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My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Jozilinn(op): 10:37am On Sep 15, 2025
Remember I mentioned that my elder sister allowed my uncle to bring his daughter in my last post,well I'm still working towards her departure, now my youngest sister had to sleep without food yesterday and I know my elder sis is already getting frustrated.

Note Her boyfriend is the one paying for her easy buy phone .
Like... Make i talk wetin dey my mind.

Remember I mentioned that my sis gave my neighbour her former phone, after it caused an issue at home I have warned her never to mention the phone in that house again period.

The lady whose son she gave the phone to is 15 years...
Note they didn't follow the agreement if returning the phone and my sister didn't ask for it

Note This woman I would say does multiple jobs and doesn't like giving people her things in fact she will tell you she doesn't have.

She came to me last two weeks and asked me to open an opay account for her son with my BVN.

I said No! She has a BVN why not use hers,she didn't reply me ,she said I should use my NIN I said No! And she left murmuring but


She has two younger siblings who visit why not meet them.

I have a light I use it charges but doesn't switch on till I plug in a charger, it's a type B cord.

Now she sent her son to come and collect that cord for him to charge the phone my sister gave to him.

And they wouldn't return the cord, you know if I leave her she would start using it.

She knows just the right time to come, thinking I will forget a whole day almost 24 hours from 10pm Saturday night to the next 10pm on Sunday I had to go around after 10 for it.

I use that light at night especially when there's no electricity to power the house by charging it and putting it on with my power bank.

And can't keep going around for the cord because immediately I try to collect something they'll act like they don't have.

She thinks I'm like my sister, just this morning she was so cold towards my greeting and I was like who you help.

Can they also give without expecting anything in return.

I don't overdo my helps please it would turn to stupidity last last. Nobody sends you before I became like this it took me days of hunger after getting dragged when I couldn't pay my debts then no salary for a month.

This woman as early as 6:30 reminded me about 200 naira for pure water.

And I don't owe 1
I haven't been paid 2

But the same woman is collecting money for my sister up to 5k.
Almost every month...my sister was pained but she didn't tell me until I collected 200 naira to give the woman.

I just dey laugh this my sister God which kind person he this en.

I have tried upon everything I'm the one constantly getting scared can't you just treat people for who they're.

Please make una tell me shey I dey selfish make I know now because why all these attractions to yourself.

I don't like telling people how I help people even me sometimes I swear I no dey talk, where I stay before I still get people rooting for me even till today if I no get them no too get but they're supporting even with words of encouragement.

I dey work still dey laugh self when I no be my sister this is 2025 mehn shine your eyeshadow oh.

Why she no wan meet her own family Na him dey make me vex pass for all this nonsense.
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by MaziObinnaokija: 10:51am On Sep 15, 2025
sad find somebody yo talk to her.
God will perfect/makes everything new
.


I nor read am. sad sad
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Elect1neAtegun(f): 12:18pm On Sep 15, 2025
I no dey for your chit-chat oh
Carry your matter dey go TikTok oh
My gentle dey zongo o oh
I no dey look back oh
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Jozilinn(op): 12:47pm On Sep 15, 2025
MaziObinnaokija:
sad find somebody yo talk to her.
God will perfect/makes everything new
.


I nor read am. sad sad
Amen i will do as you have said...my mother probably doesn't know what is going on, because she doesn't know the girl is with us.
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Jozilinn(op): 12:48pm On Sep 15, 2025
Elect1neAtegun:
I no dey for your chit-chat oh
Carry your matter dey go TikTok oh
My gentle dey zongo o oh
I no dey look back oh
😂😅😅
E don reach to go tiktok my brother but I never get that kind mind abeg.
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Rexymania(m): 2:47pm On Sep 15, 2025
I like the fact that you see us as a family. Anyway I don't have much to say but all I would like to say is very very simple. Now listen to me very well....I'm coming, I put something for fire
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by DenreleDave(m): 6:32pm On Sep 15, 2025
Abeg do voice note, this ur typing get as e be
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Jozilinn(op): 7:03pm On Sep 15, 2025
Rexymania:
I like the fact that you see us as a family. Anyway I don't have much to say but all I would like to say is very very simple. Now listen to me very well....I'm coming, I put something for fire
😅😅😅😂😂
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Jozilinn(op): 7:03pm On Sep 15, 2025
DenreleDave:
Abeg do voice note, this ur typing get as e be
No vex 😅😅😂
Make I use Ai
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by TheBillyonaire: 8:29pm On Sep 15, 2025
Things dey occur.

Many are mad, but few are roaming.
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by correctguy101(m): 9:06pm On Sep 15, 2025
Elect1neAtegun:
I no dey for your chit-chat oh
Carry your matter dey go TikTok oh
My gentle dey zongo o oh
I no dey look back oh
Hey Ategun, you understand wetin this lipsrsealed undecidedwerey dey talk about? Explain for me abeg...
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by correctguy101(m): 9:08pm On Sep 15, 2025
TheBillyonaire:
Things dey occur.

Many are mad, but few are roaming.
After reading everything Mr OP wrote, I understand ya comment.... cheesy
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by free2ryhme: 10:04pm On Sep 15, 2025
Jozilinn:
Remember I mentioned that my elder sister allowed my uncle to bring his daughter in my last post,well I'm still working towards her departure, now my youngest sister had to sleep without food yesterday and I know my elder sis is already getting frustrated.

Note Her boyfriend is the one paying for her easy buy phone .
Like... Make i talk wetin dey my mind.

Remember I mentioned that my sis gave my neighbour her former phone, after it caused an issue at home I have warned her never to mention the phone in that house again period.

