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| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Elzazzi: 4:30am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:You guys didn’t advise him on family planning? Why will a young average hustling Nigerian guy have 5 kids ? |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by ChybuzzDD(m): 4:49am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:OKK. May his soul RIP! |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by DrAda(f): 5:02am On Sep 28, 2025 |
From the comments, I m glad that people are waking up. Simply put, give birth to babies that you can raise properly or don't get married at all. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by yemmit90: 6:45am On Sep 28, 2025*. Modified: 11:05am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:I understand your point, but sincerely, no one can accurately predict the future, I have seen countless families like that. If the mother is sensible enough, she will see them through. This might look impossible to some of us in this present Nigeria but I will still say if their mother is sensible and work smartly, they will be fine. If quite a lot of married women whose irresponsible husbands are still alive took care of their children and train them well, there is no excuse for this one except she is lazy and senseless. A fairly use bike can still go for around 400k/500k, let her use this money to start local newly harvests farm produce supply from the Bush narket, she will make alot of profits per trip. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by DanBJChem: 6:55am On Sep 28, 2025 |
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| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by richmond500: 6:59am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:I only counter his saying that billionaires give birth to one or two. Elon musk didn't give birth to one or two |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by princepee: 7:27am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Laalasticla:madam you go soon do yourself.. If you hurt that child the government will come for you and you May spend sometime in jail.. I repeat don't maltreat that child.. Send him or her back to her mother.. Cus obviously you are blaming him for his parents failure. A word is enough for the Wise |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Laalasticla: 8:13am On Sep 28, 2025 |
princepee:Oga na u go do yourself...... I didn't request for the child.. The uncle brought her here.. Infact, I'm purposely using her as a maid so he can return her but he no green return her because he knows she will return to worse conditions... So yea, I have free maid serving me. Do your WRSE |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by mayorkent(m): 8:56am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Pressure day bro, almost 30 .spare naira never day account. I sha leave woman matter for now . |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by folake4u: 9:57am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Poor man and fvck? 5 & 6 I don't know why people think having plenty children is a flex. Spare me with the "Children are a gift from God" BS abeg. Raising children is a BIG RESPONSIBILITY. . |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Silentgroper(m): 10:47am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:Abeg make the wife carry Keke on higher purchase make she continue from where he stop.. Full housewife on top 5children .. some women no just get sense... |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Silentgroper(m): 10:59am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Laalasticla:Jesus Wicked aunty 😮💨😮💨😮💨😮💨 |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Silentgroper(m): 11:05am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Laalasticla:You better heed his advice.. if you maltreat that child, you will regret it .. You can send the child back to it's mom oo .. That's an option.. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by ajalawole(m): 11:08am On Sep 28, 2025 |
zuby4real10:my cousin have 9 from 2 wives even those most of the children are in village now, funny enough he is a bus driver in Lagos, he is also in his early 30s |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Suicideboy: 11:29am On Sep 28, 2025 |
folake4u:Black people generally see children as a way to propagate their lineage So they believe if you dont have kids , you have failed in life |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Suicideboy: 11:34am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Gerrard59:You have to be educated to want less children sadly IQ of nigerians is on a slope Check any asian or european family, they are having few to no kids except they are fuarking poor or too rich Its blavk men having 3,4,5,6,7,8,9 kids and call it a blessing |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by princepee: 11:35am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Laalasticla:do my worse ke? I don't have any worse. But bookmark my words... Don't use any man's child as slave. It's wicked, , if you don't want him, her return him for your own good. You don't know were your own children will be tomorrow. Do to orders what you want for yourself. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by yemmit90: 11:54am On Sep 28, 2025 |
Laalasticla:Nothing is guarantee in life, not even your children are safe from this situation if nature brings it to you and your husband ( I forbid this for your family). So whatever the position or situation you found yourself, try as much as possible to be kind to humanity. Children are like a powerful weapon in the hands of a mighty warrior, if you are to offend anyone in life, please don't do it to children, for they know absolute nothing about their sin or responsible for it. This is reason developed countries don't joke with the lives of their children. They are the future, and if you want a good future for the society you must train a child irrespective of their relationship to you. People visited and donate to orphanage, they brings homeless children from the streets and give them lives, but you could not at least be kind to a child under your care just because he is not your child. Let me tell you this, that child you abhors so much can be the one to give or take lives tomorrow. Mr. A refuse to train a child under him and send him away, he became homeless and joined a bad gang that happened to be hire assassin. Mr. A children are well brough up, educated and rich but unfortunately got robbed by unless boy Mr. A sent to the street and lost their lives in the attack. The above short story is the reason you need to take care of children under you (if you have the capacity), not only because of them or their future but because of future of your children and that of society at large. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Akpunti: 12:42pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Please I need the wife's contact If any forward it to me Thanks... |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by dododawa1: 12:47pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Ajeh The family will live better now. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Laalasticla: 12:58pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
yemmit90:Life is not a Bollywood movie sir... If the untrained child ( that's the fault of his own parents not mine) murders my child, I hope the untrain child does not die again...... Sir, I have no sentiments or pity to give, the innocent child is suffering the consequences of her parents, when someone gives birth to the number of children they can't train , they either end up as almajiris on the street or house helps every where.. Btw , you keep saying send her back to her mother, where she was, she literally begged everyday to survive, the mother isnt capable to take care of the children, they live from hands to mouth, but here she goes to school, ( can't even read), feed normally and cleans the house as it should ... But I don't even want her here cos of people like you who would always compare and contrast, wanting me to do all the things I do for my children because of the stale mantra'" nobody knows tomorrow", oga tomorrow is Monday mk Una make me rest |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by folake4u: 1:06pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Suicideboy:It's crazy actually. Strangely enough, there are still lots of people who'd have preferred no kids but just had to bow to societal pressure. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 2:11pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
richmond500:Again, you felt the need to mention those two because they are raising their kids on okada man salary, right? 😏 |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 2:14pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
ajalawole:Which kain evil people be this, abeg? A bus driver in Lagos has 9 children? ![]() |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by ajalawole(m): 2:30pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:yeah. My blood Cousin, the first wife had 5kids, the second wife who is not late has 4, I don't know if he had marry another wife cuz it been 4yrs I last travel home. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Omotonsho(m): 4:13pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
LordBiden:Tinibu is Just Barely 2 years in office, Meaning he had his children before the inception of Tinibu.. Child bearing is choice, Our Muslim brothers will give birth as much as they can and they will tell you say Na Allah dey take care of them,.. But the point is, Childbearing is a choice irrespective of the economy.. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by Kobojunkie: 4:22pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Omotonsho:Buhari was in office 8 years, Tinubu has been in office for just over 2 years... that is a total of over 10 years of back-to-back backwardness in Nigeria. Yet, you think people are justified in breeding like rats? ![]() |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by richmond500: 4:25pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Kobojunkie:Are they not billionaires? |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by ibechris(m): 5:59pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
judewrites:God has favoured everyone and I wonder what other favour do u want again. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by judewrites: 6:38pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
ibechris:Yes, God has favoured us all through Jesus Christ. But there are different levels of favour even among God's children. That's why some people enjoy prosperity more than others, it's not necessarily because of hard work, but the level of God's favour on them. Remember, the angel Gabriel told Mary: 'Thou are HIGHLY favoured'. |
| Re: Dear Men, Do Not Over Pressure Yourselves!!! by IamHonourable1: 6:48pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Sonnobax15:His wife is a wicked woman and one of the reasons that innocent man died before his time.How can a woman shamelessly decide to be jobless and be giving birth to several children |
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. Na over pressure kill the guy, nothing else.....