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Procashtips:
Even if she's a member of an armed robbery gang, child traffickers, kidnappers or even drug carrier?

Oga, in the context of this video, your question is ridiculous..

You should be more concerned about the painful and sad disagreement between them, not what she does for a living.

Even if she be 0losho sef, na every 0losho dey make am?

Buziness101:
In Germany where I live... 21yr olds take 100% charge and responsibility for their lives....

Do they take responsibilities for all their parents kids too like we have in this case?

I feel the girl's pain.

Even housing them in the first place is not easy nowadays.

Rent is not easy anymore oohh

Whatever the beef, they should be on their knees apologizing not grandstanding.

I heard something from that small boy, saying Money that's not your own? Please what does that mean? Maybe that girl doesn't work for the money. The girl should take it easy, the person who doesn't have money today may have money tomorrow.

And why is a family spat on social media? This is just disgraceful. A generation that does not understand the concept of boundaries

PepeXKermit:
What is a 21 year old doing to be able to house 4 siblings if no be olosho work she dey do.

the source of the money isn't really the point of discussion, the real deal here is her comfort and enjoyment of her personal space. She paid for these things.

Ishilove:
And why is a family spat on social media? This is just disgraceful. A generation that does not understand the concept of boundaries

what is disgraceful is that you believe this social media BS

where is a 21 year old getting money to rent and furnish and maintain a house?

how is it that the parents are not in the picture?

Procashtips:
➜Even if she's a member of an armed robbery gang, child traffickers, kidnappers or even drug carrier?

Does someone who is a member of any of what you listed there deserve to be made to carry a burden that belongs to their parents or something? 🥱🥱🥱

Nice skit

Keep it coming

Nwaikpe:
➜It matters. It very much matters. We have overlooked these for so long that our society has normalized some vices.

Overlooked what exactly?

ddippset:
Oga, in the context of this video, your question is ridiculous..

You should be more concerned about the painful and sad disagreement between them, not what she does for a living.

Even if she be 0losho sef, na every 0losho dey make am?

You're the one jumping the gun.

My comment was directed at the comment I quoted, not the video.

I hope comprehension is not the issue here.

I didn't even mention anything about olosho or whatever!

Kobojunkie:
Does someone who is a member of any of what you listed there deserve to be made to carry a burden that belongs to their parents or something? 🥱🥱🥱

Whatever burden being carried is not the question here. The question is at what cost?

ajalawole:
➜it really matter. Who not teach her sibling how to fish rather then giving them fish. When i lost my dad my eldest sister ask us to learn skills and refuse to sponsor our education, I ignore her and went on to sponsor myself and our last born twins in school and it make use distance ourself from her. Here we are now all grown up, she is doing well and own a catarijg school in Lagos. We dey here dey hustle for midnight. Well we are back together now and she has also notice and learn from her mistake even though she is married now..

Well, this is all good for you, but we are not all built the same and do not all mature at the same rate as you, so you should learn not to set yourself as the standard as far as maturity for others. At 21, many of us were still incapable of reasoning life in the way you claim in your comment above.

Procashtips:
➜Whatever burden being carried is not the question here. The question is at what cost?

Maybe you should go back and reread the comment you responded to, as that is what it was about.

Where are their parents/Guardians? These are gen z kids that shouldn't be left on their own before they kill themselves.

Hmmm ....this is likely in the US. At 21 ...many live on their own... have jobs and car ...normal stuff. Maybe she works two jobs or long hours to make the bills....maybe in the hope that her siblings will find jobs and help foot the bills or move on. Th least th y can do is show her respect and keep her house tidy but neither seems to be the case ... looks like they're entitled to never ending all inclusive vacation. I don't blame her..... that's stress....24/7. They need to go.

drLammy:
I honestly feel bad for the young girl and the level of entitlement displayed by the siblings.
I would have thought she may be in the wrong because the three of them are against her but its mostly possible its an association of entitled broke people in which they often share similar views.
Where's their parents sef?!
I think all of them need to get the hell out of her house and help her mental health.

you re intelligent bro. You nailed it. Some f**ls up here are saying the 3other siblings can’t go against her at once.
That other boy sef no get shame.

Kobojunkie:
Maybe you should go back and reread the comment you responded to, as that is what it was about.

I did and it came from you.

The siblings are just ungrateful and entitled.
It is not easy to live with family members and at 21 kudos to her for taking up the mantle of leadership even though she’s not the eldest.

Clairvoyancy:
The matter get as e be abeg .. not easy to judge....


Whether she feeds them or not, they should accord her some respects, accomodating one person sef is not easy, not to talk of 3... Judging from that video, that tall guy is the eldest, and he's trying to exhibit that senior bro ego, dude needs to calm down for whoever is paying the bills, if he enter street go face the cold reality for like 3 months alone, then he would know the weight of what that little girl is doing....



Secondly, make she sef calm down oo, tables do turn oo... I'm not even talking about her getting poor while her siblings becomes rich, no, dat wan na Nigerian movie.. but I can sense from her utterances, that feeling that one gets when getting it young, I mean that puff up feelings that make you feel on top of the world.... She shouldn't break the bond between them just because of minor issues that can be addressed with patience....


Like someone said, her mental health is important, yes that's true, she can reset their brain by pretending to go broke, and then share the bills accordingly to everyone of them except the last born who's under age, I believe by then, everybody go calm down when she keeps reminding them daily of how the landlord will throw them out in few months if they are unable to pay rent...

Btw, e no really concern me tho, but I go like know how she dey make her money that she's able to shelter 3 grown ups....

E no concern you and you wrote this epistle?

RodgersAkpafu:
is this what you should be asking ?
What's wrong with u ppl

It is you who doesn't realize that you are the one we should be asking what is wrong with you people..that guys concern about what she does is Very valid.

All I see are ungrateful teenagers. I'm imagining the level of disrespect that pushed her into this state.

Send their ungrateful asses out. They will never appreciate u not matter ur sacrifices. Moreover, they not ur responsibility. The way they are talking they never be there for u when u need them

luminouz:
E no concern you and you wrote this epistle?

You sabi read so? Na how she dey make her money I tok say no really concern me oga

They have already conspired against her, no doubt.

Why kick family out?

Buziness101:
In Germany where I live... 21yr olds take 100% charge and responsibility for their lives....

in where?
Na Germany u talk na.
Here na hard knock life bro.

Sonnobax15:
Listen to Yourself . Is Germany the same with Nigeria?

Lol he forgot himself,or maybe he just wants us to know he lives in 🇩🇪

Rubbish

TKVick:
I just watched the video and what I can deduce from it is:
1. For three of her siblings to be against her, means the fault is from the girl recording the video.
2. The younger brother comment "money that is not your own" means that it's not the girl that really owns the money she is using to oppress her siblings.
I don't know what is the essence of recording this video, for inside family issue that can just be resolved.
All this girls sef small money Don enter hand,now they are feeling like God, something men Dey do on a steady we nor Dey see am for social media😕😟

Smartphone in the hands of a girl nowadays is more of a nuisance than useful. Pririm they have started recording and divulging something meant to be kept secret.

Clairvoyancy:
You sabi read so? Na how she dey make her money I tok say no really concern me oga

And you compiled all that epistle and YET YOU DIDNT CARE?
cho cho cho like parrot!!!

luminouz:
And you compiled all that epistle and YET YOU DIDNT CARE?
cho cho cho like parrot!!!

Na true you talk my broda, how are you feeling now? 😊