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kelechi50:
This guy should just leave her alone and move on with his life, it's a question of time the law of karma will catch up with her.

I have not seen any lady that go scot-free after rejecting the proposal from the man that trained her.

..was there any agreement between them that she will agree to marry him after she graduates.. written agreement sealed and signed

saphiere:
Some men think they can tie a woman to them with money. The lady must be a seerer to know the guy plans. Don't tell a woman your intention u hear? Stay there and think that she knows your plans because say she be mind reader ok.

But if the guy had dumped her 6 months into the relationship she would haved cried like a cat.

Bahamas95:
These simps don't ever learn.




Skit or not one thing I know is that these things do happen. But what I don't understand is this public proposal some guys won't stop doing, the annoying thing about it is kneeling to propose to a woman that's not even a virgin.

Common sense should tell you your girlfriend will or will not accept to marry you if you wanna take the relationship to the next level. Guys should learn to read women's body language from day1. Women are very good at it, a woman that won't marry you already knows the moment she decided to date you.

She only accepted to date you because of what she would benefit from the relationship for a period of time.


I met my wife a virgin (if you like don't believe me that's your business) and didn't kneel to propose let alone kneeling to propose to one borehole. The fact that I didn't kneel doesn't make me unromantic .......I just told her one-day it was time to see her parents and she was excited. We did our marriage without noise and we have a baby now.

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I do my things privately, I don't need people to tell her "say yes, say yes" while kneeling on the road and embarrassing my ancestors.

It's not our culture kneeling to propose to a woman. I found it disgusting seeing some fellow African men doing that.

saphiere:
Always make your intentions known from onset. Not after spending money and I don't open my legs you tell me to refund your money.
Was there any agreement?
Most of you men the moment a lady is closer to you or kind to you, you'd start thinking she's into you.

How can she stay with a man who has been sponsoring her for 5 yrs knowing they must have been intimate and then suddenly claim she didn’t see it coming.
it’s the ingratitude and deception that’s wicked. If she knew she had no intentions, she shouldn’t have accepted such deep commitment from him in the first place.

kelechi50:
This guy should just leave her alone and move on with his life, it's a question of time the law of karma will catch up with her.

I have not seen any lady that go scot-free after rejecting the proposal from the man that trained her.

Karma is real💯

saphiere:
Some men think they can tie a woman to them with money. The lady must be a seerer to know the guy plans. Don't tell a woman your intention u hear? Stay there and think that she knows your plans because say she be mind reader ok.

Am in support that you should let your intentions known to a lady 💯
But am not in support of spending on her when she is not legally married to you

Check this Thread .


https://www.nairaland.com/8512135/invest-moneystop-wasting-money-sponsoring

Men would never Learn

Stop Sponsoring Ladies you are not Legally Married to to the University.

She must have even had a Baby for you because even you.marry her ,He may do that to deceive U..once signing out she would divorce U

Give her belle ..

franchasng:
Must you propose to her in public?

Na one of em friend don give am bad advice

SmartPolician:
If this is not a skit, I must say that this guy is funny. If you want to marry a grajet (in Odumeje's voice), why not marry your own wife, get her to have your first child and insist she must go to school?

The funny thing is that despite this trend going south, you will still see thousands of young guys doing it.

Dey play, even that one is no guarantee the wife won't bail on him

White man culture, white man problem


Africans will never learn

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Written document that what happened? Shebi you don't know that not all contracts are enforceable? A girl's educatoon is her father's responsibility, let him carry it.

This case is enforcable if there's a written agreement between them! Even as it stands the guy can still sue and collect something from her if he can prove he sent her sustancial amount of funds over a period of time. What business are they both into?

Bahamas95:
These simps don't ever learn.




Skit or not one thing I know is that these things do happen. But what I don't understand is this public proposal some guys won't stop doing, the annoying thing about it is kneeling to propose to a woman that's not even a virgin.

Common sense should tell you your girlfriend will or will not accept to marry you if you wanna take the relationship to the next level. Guys should learn to read women's body language from day1. Women are very good at it, a woman that won't marry you already knows the moment she decided to date you.

She only accepted to date you because of what she would benefit from the relationship for a period of time.


