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This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

Because you have entitlement mentality. That he's married to your younger sister doesn't mean he owes you anything. He's not your parent. It's not his fault you are poor!

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Mrdealer4all:
➜This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money. Her husband treated me like slave and house boy. The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him... Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member. I was indoor throughout my stay with them.. Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody. It is well. Who go help you no go stress you.

Why didn't you stay with your parents instead? As her older sibling, did it not occur to you that you probably had to abandon your ego at the door— check it in and leave it there until you are finally able to get yourself situated in your own place and life— when you moved in with this foolish younger sister of yours?

They gave you a roof over your head and a place to stay while searching for a better life for yourself, and all you really had to do to show appreciation was at least handle the house chores and do common repairs around the home, since you didn't need to pay any bills while living with them. You literally then had to spend the rest of the time you had working on yourself. What is so bad about that?

I hope you have at least found your greener pasture and moved out of their marital home so they can finally get to living as husband and wife.

Mko123:
You and I know that the gibberiṣ you type are part of the true life story that happens in the brain and not in real life. You're only looking for who to bask in your marijuanic paradise and youre glad I've joined.

I said what I mean

You for just sweet talk them into financing one small pos business for you instead of going to stay in their house for green pasture (small joke, naim make dem use you dey clear grass 😅).

Even if na Senior sister, no go lodge for inlaw house more than a night (and that's because them beg you to stay - oh yes, get pride).

Apart from the obvious fact that you were deek-blocking with your presence, but familiarity naim dey born twins we dem dey call contempt).

Man, that sounds rough. Living with in-laws can be tricky, but it’s a whole different level when they treat you like that. Honestly, sometimes it’s better to stay independent, even if the money looks good, peace of mind matters more. Been there with family who expected too much and it just drains you. You did the right thing realizing it wasn’t worth it.

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

Next time, stay with your elder sister.

Bro,that should be your source of motivation for you to step up and hustle like you've never done before....

Some of us,we lived with our fathers and step mothers....I can tell you for free it wasn't easy at all.....But whenever I look back and think of how life was,in my father's house,I simply convert my aggression into buckling up and hustling..

Las las, nobody's coming to your rescue bro.....Na only you go sit your assss down and strategize on how to better your life,so as to avoid see-finish.

Wetin you do?

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

Greener pasture no mean say mk u be 100% parasitic.

And its like you ask money for everything from them, from breakfast, to money for TP, money for soap, ask ask ask.

Even if na u oga, a time go reach u seff go dish out same treatment.

You are a grown up man boss. So, u suppose know how things dey work and behave accordingly.

I know person wey dey stay with his in-law and the man dey beg am mk he no comot. He dey occasionally take dem out on Sunday (na diz one the man love am die cuz dem dey always shayo wella). He dey buy things for the house on a stead. Sometimes, he go just wash the man car for am. Even though d man don tell am mk he stop but he still dey do am.

And the funny thing is that he rarely eat in the house. Maybe some weekends.

If u package urself wella, respect go dey.

If u turn to Aaron (always begging) the insult go carry package come

louken:
Next time, stay with your elder sister.

Who be dis?

You were disappointed because they didn't want you to leech on them with your arrogant entitlement mentality, which is obviously glaring from your narration.
Please, humble yourself and serve unto greatness. No one owes you in this world.
Your type of character can repel even a destiny helper.
I hope I am not too harsh on you and your ilk.

Sonnobax15:

Bro,that should be your source of motivation for you to step up and hustle like you've never done bb bbefore....

Some of us,we lived with our fathers and step mothers....I can tell you for free it wasn't easy at all.....But whenever I look back and think of how life was,in my father's house,I simply convert my aggression into buckling up and hustling..

Las las, nobody's coming to your rescue bro.....Na only you go sit your assss down and strategize on how to better your life,so as to avoid see-finish.

He's inviting us to his pity party

Humility is key...be humble!

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

Na wetin you find go them house?

