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Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky. Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

Krissjones:
I know one stupid mod will move this fabricated rubbish to front page.

Samantha125:
When it comes to traditional white weddings, aren't bridesmaids supposed to be from the bride's side?

Some people just like doing white weddings without understanding their rules and regulations, and why end your wedding plans over a Western wedding ceremony when he could've opted for an African traditional wedding instead? Imagine a British man who doesn't understand anything about African weddings cancelling his African wedding because he's having disputes with his British wife over the ceremony...

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

Chilipepper:
Man cancels wedding after his fiancée refused to let his sister join her bridal train.



https://x.com/Kasieobi_1/status/1963639626704249243?s=19g[/quote]I think they are both lucky. Two people that cannot compromise even one bit will be a disaster in marriage

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

epainos:
➜This issue is a bit technical.
Possibility 1: The lady may be the wahala person.
Possibility 2: The man is controlling.
The story isn't well written to know what to say. If the man said it in a polite manner and asks well, but the lady refuses, then, the man should start getting ready for a real battle. The woman is not ready to accept his family and would most likely create enemity among the man and his siblings.
➜ If the man did not ask politely but is just bullying the lady, or there is a genuine reason for the lady to reject the sister, but the guy is taking it...the guy is a controlling figure.

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

What'll a man do with a woman who's not submissive?

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

Fuckyoumod:
it's obvious he doesn't have a say or influence over her.

If you don't have a say or influence over your woman whether wife or wife to be, then you are a dimwit. If you are not a dimwit, Then what are you doing with such a woman?

A woman must learn to listen, go around and see what's happening to marriages and friendships where women don't listen to their men. Chaos and disaster! is all they bring to the table.

Men make una try get sense like this guy, I'm proud of him. 99% of men would have trivialized her stubbornness and disrespect and moved on with the wedding.

After marriage what next? The man will go right she will go left, the man will say stand up, she will tell him sit down. Two captains will emerge in the marriage and the roof will crash on the man.

Let her remain in her father's house.

fyneboi79:
No! No!! No!!! The rationale behind the cancellation is her inability to be accommodating even to his own sibling?
Haba Sammy,how will you feel if your elder brother is sponsoring a vacation with his friends and their wives and he asks you to come along with your husband but his wife says no but will rather have another couple?

JuanDeDios:
➜What makes you think he won't have allowed her brother into this groom's men?
➜ Asking his wife to let his sister participate that way on their big days equals controlling? ? ? This post makes no sense at all.

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

Kobojunkie:
A controlling man is never a good man for a woman. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on why that is always true. A controlling man ends up reducing the woman he is in a relationship with to a husk of a human.

2. He paid for it; therefore, all of her efforts she put into making sure the ceremony he paid for turns out the best, is to be considered a useless effort? Many Nigerian women struggle with seriously low self-esteem, and that is why a whole load of them end up with men who reason like you do. Very sad situation indeed.

Kobojunkie:
He cancelled the marriage because he could not get his own sister into the woman's bridal train? Would he have allowed the girl's brother or cousin, or male friend, in as one of his groom's men? 😏

Anyways, red flag na red flag! They both dodged a bullet there and should count themselves lucky.

Women, please stop marrying controlling men. Your worth to these types of men comes down to whether they can control you or not. And the end is never good as your beings are reduced to near nothing by all of that control. Go ask your mothers and grandmothers for details on that.

Kobojunkieee:
You are right that the question was unnecessary. It really shouldn't impact whether she should allow another on her train or not, really.

2. The role is not for his sister, though. It is instead for the women his bride has carefully picked to be her +2 on that day. His cancelling the wedding because his wife did not pick his sister screams of a man with control issues— it is akin to a child throwing a tantrum of sorts for not getting its way. If you don't know what that means, I suggest you make Google your friend.

wellmax:
You can come back with this comparison after any African country colonised Britain.

ikennamadu1:
The guy also dodged a bullet .. if you can't accommodate my family then why I'm I getting married to you.... But your brothers and sisters can come and stay with us.. your brothers can join grooms men.. unwise women everywhere.

SeeWahala:
Why is it that anytime I see your posts I always picture you typing with one hand and puffing weed with the other one?

pocohantas:
Bridal train isn't random.
It is for shared bond and moments.
I have a brother and the thought of being my SIL's bridesmaid never crossed my mind. Even when I was picked to hold the money of the day, it was by her aunty and mother _obviously because she told them I am the one she can trust in our family. Given hers were busy with food and all. Immediately I was done, I handed the money to her. My mum kept asking me how much it was and I said I DIDN'T TAKE NOTE. She knew I was lying, but what can she do?

There would be intimate gists between her and her friends a night before. So what am I doing in their midst? Did not being there affect my our relationship till date? No! Women that allow their brothers/sons use them as tools to cause his wife unrest are the biggest f●●ls.