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Sermwell:
The woman probably added that line to wipe up sentiment! She was probably informed of the death and burial!

fear who no fear woman.. I know some young boys who cash out recently. They brough a car worth 12million for thier dad, there mother started telling those boys that there dad have another woman outside that they should not give him money. Those boys are just 19yrs. Can you imagine.

Nigerian Police ,You are Highly Needed on this Matter .God Help you ...When the Girl was about to be sent to her Father for Holiday it was a Mutual Agreements .

Immediately the Child Fell sick , Definitely the sickness would not be so sudden before it gets Worst..

Little Headaches ,Temperature , Immediately He Discovers that it's becoming Terrible and worst ,His Responsibility is to Call the Baby's Mother and let her know ,She would know much better about the Health History and what She normally does to Handle her Health Situations ..

My Uncle's Daughter staying with us , Immediately She falls Sick,My uncle who knows much about Her,Advises and once we take the steps the Girl becomes well .

For the Man to Keep Quiet,The Girl Died ,He doesn't Call ,Eve when the Girl Died ,He didn't Call ,He Buried her all By Himself, The Poor Woman had to know what Happened Only When it was time for the Girl to Resume School...This is Terrible and Bad ...That Man Has Skeleton in His Cupboard Suspiciously

promisechris63:
How would you bury a child without the mother's knowledge? One reason I love Germany... Every death must be reported to the police.. You don't just go and bury a child without police knowledge and autopsy. Something is fishy here!

It's not only in Germany, it's a legal requirement in all countries where people have their heads screwed on right

Jennyclay:


Why leave a girl child with her father That was huge mistake.

Probably he raped and killed the little girl. So sad!
Her corpse should be exhumed for proper autopsy.

The man should be arrested.
Nonsense!!

Isn't this a rather extreme and dangerous assumption?

You're probably trolling sha.

You can't mean a daughter cannot be in her father's custody.

the wife is such a nice/caring mother.If not,she'll not allowed Davina to go spent the summer holiday with him....#WICKEDNESS

If you know he wasn't faithful while you guys were dating, then such men can't be trusted even with their daughters.
Why will you send a 13-year-old girl to live in a building alone with a man, whether her father or not, if he is a man that can't control his s*xual urge, he will surely misbehave with his daughter.


If she was sick, he would have called you.
She wasn't sick, he didn't have the courage to tell you that she is dead because he is hiding something.
He obviously raped her and killed her.

Cases of fathers raping their daughters, happen till date, even around where I live.

Kobicove:
It is possible that she was not reachable when the girl fell ill, but she's not likely to disclose this fact because she wants to whip up sentiments against the girl's father

While I'm not running into any conclusion until we hear from the man, and, perhaps, witnesses, I, however, disagree with your post.

The girl belongs to a family, the man certainly had other numbers to ring if the mother wasn't reachable. I mean, she has friends, neighbours, etc. It's highly likely that they even have common friends.

If it's true that he didn't ring her to notify her of the girls sickness and death, he just may have put himself in serious trouble, and he has himself to blame. Or, it could just mean that he's guilty of her accusation.

I can't imagine any reason for not notifying the mother of the child's condition.

dominique:
Is it you that would have given her transport fare to and fro? The man has been absent throughout the child's life and he came back after all these years to get to know the girl and take her to spend the holidays with him. If she had refused, it's you pathetic lots that would said single mothers weaponize their children against the father's. You people can create hundreds of topics about single mothers but they're not nearly as bad as the fathers that left them raise the children alone

carry your hateful heart go front. Not even in my lifetime will I allow someone who has been absent for year to come and ask me to allow a child spend holiday with him. The mother don't have s*NS*. You allow your child to go to someone that has been absent for year. What happened that her should come and take both the mother and child out at there location then leave. Is she and the baby daddy family still in touch. No? My ex whom I bring from village early 2019, leave me and went back to the village after 2020 lockdown, she come back begging me that we should be back after years apart, now she have a child. I would have love to accept her and the child but no I can't because have not talk to her mum for year, her mum that I use to call everyday when my ex was with me. How will I explain to her mum why I don't call for year same way my ex have not talk to my mum for years. Some people coming back have evil plans in mind

dominique:
Why is he on the run if he and his people have no hands in her death? A useless deadbeat that was never responsible for the girl only popped in to take her for holiday and went on to vow to the mother that she will never set eyes on her daughter again. He should come back and explain what exactly happened to the girl

Are you sure he actually said this?