I met my wife a virgin (if you like don't believe me that's your business) and didn't kneel to propose let alone kneeling to propose to one borehole. The fact that I didn't kneel doesn't make me unromantic .......I just told her one-day it was time to see her parents and she was excited. We did our marriage without noise and we have a baby now.

..................................................................................

I do my things privately, I don't need people to tell her "say yes, say yes" while kneeling on the road and embarrassing my ancestors.

A chilling Star lager beer 🍺 🍺 for you. Nah man you be.

AntiChristian:
This case is enforcable if there's a written agreement between them! Even as it stands the guy can still sue and collect something from her if he can prove he sent her sustancial amount of funds over a period of time. What business are they both into?

Let him go and claim now! Why is he crying?

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Let him go and claim now! Why is he crying?

He may not be aware!

You get hin digits?

SmartPolician:
If this is not a skit, I must say that this guy is funny. If you want to marry a grajet (in Odumeje's voice), why not marry your own wife, get her to have your first child and insist she must go to school?

The funny thing is that despite this trend going south, you will still see thousands of young guys doing it.

The guy never attended university (Gehgeh) yet he was training a lady in university

Yoruba!


Hmmm.


Death to all simps.

As a young man be it hustling or not, I'll keep saying this, women are no investment, but some mazungus would beg to differ.

If you as a man want to run a charity do so without expecting much in return and not under the veil of a relationship that was doom to fail from the onset with the hope that proposal or whatever you call it will be smooth sailing.

Some men never learn. I have no pity to spare and I don't care it's all for the cameras, better things dey wey man suppose focus on.

kelechi50:
This guy should just leave her alone and move on with his life, it's a question of time the law of karma will catch up with her.

I have not seen any lady that go scot-free after rejecting the proposal from the man that trained her.

karma doesn't exist, if you no protect yourself person wey fit kpai you fit live longer

SmartPolician:
If this is not a skit, I must say that this guy is funny. If you want to marry a grajet (in Odumeje's voice), why not marry your own wife, get her to have your first child and insist she must go to school?

The funny thing is that despite this trend going south, you will still see thousands of young guys doing it.

Baba no be skit o.

We still have a lot of finished simp men in our society and the thing still dey shock me I swear. Funny part be say na men like this dey condemn other men that expose the manipulative strategies of women and advice men to invest in themselves.

Another simp seeing this will say, it's the man's fault of not treating his girl well and he'll be thinking his own will be different because he's a very caring and loving guy to the girl.

I suspect Ghe Ghe in this, nothing anybody will tell me that Ghe Ghe didn't mastermind this marriage proposal stunt and that just to validate his point and advise against financial mistakes people make.

When Gehgeh say do not sponsor a lady in school u less she's your sister, una say na thrash he dey talk... See one of the consequences

Poor plumber

AntiChristian:
He may not be aware!

You get hin digits?

Na me dey encourage mumu make he go court?

MUMU + MUGU joined together



Some Men eeh, she doesn't have parents to train her in school or what


At least next time you won't try it again

this not a skit actually happened @ LASU . i witnessed it cause i signed out on the same day ...

blesdman:
This must be a skit. It is not in a Nigerians place to kneel to ask a woman to marry u. Why we de borrow culture wey no be our own. Education is indeed colonisation. We no gree colonised technologies, na culture we de collect. Nonsense

alphonsojaybaz:
http://eyesoflagos.com/drama-as-lady-rejects-plumber-boyfriends-proposal-on-sign-out-day-after-sponsorship/

If she no accept this CEO of a plumbing company, las las na one underpaid salary earner go dey "fill her gas".

hharsnan:
this not a skit actually happened @ LASU . i witnessed it cause i signed out on the same day ...

For real? This is bad. So the guy no know say them no de trade girl wey no be ur wife? Very sorry for him...but that was stupid of him except he did not plan to marry her...

ADAMUdaCOWBOY:
Na me dey encourage mumu make he go court?

Na mistake he do! Make we help am!

AntiChristian:
Some men will never learn! At least let there be a written document that's enforceable!

Human mind dey too dynamic!

You can never enforce a contract for marriage, no court would grant such a wish...the most you can do is sue for damages!