had nothing to eat. She wept, not from joy, but from hunger.

It took the compassion of strangers to buy a tin of NAN milk for ₦11,500 and food for the mother. That was what kept both alive while waiting for the “Messiah”-the baby daddy.

The lesson is simple:
S£x comes with responsibility. “I love you” does not pay hospital bills.

Ladies, before you spread your legs, ensure there is something in your account. Do not assume the man is capable. Appearance can be deceitful.

To married women, pregnancy is not just about emotions. It is about finances. Do not wait until you are reduced to a welfare case before realising that preparation is key.

I chose to address my gender because we bear the burden of child delivery. But men, do not let erection be your compass. Erection comes with responsibility. I need not say more.

I hope I have spoken to someone.
Have a thoughtful day.

#familylawattorney #familylawyer #arohnwokaebelechukwu #ebelechukwulawfirm
Nigerians and low self esteem.

Imagine Blaming the young man for having no money when it's not his fault but the fault of government for making him broke and unable to pay for hospital Bills, that his mates in South Africa, Europe and America enjoy from their government free of charge.


If breathing air requires money, I'm sure most poor people will have died in this country and beautiful blamed for it.

Man and selfish wickedness na 5 and 6
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by donborg(m): 9:56am On Sep 06, 2025
LawWithEbele:
S£x is sweet. But responsibility is sweeter.

Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background. Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Labour stalled. Both mother and child were in danger. Thankfully, the hospital manager prioritised saving lives over money. The CS was done. Mother and child survived.

Then reality struck. They had no essentials. Even ordinary spirit and cotton wool had to be borrowed from other patients.

The baby daddy went out to fetch hot water and pap, promising to return in a few hours. Ten hours later, he was nowhere to be found.

The baby, unable to latch, was given water and glucose. But hunger cannot be deceived. She cried uncontrollably. The mother, who was fit enough to take pap, had nothing to eat. She wept, not from joy, but from hunger.

It took the compassion of strangers to buy a tin of NAN milk for ₦11,500 and food for the mother. That was what kept both alive while waiting for the “Messiah”-the baby daddy.

The lesson is simple:
S£x comes with responsibility. “I love you” does not pay hospital bills.

Ladies, before you spread your legs, ensure there is something in your account. Do not assume the man is capable. Appearance can be deceitful.

To married women, pregnancy is not just about emotions. It is about finances. Do not wait until you are reduced to a welfare case before realising that preparation is key.

I chose to address my gender because we bear the burden of child delivery. But men, do not let erection be your compass. Erection comes with responsibility. I need not say more.

I hope I have spoken to someone.
Have a thoughtful day.

#familylawattorney #familylawyer #arohnwokaebelechukwu #ebelechukwulawfirm
Nigerians and low self esteem.

Imagine Blaming the young man for having no money when it's not his fault but the fault of government for making him broke and unable to pay for hospital Bills, that his mates in South Africa, Europe and America enjoy from their government free of charge.


If breathing air requires money, I'm sure most poor people will have died in this country and they will be blamed for dying.

Man and selfish wickedness na 5 and 6
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by HenryThegreat1(m): 10:04am On Sep 06, 2025
God bless you abundantly. Great work you are doing.
More characters to ....
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by nonny1212: 10:39am On Sep 06, 2025
LawWithEbele:
S£x is sweet. But responsibility is sweeter.

Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background. Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Labour stalled. Both mother and child were in danger. Thankfully, the hospital manager prioritised saving lives over money. The CS was done. Mother and child survived.

Then reality struck. They had no essentials. Even ordinary spirit and cotton wool had to be borrowed from other patients.

The baby daddy went out to fetch hot water and pap, promising to return in a few hours. Ten hours later, he was nowhere to be found.

The baby, unable to latch, was given water and glucose. But hunger cannot be deceived. She cried uncontrollably. The mother, who was fit enough to take pap, had nothing to eat. She wept, not from joy, but from hunger.

It took the compassion of strangers to buy a tin of NAN milk for ₦11,500 and food for the mother. That was what kept both alive while waiting for the “Messiah”-the baby daddy.

The lesson is simple:
S£x comes with responsibility. “I love you” does not pay hospital bills.

Ladies, before you spread your legs, ensure there is something in your account. Do not assume the man is capable. Appearance can be deceitful.

To married women, pregnancy is not just about emotions. It is about finances. Do not wait until you are reduced to a welfare case before realising that preparation is key.

I chose to address my gender because we bear the burden of child delivery. But men, do not let erection be your compass. Erection comes with responsibility. I need not say more.

