₦airaland Forum

Thewrath:
An average 15yr old girl already has over 20 body counts..
And average 15yr old guy hardly know a anything about sex at that age!

Agreed, we are on the same page sir. Rusty, overused equipments should be matched with dried up wells

If you can not align with the tenets or a core principle or belief of marriage don't get married. This post I believe came from a very bittered person.

I provide 95 percent of the income and i still do 40 percent of the chores with my kids doing 30 percent

I lock the gate at night
I put gen on/off, service etc
Do elect and DIY chores
do the heavy lifting

so when the say split the chores what exactly are you expecting the man to do, wash plates, mop the floor, do laundry.

Can someone explain

The whole marriage things have turned to war is it by force to marry I don't understand all these arguments again. Marriage use to be peaceful before this online advisers and counsellors thing's

Yestogood:
One thing that humbles an uncontrollable female is the loneliness that descends in old age after misbehaving away every opportunity to marry and settle down.
This generation and the coming ones will have many who will learn the hard way.

Loneliness humbles us all actually, one's gender notwithstanding.

Old age isn't something anyone should approach alone, whether man or woman.

When e reach your turn, run am how you like aunty.

Houseontherock1:
Agreed, we are on the same page sir. Rusty, overused equipments should be matched with dried up wells

Grt,but you have to be able to identify rusty,overused drills first!!

Unlike over stretched wells with 2000BC body counts !

We4all:
I support her with my full chest. Men have been doing women ojoro since time immemorial. If a man and a woman are splitting the bills, then they should also take turns to do the chores. It is called balanced equation!

Who says men don't do house chores. I personally do some houseworks like cleaning, washing, gardening etc whenever I'm free.

I will wash my wives pants
I don't see anything wrong with that .
After all I wash my boyfriend's boxers all the time

Most men help their wives with house chores, traditional men or not. These women just acting wired.

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It makes sense.
Both chores must be divided equally.
If the woman is pregnant in year 1, the husband must be pregnant in year 2.
If the man carries the refrigerator the first time, the next time it will be the wife's turn. Even fighting outsiders should be turn by turn.
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MissPride:
This is no problem.
A traditional husband deserves a traditional wife.
A woke husband deserves a woke wife.

Shikenan..

The problem is not that most married men don't help out.
I help out a lot. If most married women could speak. Some honest women are not on social media using such word as "MUST".
No sane man would sit back to watch his wife age out from doing senseless torturing chores.
The only problem I have with her mutilated mindset was when she used the word "MUST"
MUST is a command word.
She must be delusional and schizophrenic to have used such to address men. That's exactly what men detest. Never Never Never in your life as a married woman or aspiring one use a "command word" before your boyfriend or spouse.

Much ado about nothing. As you make your bed so you will lie on it. What of if the 👩 bears one child the 👨 adopt another to balance the equation and may be exchange of genitals so that no one would be cheated even during copulation

In as much as him wife no be him slave,this orientation of say because she dey provide too them go share chores na shit.
As a man normally no be bad thing to help out even when he is funding the family 100%
But this orientation is linked to TOXIC women

MissPride:
This is no problem.
A traditional husband deserves a traditional wife.
A woke husband deserves a woke wife.

don't make up issues where there is none. If a wife is supporting with bills, it's automatic other areas should be shared

Chilipepper:
If income comes from both husband and wife, then chores MUST come from husband and wife too. — Journalist Eloho Johnson sparks debate.

Lol .


Like say husband no dey do chores before ..

Who dey carry heavy stuff for house

Who dey always switch on gen..


Who dey clear the weeds around the house..

Abeg oo ..

Analyscam50:
I will wash my wives pants
I don't see anything wrong with that .
After all I wash my boyfriend's boxers all the time

I'm not understanding

TONYE001:
Loneliness humbles us all actually, one's gender notwithstanding.

Old age isn't something anyone should approach alone, whether man or woman.

. I no understand oo ..

Not all of us loneliness dey disturb oo ..


Us introverts finds happiness in loneliness...

Millions of husbands are already doing chores wether they are providing 100% or not.

BTW, why do women think the internal chores are the only chores to be recognized?

Una no dey get grass to level?
Gas to refill?
Car to wash, fix and refill?
Electricals to repair?
Artisans to supervise?
Home to protect?
Family members to guard and guide?
Clothes to wash via W. M?
House to arrange?

