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LilMissFavvy:
I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.

If this man had been your brother I know you won't make this comment. As we pray together such treatment won't happen to members of our family. Amen

Sir point of correction she was once your wife but now no longer your wife so just tell her it's finish and she must not take any of your child with her or go and do the DNA collect the ones that belong to you and let her go when she get there she will understand US is not a bed of roses.

If she can go this farthen it s over infact you are lucky she didn't kpai you since. Women are like that after their evil damage is done they wll start crocodile tears and be using Jesus tto beg despite they have their own plan anybody that tells you to bee dancing over this is your enemy because she will ends up divorce you so better divorce yourself now before you f ace more shame.

Which reason she get to abscond with d kids without the man’s consent or knowledge. I hope she knows yankee no Dey like before u can go and overstay your visa. If d man nah wicked person it’s for him to let d relevant authorities treat her matter. He can always inform ICE when she overstays and they will do the needful. Since she get mind to runaway with his kids. Him too suppose too.

I am surprise that most people will believe the man is bad so she ran away, while this is angle to it, what if
1. The woman was the cheating one and had all this planned out with her cheating partner.
2. The woman could have found new hobbies and which the man may not support and wi seek her freedom since marriage to her is a bondage and may have gone there to be single for life after all she has gotten kids she wanted through the man.
3. The woman maybe a lesbian and since Naija is hostile to this, may have just gone to be with her lover or find her.
4. The man may not be interested in leaving naija and she wants to jappa by all means. So she does it without the man.
5. The marriage has become boring, even maybe affecting her health and tired she doesn't want to go through the rigours of divorce and this may not be because the man is inhuman. Their relationship may just not be working.
6. The man is evil, wife beater and the woman needs to run for her life.

Despite all the reasons above whichever one you align with or even more that I didn't write, are you aware that she has committed an offence and the man does not deserve to be treated in this manner.
Let's put ourselves in the shoes of the man. If you are a woman, imagine a man does this to you or if it was done to the brother of yours that you love.
Thanks fir reading

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

APOPTOSIS:
No be the same USA we dey or na another one?
She has several ladders that await her here.
Before she arrives, inform her that no one dashes money like that over here like we do in Nigeria.
You can't sustain family here solely via begging.
Finally sleeping around doesn't pay much here because men avoid women a lot here not to talk of a black woman with baggage. That's a huge turn off. We also have a new sheriff.
She better unblocks her spouse.

Gbsmsulotey

The Just side, shall win the battle.

He is probably not the legit father of those children. If you know you know

She was enduring in the marriage, from abuse and domestic violence.

Why is he complaining, he should go and apply for his own

oyeb15:
The husband is not the biological father of d children. Their biological father in US did the processing for the wife and the children reunite with him.

Many things go on under your nose not to talk of when you are not always around.

Surely

starpower:
The kids ain't his i suspect, us embassy will ask paternity test, and request father's consent. Except the rules has changed.

U are right on this..

This man has been betrayed, I can feel his pain. Like his life is going to collapse, he has seen the other side of a woman. So sad

Kobojunkie:
What an indictment against the man she was married to. She took the kids but abandoned him. Yikes!

Who can tell if he is the biological father of the kids! Women have all the secrets to life oh!

LilMissFavvy:
I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.

Lol. Never disappointed. Kundus fun yin o. Judging a situation you knew nothing about.

APOPTOSIS:
No be the same USA we dey or na another one?
She has several ladders that await her here.
Before she arrives, inform her that no one dashes money like that over here like we do in Nigeria.
You can't sustain family here solely via begging.
Finally sleeping around doesn't pay much here because men avoid women a lot here not to talk of a black woman with baggage. That's a huge turn off. We also have a new sheriff.
She better unblocks her spouse.

Did the wife specifically tell you she has no means to fend herself and kids? Or the thought of negativities on her person makes y'all pained males cope better seeing that a woman stood on business over men this time around?

starpower:
The kids ain't his i suspect, us embassy will ask paternity test, and request father's consent. Except the rules has changed.

This is a made up story. Very easy to identify because they always happened to one unnamed friend.

You can't take kids without your spouse or other parent permission and even if this happened, he can mess her up wherever she is right now so, I don't see any need for wasting time posting on social media instead of taking direct action if what she did pained me. Nigerian men are getting more effeminate every day

LilMissFavvy:
I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.

now I understand why young boys of now adays are afraid of commiting to ladies. What a generation!!!

starpower:
The kids ain't his i suspect, us embassy will ask paternity test, and request father's consent. Except the rules has changed.

Dem don go meet their father and original husband.

The guy just Dey chase shadows unknown to him

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

well this is just one side of the story. There must be a reason why the wife acted in such a manner .

Kobojunkie:
What an indictment against the man she was married to. She took the kids but abandoned him. Yikes!

Hope it would also have been an indictment against his wife if it was the man that pulled off that relocation and abandonment stunt.

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

The story has some issues?

The 🇺🇸USA Embassy would normally required the consent of the parents for the children's VISA application.

Did the husband sign a consent document or did the wife falsify his consent or.......

KillahPriest:
You can't take kids without your spouse or other parent permission and even if this happened, he can mess her up wherever she is right now so, I don't see any need for wasting time posting on social media instead of taking direct action if what she did pained me. Nigerian men are getting more effeminate every day

You made a salient point.

I seriously doubt this story. By law, a husband or wife cannot take under aged children outside Nigeria without the consent of the other spouse. Recall the case of Davido and Sophia Momodu.

If by any chance it is true, he should contact the relevant agency in USA so Trump and ICE can finish the rest.

People just sit down and fabricate stories to trend.

Shawarmagirl:
Old news is now being thread as new news in Nairaland. Nairaland is outdated of current news.

If you need current news, go buy newspapers and stop nagging shamelessly.

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Is okay for me, good women also get dupped by fraudulent men, so something must promt this action.

budaatum:
A serious indictment against the man indeed that his wife has to run so far away from him.

Hmmm....that's another angle to the story, thought-provoking

well, you can't say maybe she has her sponsor over there, and also the children may not be the guys kids. so it goes a long way.

APOPTOSIS:
No be the same USA we dey or na another one?
She has several ladders that await her here.
Before she arrives, inform her that no one dashes money like that over here like we do in Nigeria.
You can't sustain family here solely via begging.
Finally sleeping around doesn't pay much here because men avoid women a lot here not to talk of a black woman with baggage. That's a huge turn off. We also have a new sheriff.
She better unblocks her spouse.

Na Mumu dey trust woman

This is the classical example of when two unfriendly friends are living together as husband and wife. Man you have to refresh your life and begin a new life. Hustle harder and make it i promise you this your so called wife will come back begging. some people thought that money is being on a tree in USA until you travel and see.

duduade:
Obviously she needed to escape from him

Are you married? If no, no worries. You see married people, only you knows what you're doing.

A married woman that was just friends with me started catching feelings. She was bold enough to tell me and suggested we relocate to Canada and get married there. I told her I wasn't interested in any of that. I maintained the friendship and didn't give in. She's currently in Canada with her kids.