I hope I have spoken to someone.
Have a thoughtful day.

#familylawattorney #familylawyer #arohnwokaebelechukwu #ebelechukwulawfirm
You need 1 bo
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Dreamhans1: 10:41am On Sep 06, 2025
MrPresident1:
How do you stifle a biological instinct because of 'responsibility'? What is this responsibility? Sex and reproduction is part of MR NIGER, the characteristics of ALL living things can you stop yourself from breathing, or eating? Can you breath responsibly? Can you be responsible in your growth?

So, only Nigerians have to be 'responsible'? How about Japanese or Chinese or Russians who are facing negative population growth? Do they have to be responsible too? Governments world over are telling their peoples to have more sex and have more children, you're pushing 'responsibility' to Nigerians!

You have destroyed the economics but can do nothing against the biology, so you preach 'responsibility'. What s t u p I d responsibility?

satanic
You are doing well
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Fiscus105(m):
donborg:
Nigerians and low self esteem.

Imagine Blaming the young man for having no money when it's not his fault but the fault of government for making him broke and unable to pay for hospital Bills, that his mates in South Africa, Europe and America enjoy from their government free of charge.


If breathing air requires money, I'm sure most poor people will have died in this country and beautiful blamed for it.

Man and selfish wickedness na 5 and 6
Abi ooo, we should start eulogies Young man without penny, but procreating even more than billionaire.


Is it relationship that would come before money or vice versa?
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Lekby25: 11:18am On Sep 06, 2025
Cum4me:
Everything you said here is pure truth. Most times it's better to masturbate as a man and face you life. A man without money or stable source of income has nothing to do with a woman that's the fact.
Very Bitter Truth
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Jimmy231: 11:27am On Sep 06, 2025
This is Nairaland nah this should not be an advice for an adult
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by donmik: 11:34am On Sep 06, 2025
Lanre1st:
Wetin I hear!!!
Responsibility is sweater or sweeter
All join

Seun can explain better
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by boxypane: 11:43am On Sep 06, 2025
I love this article. More likes for her please. This is one major issue we face in this nation... Especially the northern part. Give birth to what you can cater for.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by saphiere(f): 11:59am On Sep 06, 2025
LawWithEbele:
S£x is sweet. But responsibility is sweeter.

Recently, I witnessed a young girl barely twenty undergo an emergency caesarean section. She came from a humble background. Her “baby daddy” appeared to have nothing except an erection.

Labour stalled. Both mother and child were in danger. Thankfully, the hospital manager prioritised saving lives over money. The CS was done. Mother and child survived.

Then reality struck. They had no essentials. Even ordinary spirit and cotton wool had to be borrowed from other patients.

The baby daddy went out to fetch hot water and pap, promising to return in a few hours. Ten hours later, he was nowhere to be found.

The baby, unable to latch, was given water and glucose. But hunger cannot be deceived. She cried uncontrollably. The mother, who was fit enough to take pap, had nothing to eat. She wept, not from joy, but from hunger.

It took the compassion of strangers to buy a tin of NAN milk for ₦11,500 and food for the mother. That was what kept both alive while waiting for the “Messiah”-the baby daddy.

The lesson is simple:
S£x comes with responsibility. “I love you” does not pay hospital bills.

Ladies, before you spread your legs, ensure there is something in your account. Do not assume the man is capable. Appearance can be deceitful.

To married women, pregnancy is not just about emotions. It is about finances. Do not wait until you are reduced to a welfare case before realising that preparation is key.

I chose to address my gender because we bear the burden of child delivery. But men, do not let erection be your compass. Erection comes with responsibility. I need not say more.

I hope I have spoken to someone.
Have a thoughtful day.

#familylawattorney #familylawyer #arohnwokaebelechukwu #ebelechukwulawfirm
Men are evil. Sent to destroy
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by dequir: 12:27pm On Sep 06, 2025
donborg:
Nigerians and low self esteem.

Imagine Blaming the young man for having no money when it's not his fault but the fault of government for making him broke and unable to pay for hospital Bills, that his mates in South Africa, Europe and America enjoy from their government free of charge.


If breathing air requires money, I'm sure most poor people will have died in this country and beautiful blamed for it.

Man and selfish wickedness na 5 and 6
What's this is one saying?

So government should be paying the boy for having illicit s8x with a young girl, and getting her pregnant with no means of providing for the mother and the baby needs?

Are you saying that the western governments encourage their young citizens by paying them for their irresponsible sexual adventures and the resultant pregnancy too?

