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Kobojunkie:
What an indictment against the man she was married to. She took the kids but abandoned him. Yikes!

..he would not had allowed her to take away the kids

Why did you allow her to take the children away...they are also your children

God bless that woman,she certainly escaped from something horrible.

Most blames are on the man without wondering what the woman is up to. Men, guard yourselves.

Nobe the man get those children before

The husband should just do DNA test on the kids.

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

We don't know the whole story..... something must have prompt such actions..

If he presses charges, deportation straight.

This is tantamount to kidnapping/child trafficking.

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Very simple secure your own on move on, or if you can't get just be close to your children so they can be sending you dollars but your wife no try all the say e get why

The owner of the children has carried his kids and the man’s wife

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

make dem Dey go na.ur kids will later reach out to u.we worry ourself too much o.if u don’t build ur life in a way that Nthg moves u any more u may not be able to get to 40yrs.

Hope those children are his. Most of the time a woman's hatred for her husband starts a long time before plot. The man must have ignored several signals. When you have such a wife, it is better not to strive with her - let her be.

LilMissFavvy:
I guess he wasn't giving his wife peace, she left to find the peace that was missing at home. He may also have been cheating on her, oga you can't be eating your cake and still have it.

I guess she thinks she played a fast one on him and ran away with his kids.
But it is better to survive as a cunning person in Nigeria than doing it in the US. More hoops awaits.

Kobojunkie:
What an indictment against the man she was married to. She took the kids but abandoned him. Yikes!

Most likely the kids aren't his and she has eloped with their real father

Wahala wahala wahala....reason behind her decision is that she get money pass you Oga (100% correct), and I'm very sure you've been sideline your responsibilities on both your wife and the children.
She's heartless sa.

The man is a bad person

Shawarmagirl:
Old news is now being thread as new news in Nairaland. Nairaland is outdated of current news.

A lot of you on Nairaland are getting something wrong. Nairaland is not a news site. It is a forum like Reddit, Quora and the likes where members can visit any section of the forum to discuss any topic created by them or fellow members that catches their fancy.

And they can also visit the front page to catch up on any topic moved from any of the sections to the front page by the moderator in charge. The topic does not have to be a breaking news. It might even be on an issue that happened 50 or 400 years ago. That is why it is called a forum.

If you are only interested in news, CNN, Channels, TVC et al are duly at your service and not forums like Nairaland or Reddit.

As a man always know that women only appreciate what they see presently. They can forget what you did for them yesterday and appreciate the the one done for them in the morning. If you like treat her like egg , majority of them are usually egocentric

PepeXKermit:
Actions have consequences. That woman go hear am when the time comes.

I pity her because the children will deliver to her wetin she no order for. I want to believe that their children are still under say, 10 now.

Whatever is the problem between her and her husband DOES NOT require separating the kids from their father unless if the man is sexually abusive to the children. In this case he MUST be jailed for 600 years.

APOPTOSIS:
No be the same USA we dey or na another one?
She has several ladders that await her here.
Before she arrives, inform her that no one dashes money like that over here like we do in Nigeria.
You can't sustain family here solely via begging.
Finally sleeping around doesn't pay much here because men avoid women a lot here not to talk of a black woman with baggage. That's a huge turn off. We also have a new sheriff.
She better unblocks her spouse.

So you think a woman who could afford to sponsor herself and two kids on visa, flight, accommodation in the US is a beggar?
Be like women no dey successful for your lineage, no vex
Continue...

Elusive001:
I pity her because the children will deliver to her wetin she no order for. I want to believe that their children are still under say, 10 now.

Whatever is the problem between her and her husband DOES NOT require separating the kids from their father unless if the man is sexually abusive to the children. In this case he MUST be jailed for 600 years.

Lol. For the fact that Bring a single parent alone in thr west is a big bog birden, because you have to work and try to make money and you have to look after the kids especially if they cant do it for themselves, that alone confirms that woman will suffer wella.

Are you sure she hasn't declared you late? Probably did that with another man.

What a world?

Check their DNA

Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.

Why is he angry. She has given him a chance to redo his life again with no responsibility of child support.

His children will remain his children whether they go all the way to Japan.

hahn:
➜Most likely the kids aren't his and she has eloped with their real father

Or she loved him so much but can no longer stand his toxic nature and simply wishes to escape with the kids. If the children were not his, I doubt she would have left with them and without the man who fathered them.

ufotunang:
➜..he would not had allowed her to take away the kids

How did you determine this?

Amumaigwe:
➜Hope it would also have been an indictment against his wife if it was the man that pulled off that relocation and abandonment stunt.

With the children, certainly!

IdeasPro:
➜Who can tell if he is the biological father of the kids! Women have all the secrets to life oh!

Una no dey ever make sense. Think carefully about your retort next time!

ibechris:
When they say u should treat ur wives well...na him be this.

Some men are domestic lions at home while being docile at other women outside.

It is obvious that this man didn't treat his wife well at all.

How is it obvious?
Do you know them personally
No be plumber sponsor girl go school and she reject him proposal?
Did he treat her badly
Una go just de talk nonsense cos of free data

Kobojunkie:
How did you determine this?

..the kids are also his children..so he has loss his children to the woman..how will he able to get his children back

ufotunang:
..the kids are also his children..so he has loss his children to the woman..how will he able to get his children back

So, out of the blues, you wish for us to now believe that every single child abandoned by his/her father is literally not of blood?