The lady whose son she gave the phone to is 15 years...
Note they didn't follow the agreement if returning the phone and my sister didn't ask for it

Note This woman I would say does multiple jobs and doesn't like giving people her things in fact she will tell you she doesn't have.

She came to me last two weeks and asked me to open an opay account for her son with my BVN.

I said No! She has a BVN why not use hers,she didn't reply me ,she said I should use my NIN I said No! And she left murmuring but


She has two younger siblings who visit why not meet them.

I have a light I use it charges but doesn't switch on till I plug in a charger, it's a type B cord.

Now she sent her son to come and collect that cord for him to charge the phone my sister gave to him.

And they wouldn't return the cord, you know if I leave her she would start using it.

She knows just the right time to come, thinking I will forget a whole day almost 24 hours from 10pm Saturday night to the next 10pm on Sunday I had to go around after 10 for it.

I use that light at night especially when there's no electricity to power the house by charging it and putting it on with my power bank.

And can't keep going around for the cord because immediately I try to collect something they'll act like they don't have.

She thinks I'm like my sister, just this morning she was so cold towards my greeting and I was like who you help.

Can they also give without expecting anything in return.

I don't overdo my helps please it would turn to stupidity last last. Nobody sends you before I became like this it took me days of hunger after getting dragged when I couldn't pay my debts then no salary for a month.

This woman as early as 6:30 reminded me about 200 naira for pure water.

And I don't owe 1
I haven't been paid 2

But the same woman is collecting money for my sister up to 5k.
Almost every month...my sister was pained but she didn't tell me until I collected 200 naira to give the woman.

I just dey laugh this my sister God which kind person he this en.

I have tried upon everything I'm the one constantly getting scared can't you just treat people for who they're.

Please make una tell me shey I dey selfish make I know now because why all these attractions to yourself.

I don't like telling people how I help people even me sometimes I swear I no dey talk, where I stay before I still get people rooting for me even till today if I no get them no too get but they're supporting even with words of encouragement.

I dey work still dey laugh self when I no be my sister this is 2025 mehn shine your eyeshadow oh.

Why she no wan meet her own family Na him dey make me vex pass for all this nonsense.
this story reeks with poverty
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by NotOfThisWorld(f): 11:19pm On Sep 15, 2025
It's hard to follow your post but I wish you good luck in resolving the issue.
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by Double0h7(f): 2:01am On Sep 16, 2025
You are not selfish, you have a spine which your sister seems to lack. I would say ignore this neighbour, and don’t give her anything that belongs to you and don’t ask her for anything. In fact, from this day forward, she doesn’t exist anymore. Don’t concern yourself with what your sister does or doesn’t do and just focus on yourself. Don’t give yourself HBP over other people’s issues.
Re: My Elder Sister Attitude Is Giving Me Issues With Neighbours. by odinga1of: 1:39pm On Sep 16, 2025
Jozilinn:
Remember I mentioned that my elder sister allowed my uncle to bring his daughter in my last post,well I'm still working towards her departure, now my youngest sister had to sleep without food yesterday and I know my elder sis is already getting frustrated.

Note Her boyfriend is the one paying for her easy buy phone .
Like... Make i talk wetin dey my mind.

Remember I mentioned that my sis gave my neighbour her former phone, after it caused an issue at home I have warned her never to mention the phone in that house again period.

The lady whose son she gave the phone to is 15 years...
Note they didn't follow the agreement if returning the phone and my sister didn't ask for it

Note This woman I would say does multiple jobs and doesn't like giving people her things in fact she will tell you she doesn't have.

She came to me last two weeks and asked me to open an opay account for her son with my BVN.

I said No! She has a BVN why not use hers,she didn't reply me ,she said I should use my NIN I said No! And she left murmuring but


She has two younger siblings who visit why not meet them.

I have a light I use it charges but doesn't switch on till I plug in a charger, it's a type B cord.

Now she sent her son to come and collect that cord for him to charge the phone my sister gave to him.

And they wouldn't return the cord, you know if I leave her she would start using it.

She knows just the right time to come, thinking I will forget a whole day almost 24 hours from 10pm Saturday night to the next 10pm on Sunday I had to go around after 10 for it.

I use that light at night especially when there's no electricity to power the house by charging it and putting it on with my power bank.

And can't keep going around for the cord because immediately I try to collect something they'll act like they don't have.

She thinks I'm like my sister, just this morning she was so cold towards my greeting and I was like who you help.

Can they also give without expecting anything in return.

I don't overdo my helps please it would turn to stupidity last last. Nobody sends you before I became like this it took me days of hunger after getting dragged when I couldn't pay my debts then no salary for a month.

This woman as early as 6:30 reminded me about 200 naira for pure water.

And I don't owe 1
I haven't been paid 2

But the same woman is collecting money for my sister up to 5k.
Almost every month...my sister was pained but she didn't tell me until I collected 200 naira to give the woman.

I just dey laugh this my sister God which kind person he this en.

I have tried upon everything I'm the one constantly getting scared can't you just treat people for who they're.

Please make una tell me shey I dey selfish make I know now because why all these attractions to yourself.

I don't like telling people how I help people even me sometimes I swear I no dey talk, where I stay before I still get people rooting for me even till today if I no get them no too get but they're supporting even with words of encouragement.

I dey work still dey laugh self when I no be my sister this is 2025 mehn shine your eyeshadow oh.

Why she no wan meet her own family Na him dey make me vex pass for all this nonsense.
Your elder sister did nothing Oga, which kind Kleg story be dis?

Stop borrowing neighbors dis n that.
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