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What I Witnessed Last Night! by mrkings84(m): 9:44am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Good morning Nairalanders. So yesterday as we were watching the Chelsea match in a viewing center, a big, rotund woman, (very big, tall and round) stepped into the arena, at first I didn't really noticed her even though I saw her walked in as I was sitting close to the door (this is my ideal place for sitting when in a large crowd), next thing I heard was a big commanding scream "my friend come with ur phone". At this point, people's attention were drown to the woman who made the high commanding order, and swiftly i wandered to see who the command was to, lo and behold, it was to a man who is much more older than the woman. Older in age, but emaller in stature. And it happens to be her husband. Now I saw the man step back to where he was sitting, unplug his phone from the wall socket, and made way to meet his commanding wife. See, while this was going on, I saw on the man's face some trembling reactions. He was kind of shivering and muttering something which even if everywhere was silent no one would have heard. He was frightened and embarrassed at the same time. Boom!, The man left with his darling wife. Then some people around me reacted by saying, ah, if this woman is this rude to her husband in public that means in their home the man is in soup. And some sort of sayings... "Now, my question is, what should be the right age difference between spouses"? I didn't just like that incident of yesterday. I realized the man was way advance than his wife aside the fact that she was very much bigger than the husband in size. And she appears like a husband beater!! I think this big age differences between spouses may have lots of disadvantages between them in the long run! Most especially when one of the spouses becomes disrespectful and mean. Guys/ Ladies what do u have to say?? 25 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Redoil: 9:49am On Dec 27, 2021 |
my friend mind your business 231 Likes 20 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Omakraid(f): 9:54am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Having regards for people has nothing to do with age. Some people are naturally mean and you can see that even in many kids out there if you watch closely. Even before marriage, such a person would have seen their partner exhibit such callousness towards other people while smiling and exhibiting a nice front towards them. The major problem is in thinking you can manage such because you are a man , before you know, you don turn woman sharp sharp. 56 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by DontBullshitMe: 10:07am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Learn to mind your business. 4 Likes |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Kriss216: 10:33am On Dec 27, 2021 |
DontBullshitMe:But, the OP didn't retaliate, why telling him to mind his business? 122 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by fidelmarshal199: 10:41am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Op. you made mention that the man looks older in the third paragraph, which simply means what the man is passing through has nothing to do with age. so why the questions bout age differences in the last paragraph. 60 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by efficiencie(m): 11:49am On Dec 27, 2021 |
mrkings84: There is no right age difference. Age is just a number and, in my own opinion, not a true reflection of how a person has aged biologically, in terms of wisdom and experience. I have met persons with more years that are outstandingly foolish and persons with fewer years that are remarkably wise. I have met ladies in their 30s that look, act and think younger than ladies in their 20s. So age in terms of how many years spent alive is nothing as far as I am concerned. As far as domestic violence and toxic individuals are concerned age as we know it has nothing to do with it. There are 15 year olds with enough bile and malice to kill to 30 year olds and vice versa. Find your match, irrespective of age difference, and live in accordance with the standards of marriage and you will have no issues...breach this, and you sufferings will never end. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by mrkings84(m): 11:54am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Kriss216:My brother see me see trouble o Person can not share what he saw again in pis? 35 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by mrkings84(m): 11:58am On Dec 27, 2021 |
fidelmarshal199: What I mean is, now the ma is old and weak, while the wife is still young and agile, this makes her wicked domineering untamable by the husband. So, I think people should marry people within the same age bracket so they remain young together and get old together.... 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by mrkings84(m): 11:59am On Dec 27, 2021 |
DontBullshitMe: Uncle I didn't interfere in the issue, just sharing my experience.... I am sorry anyway if u are hurt!! 18 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by ibechris(m): 12:09pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Jidemoo: When u are finally married u will know if age is truly a number? Everybody go just sit down dey talk say age na number,wait make e reach your turn now,we go know how far. 18 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Nobody: 2:05pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
this is No 8th reason I don't want to get married 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by MufasaLion: 3:40pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by espn(m): 4:45pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Okay... |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by MANNABBQGRILLS: 4:45pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
It all depends on the carrier....... Wahala no dey finish for some people biko..... 2 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Mancrossfire: 4:45pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
mrkings84: @ the bolded, the answer to your question is MORE MONEY Because what age and size cannot do MORE MONEY CAN DO IT 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Baratawa: 4:46pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Nigeria 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by paulolee(m): 4:46pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
dt cnt be a Chelsea fan...mayb na arsenal fan, na DM sabi gentle for woman matter.. bt seriously the only advise here is dt, men should marry who dey can handle, nothing dey pain me pass seeing wife de comamand n beat husband.. DM no sabi reach bible wey call man the head of the family naa 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by EkelediliBuhari: 4:46pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
The man ran away from home to find peace in the viewing center but alas it eluded him To be in charge in marriage does not require physical strength but mental and emotional superiority… Ogbeni lost it somewhere 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by inumidun2010(m): 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
The day IHUOMA dialed CELTEL(hot slap) on my FACE, I know say nothing serious can exist between us.... First thought, if I retaliated by slapping her, she might DIE because my hands are so intense, Second thought, if I slapped her , she might fight dirty (Rivers Girl, no insults though), I just WAKAJEJE leave the scene... The last time I went physical with someone was in JSS3... DONT MARRY A BULLY... Man or WOMAN 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Vinnie2000(m): 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Hmmm.. Tori don land oo.. See the number of Space booker's above me though.. Who dey Talk say Nigerian men nor Like Aproko? |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Wazobia2216: 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Hmmmm the man is not responsible, the woman is the breadwinner! You can have small stature and be in control of your home! 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by nonut: 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Redoil: 3 Likes 3 Shares
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Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Princeadebayo11(m): 4:47pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Sometimes age matters in relationship, for me o I need to senior my wife with at least 3 or 4 years. I can't marry someone we will be arguing and you can't tell her to shut up 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by slawormiir: 4:48pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Damnnn niggar Isoright... But bros op ...don't judge by that You will be surprised those couples are the best of friends 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by Agricmoney(m): 4:48pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Hmmm Anyway, Agriculture is life |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by victorazy(m): 4:48pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Ok |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by omoadeleye(m): 4:48pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
Rvbbish |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by FuckDModz: 4:48pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
The “head of house” position can never be void if all stakeholders are alive. The man is probably a useless man that the woman is managing. This is also how most men treat their useless wives. It's just that our society has normalized the maltreatment and disrespect of women. It is what it is. It has nothing to do with age. Face your front. 1 Like |
Re: What I Witnessed Last Night! by EddyNumerouno(m): 4:49pm On Dec 27, 2021 |
lol |
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