Are these not chores men do without waiting for their wives or only to cooking and washing of the plates count as chores?

That's for a man who is always available.

I feel sorry for her.

Men by nature are not home keepers. Yes, I do admit they must do some work in the house but don't expect equality when it comes to house work.

Both still have separate roles to play, roles which complement each other.

That's why a wife tries to monopolise the kitchen, and not a man. If a man tries to control the kitchen, it can bring about serious disagreement

MissPride:
This is no problem.
A traditional husband deserves a traditional wife.
A woke husband deserves a woke wife.

The Adjectives....
Is that not the problem

Up to a certain age you are right. However, from a certain phase in life, loneliness hits like a hard brick no matter how introverted you are. Trust me on this sir.God was not foolish when he said it is not good for the man to be alone. Adam never knew what it was to be with people l, yet God saw far down the road and concluded it is not good.

Silentgroper:
. I no understand oo ..

Not all of us loneliness dey disturb oo ..


Us introverts finds happiness in loneliness...

What is it about chores and finances noise in marriages all over the social medias. If you as a woman or a man still go online to seek validation on who pay the bills and who do the chores and what percentage must each party contribute, it means you both are still teenagers who meant to be in their parents houses. Make una get out

I do not know how they trained them. The problem with the womenfolk is that they open their mouth too much and are quick to compete with their husband.
Marriage is not a competition between the husband and the wife. Regardless of a woman's contribution to the family's finances, she is primarily responsible for household chores. However, a husband will do house chores for his family if the woman treats him right, respects him, and cares for him.

My token to the sensible women out there, not to the fish brains that abound everywhere.

Chilipepper:
If income comes from both husband and wife, then chores MUST come from husband and wife too. — Journalist Eloho Johnson sparks debate.

bionixs:
dowry

Wrong! 🥱🥱

Any man who pays dowry does so in order to obtain for himself right to be both sole head of household and provider. A woman risks everything , many a times for nothing , in contributing to the finances of the family in that case as tangkble returns on her investment tends to diminish as the marriage(or she ages). 🫤🫤

We4all:
I support her with my full chest. Men have been doing women ojoro since time immemorial. If a man and a woman are splitting the bills, then they should also take turns to do the chores. It is called balanced equation!

. The whole idea of "balance" or " Equality" is completely a delusion ... cos nothing about Creation or Life suggest " Equality"
Twins born same day from one sperm aint equals mentally, physically if checked

There are roles Men play in the house, i dont see women dragging with men who should check the gen, wash the car, fix the bulb or carry appllances in and out of the house.

But it is always this so called Feminist that want men to come n wash plate, sweep the floor and help wash there pant n bra.

Tell this Mtyhead feminist to wash there hubby boxers she will scream i am his slave, tell a feminist to open the car door for her man n drive the man she will shout " slavery "

They gaslight Us all the time will "civilized bullshit" can i sit back as a man n watch folake4u change the car tyres ... but our so called feminist want men to back babies n go to market

ExudeLoveToAll:
There is no man that doesn't do chores name one. Did your father not do chores at home even when they were the ones providing a large chunk of the finances?

I laugh when women shout chores, if I men split bills it will be 50:50 as regards the total expense of the house but no man have done this, men only want you to support the family as much as you can, a woman can earn 50k and uses it to support the family and then the man brings 600k without complaining, is it what you call split bills? carry your 50k go take care of the bills yourself and see how life is

If truly men split bills , if the bill is 1m monthly then you will bring 500k and the man brings 500k and then you can share the chores as you do please . There is no man that doesn't do chores at home name one

My father was a deadbeat. My mom was the provider and still carried out all the house chores.

In a situation where the husband is the sole provider and the wife is still expecting the husband to help in the house chores, what do we call this?

MartinCorridon:
I agree wholeheartedly.

But if I contribute 100% to household expenses.... I wouldn't pay for housemaid or caterer or drycleaner or even washing machine.

This generation of women especially Nigerians are very lazy. I am not misogynistic and don't support women bashing but it is the harsh reality.

Whites, whoever decides to stay at home, male or female does the chores. They don't turn relatives to maids. And that's why the courts support her to clean you out during divorce. You can't make her sacrifice her career and then dump her when she reaches Best Before Date

And how is cleaning you out during and after the divorce a justice to you most especially when women are mostly the ones who initiate divorce proceedings over a range of flimsy excuses?