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I'm not a saint but I've actually abstained for a year and more.. I've been getting advances most recently from ladies at my work place.
I almost gave in to a married one but I overcame. It gets lonely sometimes. I still decided to give dating a shot. I'm dating a lady I've been head over heels for. She's a solid 9+. We made love last week and I realized I wasn't madly in love after I came. And all I could feel was compassion cuz I genuinely liked her. There was no point for the sex actually. It only reduced the love I had to likeness.

Also, note that , after the first round , whatever follows is perversion and not love making. It's all stunts, as sex is meant for only procreation . The process is just pleasurable. Truly, sex is meant to be for married people who are legally bounded by an oat of loyalty and submission regardless of whatever. There's no man who truly has sex with his woman without falling out of love and desire. He gets his desires again for her when his scrotum is ready to be emptied. It's natural.

Good. Go and sin no more.

Will 22 characters result in better governance? I dey look Nairaland.

Everrich96:
I'm not a saint but I've actually abstained for a year and more.. I've been getting advances most recently from ladies at my work place.
I almost gave in to a married one but I overcame. It gets lonely sometimes. I still decided to give dating a shot. I'm dating a lady I've been head over heels for. She's a solid 9+. We made love last week and I realized I wasn't madly in love after I came. And all I could feel was compassion cuz I genuinely liked her. There was no point for the sex actually. It only reduced the love I had to likeness.

Also, note that , after the first round , whatever follows is perversion and not love making. It's all stunts, as sex is meant for only procreation . The process is just pleasurable. Truly, sex is meant to be for married people who are legally bounded by an oat of loyalty and submission regardless of whatever. There's no man who truly has sex with his woman without falling out of love and desire. He gets his desires again for her when his scrotum is ready to be emptied. It's natural.

To each his own.

To some overrated. To some, underrated. To some, money rated. To some, fun rated.

Pick one...

Sex is not overrated, its not underrated


Its just a procreation exercise.

Simple. I like your use of words.

Actually, masturbation for a single person is an assistant to sex because it takes the burden of having sex with someone away and clears your mind to think positively

Everrich96:
I'm not a saint but I've actually abstained for a year and more.. I've been getting advances most recently from ladies at my work place.
I almost gave in to a married one but I overcame. It gets lonely sometimes. I still decided to give dating a shot. I'm dating a lady I've been head over heels for. She's a solid 9+. We made love last week and I realized I wasn't madly in love after I came. And all I could feel was compassion cuz I genuinely liked her. There was no point for the sex actually. It only reduced the love I had to likeness.

Also, note that , after the first round , whatever follows is perversion and not love making. It's all stunts, as sex is meant for only procreation . The process is just pleasurable. Truly, sex is meant to be for married people who are legally bounded by an oat of loyalty and submission regardless of whatever. There's no man who truly has sex with his woman without falling out of love and desire. He gets his desires again for her when his scrotum is ready to be emptied. It's natural.

So na masturbation dey underrated right?
Nna eh

Masturbation is proof that sex was made for pleasure. Argue with your pastor

Perhaps you had mediocre sex. The pleasure one gets from the act can sometimes by determined by the skill of your partner, not to mention hygiene. Working with a stiff partner is always a pain.

But there could be a much more psychological factor at play. Pleasure and satisfaction comes from doing, not having done. When one is busy and absorbed in something, the mental state is markedly different when the task is completed. Like you have come down from a high. You can observe this in things like reading, eating, creating art etc

Rexymania:
Simple. I like you use of words.

Actually masturbation for a single person is an assistant to sex because it takes the burden of having sex with someone away and clears your mind to think positively

I couldn't agree more to this