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PlutoChief:
Which justice you dey find madam? What if she died in your own house? Abeg next topic.

How do you folks reason like this? This is inhuman. Are children chicken or something to you lot?

Nairaland should probably set an IQ limit for accessing and posting on this site. This is too much!

ajalawole:
Problem with most single mothers. Why don't you go and drop her there yourself and also go there and bring her back. You send a child of 13yrs all the way to dalta to holiday with her dad. Was the dad married or still single if we may ask.

Why should a woman have to do all that when the man in question is the father of the child? Why in the world are you trying to hold her responsible for what the child's father, a single father, did?

Sermwell:
➜The woman probably added that line to wipe up sentiment! She was probably informed of the death and burial!

She was informed of the death and burial of a child she did not even know was sick to begin with?

Kobicove:
➜It is possible that she was not reachable when the girl fell ill, but she's not likely to disclose this fact because she wants to whip up sentiments against the girl's father

Nonsense assertion!

Kobojunkie:
Why should a woman have to do all that when the man in question is the father of the child? Why in the world are you trying to hold her responsible for what the child's father, a single father, did?

did you read where they have been apart for years. If they have been seeing as most of you think the mother won't be crying online, she would have go witb police to the guys house, but I doubt she know where the guy stay. If it was you, can you entrust your child to someone you have been apart with for years and he come back that he want to take your kids out on vacation and you don't think of going with them. My ex was entrusted to me because I get her a job in my location we stay together for 9month and as an adult I was even afried to get her pregnant because of the trust her mum have in me..she left after 3yrs she was trying to come back to me with a child she have outside, I would have love to accept her, but I haven't talk to her mum for years and that don't make sense to be to have her back.

ajalawole:
➜did you read where they have been apart for years.
➜ If they have been seeing as most of you think the mother won't be crying online, she would have go witb police to the guys house, but I doubt she know where the guy stay.
➜ If it was you, can you entrust your child to someone you have been apart with for years and he come back that he want to take your kids out on vacation and you don't think of going with them.
➜ My ex was entrusted to me because I get her a job in my location we stay together for 9month and as an adult I was even afried to get her pregnant because of the trust her mum have in me..she left after 3yrs she was trying to come back to me with a child she have outside, I would have love to accept her, but I haven't talk to her mum for years and that don't make sense to be to have her back.

1. So what? What does that change of the fact that the child is also his?

2. Seeing what? Why should they be seeing for both of them to share custody of the child between them? She sent the child to her father the same way many of your parents send you all to your relatives in the village or something. Why are you dead set on blaming the woman?

3. Couples who are not in relationships, some even living across state lines, share custody of children. Nothing irregular or out of place about that. So, again, why are you dead set on blaming this woman for what the father of her child did to his own child?

4. I am sorry, what? Are you saying that if this gal had been your daughter, she would have been at risk of being impregnated by you?

Kobicove:
It is possible that she was not reachable when the girl fell ill, but she's not likely to disclose this fact because she wants to whip up sentiments against the girl's father

What manner of comment is this?😳

Put yourself in the place of the mother for a moment: would you still state the same?
You don't have to justify evil/wickedness.

Omo! You people should fear God O!
Because you will be judged according to your words.

ajalawole:
➜a Lady I know once killed her own child herself years back in ilorin here.
➜ Funny enoug I stay with same lady week back the baby was only crying for food thought-out the night even though a guy was with us also in the room.
➜ The lady and the guy with us that night happen to be her boyfriend, the guy was pick up too. The child was 8yrs, there was blood in her mouth, nose and ears, the lady lie that the child fall inside water overnight in the room. So don't assume the father use his child.

1. She murdered her own child and was left alone by you and others who know her as a murderer?

2. A child was starving, and you all did nothing?

3. So, every time a child dies, it has to be the mother? Something is wrong here, and it is with the way you reason... this one na pure wickedness.

TONYE001:
➜Isn't this a rather extreme and dangerous assumption? You're probably trolling sha. You can't mean a daughter cannot be in her father's custody.

Given many of the responses on here, I am thinking she might be on to something here.

autoez:
What will the man say if the child passed away while in your care?

So what, if she did?
Will questions still not be asked?

It's best to grieve and continue with your life.

So, she should just accept the mysterious death and burial of her child without asking questions?
Heck! She wasn't even given the chance to see the corpse of her child, at least, for closure.

What manner of wickedness is that?

We both understand that the father didn't cause the child's death; something else did.

How do you know that?
Do you know the father of the child?

You people should keep defending wickedness, you hear?
God is watching all of you.

RevenuesBoost:
➜If you know he wasn't faithful while you guys were dating, then such men can't be trusted even with their daughters.
Why will you send a 13-year-old girl to live in a building alone with a man, whether her father or not, if he is a man that can't control his s*xual urge, he will surely misbehave with his daughter.
If she was sick, he would have called you. She wasn't sick, he didn't have the courage to tell you that she is dead because he is hiding something. He obviously raped her and killed her. Cases of fathers raping their daughters, happen till date, even around where I live.

So, only faithful men can be good fathers to their daughters? Yikes!

Heartbreaking. This shouldn't be swept under the carpet. The police should launch a thorough investigation into the circumstances surrounding her death.