And if he did say it why did the mother still allow him take her?

Jennyclay:


Why leave a girl child with her father That was huge mistake.

Probably he raped and killed the little girl. So sad!
Her corpse should be exhumed for proper autopsy.

The man should be arreste

Rape ked.
Nonsense!!

Rape me..? Are y from china



The guy used the child for money ritual... So long as it's delta.. that is what happened....

If u share a child with someone of questionable character that wouldn't do a clear understand job...

Jejeje.. protect ur child

RevenuesBoost:
Why will you send a 13-year-old girl to live in a building alone with a man, whether her father or not, you aren't there with your daughter.
If you know he wasn't faithful while you guys were dating, then such men can't be trusted even with their daughters.

If she was sick, he would have called you.
She wasn't sick, he didn't have the courage to tell you that she is dead because he is hiding something.
He obviously raped her and killed her.

Cases of fathers raping their daughters, happen till date, even around where I live.

This is so wrong at all levels.

The fact that there have been some cases of men r*ping their daughters doesn't mean that all fathers are r*pists, or potential r*pists. Nor does it mean that a father cannot be with his daughter. By every law, a father has the right to be with his daughter!

So, would you also say that unfaithful women should not be allowed to be with their sons alone? Or you don't think some mothers also sexually abuse their sons?

Kobicove:
It is possible that she was not reachable when the girl fell ill, but she's not likely to disclose this fact because she wants to whip up sentiments against the girl's father

And she also wasn’t reachable during the burial? Then the dad made a mistake by not insisting through any channel available, calling out and making noise, that she be present at least for the burial. He is to blame for some of the drama rising up.

An investigation should be made. By the way, can you imagine a dad sitting down and relaxing that ‘the mother wasn’t available’ in a country like America? You know that he will suffer a lot for such a dubious situation, even if he is to be proven innocent at the end. We just try what we know we can get away with in this country.

This isn’t about genders, it isn’t about a man’s innocence, it is about a child who every due wasn’t taken on when such a delicate matter surfaced. When it’s not a goat that died. She has every right to be suspicious. She did not even see the body.

Doesn’t the mom have family members they can reach out to? Grandma, aunt, anybody close to her? For the dad to be able to take their child, he must know some people in her life.

This is really not a good excuse.

koladata:
The ones you've been spelling correctly where has it led you to? Can you write every you wrote here perfectly in your mother's tongue? China teach in their mother's tongue are you better than them?

hello dude?

The only wrong thing here is the mother was not informed about her death,what if she died in the mothers custody…

How do we know they are saying the truth about what happened? Which hospital corroborated the story?

Nigeria now is a crazy place.

Kobicove:
It is possible that she was not reachable when the girl fell ill, but she's not likely to disclose this fact because she wants to whip up sentiments against the girl's father

ajalawole:
Problem with most single mothers. Why don't you go and drop her there yourself and also go there and bring her back. You send a child of 13yrs all the way to dalta to holiday with her dad. Was the dad married or still single if we may ask.

Are you guys okay at all?

Kobicove:
It is possible that she was not reachable when the girl fell ill, but she's not likely to disclose this fact because she wants to whip up sentiments against the girl's father

The man doesn't have a single number belonging to any of her family members? Like, he impregnated a woman who fell from the sky, he never met anyone for 13 years of his child's life from her mother's family, nobody in his family said "this is serious, we need to tell someone in that family", they just went and buried the child silently?

No Facebook, no GSM, no email, no text, not even a letter, nobody to go to the woman's house and deliver the news in person (because apparently buses no longer run from Delta state outside), nothing??

Are we in 1913? Even in 1913 people could communicate.