You must be living in some dream world of your own creation, and not on this planet earth.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by femi4: 12:37pm On Sep 06, 2025
Thank God for CD...Nigerian population would have doubled
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Galadimabawa: 12:41pm On Sep 06, 2025
God bless you.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by nedekid: 1:15pm On Sep 06, 2025
Those days you hear of sex education, some places even went as far as giving daily pills. Recently we heard of some parents giving their daughters family health options, there was uproar.
A lot of unwanted pregnancy could be avoided by taking cheap daily pills, by using day after pills or even depo provera. How will a girl knack, collect Ice-Cream, then go home and think nothing will happen? Some will look for schwepps drink to use to wash thinking it will stop pregnancy. What of the fellow that will do bumper to bumper then let the girl go without making sure she takes contraceptives, is that not irresponsible?
Sex education needs to be brought back to schools.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Exceed15: 1:33pm On Sep 06, 2025
If you are struggling financially stay away from having a child.. use condom
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by ask4bk(m): 2:59pm On Sep 06, 2025
iammolise:
When i see people painting masturbating doom and gloom makes me ask which is bette; As a man which is better (I) masturbate and maintain control or (ii) get a girl pregnant when you're not ready and put her at risk of abortion and potential lose of life huh
Which one is potential lose of life? Every abortion involves a loss of life. The question is how many lives, one or two?
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by ask4bk(m): 3:02pm On Sep 06, 2025
Goodlady:
Abstinence is key. Pregnancy should only occur in marriage.
Love how you jumped from abstinence is key to pregnancy only in marriage instead of sex.

Are you cool with sex with contraceptive before marriage, or that any thing sex should be only in marriage whether it's goal is pregnancy or not?
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by ask4bk(m): 3:07pm On Sep 06, 2025
Offpoint1:
Have your sex, use your Fxxking protection or calender if ya nigga-raw.

Sex is a necessity as food or air is, don't let nobody tell you otherwise.


Like every other thing, USE YOUR HEAD.
It's not a necessity. The drive is natural but satisfying it isn't a necessity.
It is well documented of people dying for not drinking water, not eating or not breathing. We all know those.
But for millions of years of earth existence, it has never been documented that one person... I mean, one single person has died for not having sex or satisfying the urge.

Rather it has been well documented of humans in history who have lived all their lives as pure virgins. In fact, many people.

So it's not a necessity. Only the urge is natural to everyone
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by Goodlady(f): 3:11pm On Sep 06, 2025
ask4bk:
Love how you jumped from abstinence is key to pregnancy only in marriage instead of sex.

Are you cool with sex with contraceptive before marriage, or that any thing sex should be only in marriage whether it's goal is pregnancy or not?
Abeg shift. We are closing legs. That's final.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by iammolise(m): 4:34pm On Sep 06, 2025
ask4bk:
Which one is potential lose of life? Every abortion involves a loss of life. The question is how many lives, one or two?
I meant the girl losing her life too
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by ask4bk(m): 5:19pm On Sep 06, 2025
iammolise:
I meant the girl losing her life too
Ok... Coz in every successful abortion, at least one human being, the baby, loses life
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by ask4bk(m): 5:21pm On Sep 06, 2025
Goodlady:
Abeg shift. We are closing legs. That's final.
You think i de against?
Pls do that and kindly tell your fellow girls to do same and go hustle instead of opening legs as a currency.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by MERCHANDISER: 6:37pm On Sep 06, 2025
YeyeGbami:
No time bro, if i don know tey tey i go don do am since i dey like 15
you don't know it's permanent?
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by YeyeGbami: 7:36pm On Sep 06, 2025
MERCHANDISER:
you don't know it's permanent?
Ofc i know.
Re: Sex Is Sweet, But Responsibility Is Sweeter -A True Story I Witnessed by kushme: 8:54pm On Sep 06, 2025
MrPresident1:
How do you stifle a biological instinct because of 'responsibility'? What is this responsibility? Sex and reproduction is part of MR NIGER, the characteristics of ALL living things can you stop yourself from breathing, or eating? Can you breath responsibly? Can you be responsible in your growth?

So, only Nigerians have to be 'responsible'? How about Japanese or Chinese or Russians who are facing negative population growth? Do they have to be responsible too? Governments world over are telling their peoples to have more sex and have more children, you're pushing 'responsibility' to Nigerians!

You have destroyed the economics but can do nothing against the biology, so you preach 'responsibility'. What s t u p I d responsibility?

satanic
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