Lanretoye:
The only wrong thing here is the mother was not informed about her death,what if she died in the mothers custody…

This desperate need you lot have to shift blame to the grieving woman reveals a depth of wickedness that is typical of disconnected depraved beings.

Kobojunkie:
1. She murdered her own child and was left alone by you and others who know her as a murderer?

2. A child was starving, and you all did nothing?

3. So, every time a child dies, it has to be the mother? Something is wrong here, and it is with the way you reason... this one na pure wickedness.

na me she born for. See how u just open your mouth and start reading Genesis to Revelation. If I wasn't helping her how will I be there with her. I meet this lady though 2go that year, I make sure she have foodstuffs at home, but the guy who stay with her who she calm was her brother don't let me know much about her, cux the guy always around anytime I visit her, and the guy also the one that use to bring her to if she want to collect something from me so she hardly stay long cuz the guy has a bike.. You can't just assume I don't help her, am not her family, have did my best for her.

3kay945:
➜Ehnn. Abortion makes them fat ?

No be pregnancy dey make women fat again... na abortion!🙄🙄🙄

Anything to pin this on women seems to be the agenda with some here.

ajalawole:
na me she born for. See how u just open your mouth and start reading Genesis to Revelation. If I wasn't helping her how will I be there with her. I meet this lady though 2go that year, I make sure she have foodstuffs at home, but the guy who stay with her who she calm was her brother don't let me know much about her, cux the guy always around anytime I visit her, and the guy also the one that use to bring her to if she want to collect something from me so she hardly stay long cuz the guy has a bike.. You can't just assume I don't help her, am not her family, have did my best for her.

Abeg, stop telling me these tambolo-brain-induced stories in attempts to deflect from the main. 🙄🙄🙄

The woman is not to blame for any of this. Get over yourself! 😩😩😩😩

Kobojunkie:
Abeg, stop telling me these tambolo-brain-induced stories in attempts to deflect from the main. 🙄🙄🙄

The woman is not to blame for any of this. Get over yourself! 😩😩😩😩

Am not responsible for your frustration Oga.

Mariangeles:
What manner of comment is this?😳

Put yourself in the place of the mother for a moment: would you still state the same?
You don't have to justify evil/wickedness.

Omo! You people should fear God O!
Because you will be judged according to your words.

I'm not justifying anything, I only stated a possibility...you and I were not there, we are all commenting based on the account of just one of the parties involved

Kobojunkie:
Nonsense assertion!

I know you're idle and can spend the next 24 hours arguing over nothing...I won't indulge you because I don't have the time now

Single mother is talking and some people give attention.

Lamasta:
The way you ladies think sometimes call for serious concern

Nigerian fathers sexually abuse their daughters, Most girls that were victim of child molestation were victims of their own male relatives and it's underreported in Nigeria.

I have met a 15year old girl 10years back who gave birth for her own father right under the same roof and her evil brothers and mothers kept quiet about the father's repeated abuse of her untill she got pregnant.

Google the rate of father's raping their daughters during the lock down. Since the last five years the standard procedure is that the girl child is not allowed to stay alone in the company of any male (relative or not)without a senior female relative been around.

What is the average Nigeria man Know for aside their third leg? You guys will know the truth yet wants to pretend otherwise.

I blame the mother in this story, the man has done the obvious especially for ritual purposes.

BuharisBoy:
Eyyah sorry,
Take heart
He is the father and cannot kill his daughter.
He is denying his daughter her mother
So take heart

Saying the father cannot kill his daughter or he doesn’t need to inform the mother that their daughter was sick or dead just because they aren’t married is irresponsible and disrespectful. Co-parenting requires communication. This mindset isn’t about parenting — it’s about control and a lack of respect for women.

iamL:
Nigerian fathers sexually abuse their daughters, Most girls that were victim of child molestation were victims of their own male relatives and it's underreported in Nigeria.

I have met a 15year old girl 10years back who gave birth for her own father right under the same roof and her evil brothers and mothers kept quiet about the father's repeated abuse of her untill she got pregnant.

Google the rate of father's raping their daughters during the lock down. Since the last five years the standard procedure is that the girl child is not allowed to stay alone in the company of any male (relative or not)without a senior female relative been around.

What is the average Nigeria man Know for aside their third leg? You guys will know the truth yet wants to pretend otherwise.

I blame the mother in this story, the man has done the obvious especially for ritual purposes.

This topic is not about the gibberish you typing, kindly don't derail from the topic

Kobicove:
I'm not justifying anything, I only stated a possibility...you and I were not there, we are commenting based on the account of just the account of one of the parties involved

I seriously doubt that woman is in any frame of mind to "whip up sentiments" against anybody. She is in shock and grieving and is unlikely to be deviously trying to turn the narrative upside down. Even in the unlikely case that she may be trying to whip up sentiments, I will excuse her over and over again because she has suffered an incomparable loss. The child lived for 13 years, and then the absentee dad shows up, takes the child for holidays and in less than two months your ONLY child that you gave out hale and hearty is dead and buried without your knowledge.

May God forbid but put yourself in her shoes. What would you do??! What would you think??

See, as Maria said, let us be careful the things we say and do because we will be judged.

Has she confirmed it? The police should even exuhume the body and carry out a DNA test to be sure.

Lamasta:
This topic is not about the gibberish you typing, kindly don't derail from the topic

The usual response when caught. You guys should upgrade your IQ.