Let's stop calling what is wrong, right.

ajalawole:
Problem with most single mothers. Why don't you go and drop her there yourself and also go there and bring her back. You send a child of 13yrs all the way to dalta to holiday with her dad. Was the dad married or still single if we may ask.

You mean men are so useless that their blood daughters can't be sent to them for holidays?

Please don't take the bar lower.

The mother had done absolutely nothing wrong. The father and mother have parental rights to the girl.

The father should be detained and questioned. So if the girl wasn't to resume, the father will not tell the mother that the girl is dead?

is that her son or baby daddy, I confused

Mama's mini-me. How horrible.

autoez:
What will the man say if the child passed away while in your care? It's best to grieve and continue with your life. We both understand that the father didn't cause the child's death; something else did.

It still begs the question why she was not informed of the child's sickness to the point of death, and even burial. I mean, who does that?? How can you do that to a mother??

He has a lot of explaining to do

This is so touching. The man has lots of questions to answer

TONYE001:
This is so wrong at all levels.

The fact that there have been some cases of men r*ping their daughters doesn't mean that all fathers are r*pists, or potential r*pists. Nor does it mean that a father cannot be with his daughter. By every law, a father has the right to be with his daughter!

So, would you also say that unfaithful women should not be allowed to be with their sons alone? Or you don't think some mothers also sexually abuse their sons?

My statement was conditional, I said if.

Please read again.

Ishilove:
It still begs the question why she was not informed of the child's sickness to the point of death, and even burial. I mean, who does that?? How can you do that to a mother??

He has a lot of explaining to do

I totally agree, and he has to show them the dead body and possibly Autopsy

Am suspecting the Child is not dead and the dad what to keep the Child. Cause all this doesn't make any sense. Why not inform the mother when the child was sick. Even if the Child was not sick there should still be communicating between the Child and her mother from time to time.

Well,maybe my bad......
....any story concerning a baby mama, with her wailing in a nice background,apartment or environment......just clout chasing and content creation. The fact that she subscribed to the baby mama package sef is minus 40% to start with.
......98% of baby mamas are drama queens, real reason they weren't wifed.......

this man have CASE to ANSWER 😒 🤔 but he'll explain tire. He should provide the hospital name/whatever he took her to.Delta state police command should exhumed the girl body for autopsy.

autoez:
I totally agree, and he has to show them the dead body and possibly Autopsy

How are we sure the girl is truly dead? This could be a ploy to japa with the girl and leave the mother hanging because this is all very strange. The police need to do some serious investigation. The child's body has to be exhumed and an autopsy conducted (if indeed she is truly dead).

Deicide:
Am suspecting the Child is not dead and the dad what to keep the Child. Cause all this doesn't make any sense. Why not inform the mother when the child was sick. Even if the Child was not sick there should still be communicating between the Child and her mother from time to time.

That is what came to my mind immediately I saw the story. I doubt the child is dead. I seriously doubt it because I have never heard of this kind of thing in my life. So if the girl was not to resume school, they would not have informed the mum of her passing?

The story has plenty holes and potholes.

Akir2025:
Nigerian Police ,You are Highly Needed on this Matter .God Help you ...When the Girl was about to be sent to her Father for Holiday it was a Mutual Agreements .

Immediately the Child Fell sick , Definitely the sickness would not be so sudden before it gets Worst..

Little Headaches ,Temperature , Immediately He Discovers that it's becoming Terrible and worst ,His Responsibility is to Call the Baby's Mother and let her know ,She would know much better about the Health History and what She normally does to Handle her Health Situations ..

My Uncle's Daughter staying with us , Immediately She falls Sick,My uncle who knows much about Her,Advises and once we take the steps the Girl becomes well .

For the Man to Keep Quiet,The Girl Died ,He doesn't Call ,Eve when the Girl Died ,He didn't Call ,He Buried her all By Himself, The Poor Woman had to know what Happened Only When it was time for the Girl to Resume School...This is Terrible and Bad ...That Man Has Skeleton in His Cupboard Suspiciously

But why is the lady not Calling to check up on her daughter also till school resumes

Maybe if she had done that she might not be crying on the internet now