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Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

What an indictment against the man she was married to. She took the kids but abandoned him. Yikes!

Kobojunkie:
What an indictment against the man she was married to. She took the kids but abandoned him. Yikes!

A serious indictment against the man indeed that his wife has to run so far away from him.

Congratulations to both parties. Life continues for both of them

Hmmm fowl play some where.
Guy hope you are good to your wife too?

Obviously she needed to escape from him

All this married men will learn the hard way .....

I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.

The love in that marriage has seen gone out through the window and they both know it!

It's appears to be a complicated situation.
It's hard to lay the blame solely on either "spice" (), as there are really no winners here.
I can only hope that their situation improves with time and all parties find some healing.

When they say u should treat ur wives well...na him be this.

Some men are domestic lions at home while being docile at other women outside.

It is obvious that this man didn't treat his wife well at all.

The kids ain't his i suspect, us embassy will ask paternity test, and request father's consent. Except the rules has changed.

No be the same USA we dey or na another one?
She has several ladders that await her here.
Before she arrives, inform her that no one dashes money like that over here like we do in Nigeria.
You can't sustain family here solely via begging.
Finally sleeping around doesn't pay much here because men avoid women a lot here not to talk of a black woman with baggage. That's a huge turn off. We also have a new sheriff.
She better unblocks her spouse.

LilMissFavvy:
I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.

When I read post like this, I laughed. You talked as if you have seen the future and knowing what lies ahead.

We Nigerians sha...

It's not good for a wife to take a decision a big decision without involving her husband this is very bad, though , I don't know her reason

Hmnnnn

The heart of WOman is desperately wicked oo

No lose guarding.

All these one-sided stories.

Men will be beasts for so long and God forbid the woman tries to do something for herself to move on.

Actions have consequences. That woman go hear am when the time comes.

Who knows you are the owner of the kids or she has taken them to the real father…check the travel documents very well, they already declared you dead and procured your death certificate for travel purposes.

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Either a terrible wife or a terrible husband... Whoever is the terrible, let him or her carry his or her cross

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Such an absent-minded man. Was he living in an another city? He couldn't even suspect anything? When we hear from the wife, she will have much to say to support her decision.

There are no winners here. They are all losers. Even those of us reading this might be affected. Some men will be more untrusting of their wives after reading this while some women might want to copy same. All the same any woman that tries this might not get same result.

Somebody shout power



Character for what ehn Seun?

I wonder, who will b paying the children bills,

Or is it all milk and horney while in the US,.

The husband is not the biological father of d children. Their biological father in US did the processing for the wife and the children to reunite with him.

Many things go on under your nose not to talk of when you are not always around.

It is obvious the woman is seeing another man. She couldn't have planned all that alone and besides, she no longer lovers the husband. Most women are dangerous and can't be trusted. The man should stay away before his life gets involved.

I blame the man and everyone who pushed him to marry the evil woman.
I also blame those who kept on encouraging him to tolerate her. Now the man has lost everything. And will hate anything that does not have a phallus.

The owner of those children have come for his right

Many marriages are only on papers, not in real life.