A newly married couple should be given some space to fully 'acclamatise'

Her house, her rules... If you have issues with it, pack up and leave.

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

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I hope when you pay them back in their own coin people shouldn't say you are wicked?
Some people will say they don't owe you anything, same way you shouldn't owe them anything if they need your assistance.
Life is simple.Wike once said if you do for I go do for you.

Glad you are out and hopefully when you get married you should allow the brother of your wife to come stay with you

Poor and arrogant lol

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

you go dey follow portable words of wisdom. Smh! Person wey no too well. Not everyone will help you without stressing you. In fact, a lot of people sometimes help because they feel the one who will benefit from the help has done a lot for them. Only a few will help you without "stressing" you.

Buh wait, how you sef go dey stay with your married younger sister? On top of that, you dey expect make Dem dey call you for family meeting 🤣😅

FreeIgboho:
Because you have entitlement mentality. That he's married to your younger sister doesn't mean he owes you anything. He's not your parent. It's not his fault you are poor!

We are meant to lift one another up! It is not bad if a man lifts his in-law up. After all, nobody really became rich on their own without being helped in one way or the other by other people.

This is why ladies should not just marry a man because he has money! A man can have all the money in the world but would not render any financial help to his wife not to talk of her family. While a good in-law with good heart can help his wife's family from his little resources or in other ways. But these ladies never listen!

louken:
Next time, stay with your elder sister.

Stay with elder sister for what exactly? To go and put pressure on the pocket of another man? Everyone has their issues.

Talkisneeded:
Glad you are out and hopefully when you get married you should allow the brother of your wife to come stay with you

Don't mind him, he thinks it's easy because he is not the one paying the bills when he does he will understand. This is how some of us said our uncles didn't try for us but now we are uncles and still can't do more than our uncles selfish world with double standard

Went through your previous posts and I realized something, you are a very negative person. You have a very negative energy and that's just unfortunate. If you keep up this way, then that's just going to be unfortunate.

Why man go carry himself go him younger sister marital home?

Na juju?

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

This is the worst judgement I have ever come across in 5 years.
Please, what took you out of your house?
Don't you have a House?
Go back to your Parents/ Guardian my friend.
You had the temerity to address your Younger sister as Foolish.
U should be grateful that a wealthy man patronized your family.
What stopped you from making money?
Are you allergic to wealth?
Just imagine the effrontery.
Were you in chains in their house?
Please delete this embarrassing topic.

That you reside with them does not exempt you from house chores.
U get luck say no be diaspora. No one will ever squat you.
Abroad na "No contribution No Chopping (NCNC)
Na homelessness straight.
Reason you must avoid Poor Homes during marriage.
It pays. I avoided them like plagues and it paid off.

Mrdealer4all:
This is the worst mistake I made by staying with my foolish younger sister and her husband in search of greener pasture because they have money.
Her husband treated me like slave and house boy.
The husband senior me with just 7 months will be talking to me like a child because life favour him...
Throughout my stay with them , they never treat me like in law or family member.
I was indoor throughout my stay with them..
Imagine staying with your in law for the first time after getting married to your younger sister for years and being treated like trash or nobody.
It is well.
Who go help you no go stress you.

. Please are you from Kogi State?

ExudeLoveToAll:
Stay with elder sister for what exactly? To go and put pressure on the pocket of another man? Everyone has their issues.

As younger sister no work out, let him try elder sister naa.
If that one too no work, he can try uncles and aunts.
Which other advice do you want me to give as he no gree humble himself and hustle

You want to be treated like an inlaw in a place you should be adding value and looking for opportunities to become better.

If I were to be your sister, I'll frustrate you to leave my house if you come entitled, lazy and disrespectful. You want her husband to see the family in a negative light because of your behavior. You no get mind tell us your offenses because you know say you no try.

The one with money has the upper hand regardless of age.
Even the Bible said in proverbs that the poor man's advice was rejected because he wasn't rich.

It's your type that wouldn't be humble to learn from younger persons because you're older but with NOTHING.