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When you see a situation whereby a married man was a millionaire, but along the way he lost everything and became completely broke it’s actually because he never had a plan B.

The best plan B you men don’t know is investing in your wife’s business. Once you are making enough money as a man and your wife is also into business, please kindly pump money into your wife’s business, expand the business, give her enough money to grow her business.

The reality of life is that No one knows tomorrow, you can lost everything you once had at any point and Trust me, you can never get to a very bad stage with this backup plan B.

I will support my man if he invested in my business but If my man didn’t invest in my business while he was getting enough money and he suddenly went broke, I will exercise little patient like 1 or 2 years to stay with him but if after that he didn’t get back to his feet, I will kindly dust my bag the 3rd year and leave him.

“For better, for worse” is not in the Bible. It’s a white man language, Biko.

What will then happen if the marriage doesn't work out?

Back up plan B wey woman go dey send you on errands just coz she's now the bread winner?

These Gen z generation go show you pepper

You dey call am plan b the woman go dey see am as plan Z.

Shishi no go come out from her pocket without reminding you of your brokeness

That will b a grave mistake

Samantha125:
What will then happen if the marriage doesn't work out?

Depending on who’s seeking for divorce.

If it’s the woman, it’s advisable she gives the man 30% - 40% share of the business but if it’s the man Otilo niyen

bigpicture001:
That will b a grave mistake

so investing in your wife’s business is a mistake and you think your wife will support you when you go down to zero??

I pity you.

From the way I see it, the man might want to claim the business as one of his assets regardless of who would've filed for divorce between the two.

I mean he'd have been the one who built and invested in it while the woman would've only managed it... And chances of the business being registered in the man's name are high in order to ensure that all his investments in the business are well secured.

Jennyclay:
Depending on who’s seeking for divorce.

If it’s the woman, it’s advisable she gives the man 30% - 40% share of the business but if it’s the man Otilo niyen

Samantha125:
From the way I see it, the man might want to claim the business as one of his assets regardless of who would've filed for divorce between the two.

I mean he'd have been the one who built and invested in it while the woman would've only managed it... And chances of the business being registered in the man's name are high in order to ensure that all his investments in the business are well secured.

He who pays the piper dictates the tune

If the man is the one who provided the funds to start the business it is only fit and proper that it be registered in his name

Samantha125:
What will then happen if the marriage doesn't work out?

Then her money is her's while yours too is her's after the divorce... Lol

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This is the first time I find Jennyclay's statement right. She is absolutely right here. I'm surprised. Did she repent or replace her brain?

Any man who does not trust his wife enough to support her business should admit that he was stupid in his choice of wife. If you don't choose a gold digger as a wife, you won't be scared of sponsoring her business.

A good wife is submissive and respectful to her husband even if she is richer than him. Ngozi Okonjo, Late Dora Akunyiri, Chimamanda Adichie, Oby Ezekwesiri are examples. A bad wife disrespects her husband even if he is richer than her.

Jennyclay:
When you see a situation whereby a married man was a millionaire, but along the way he lost everything and became completely broke it’s actually because he never had a plan B.

The best plan B you men don’t know is investing in your wife’s business. Once you are making enough money as a man and your wife is also into business, please kindly pump money into your wife’s business, expand the business, give her enough money to grow her business.

The reality of life is that No one knows tomorrow, you can lost everything you once had at any point and Trust me, you can never get to a very bad stage with this backup plan B.

Exactly.

Kobicove:
He who pays the piper dictates the tune

If the man is the one who provided the funds to start the business it is only fit and proper that it be registered in his name

Jennyclay:
Depending on who’s seeking for divorce. If it’s the woman, it’s advisable she gives the man 30% - 40% share of the business but if it’s the man Otilo niyen

Investing in her business is a good idea as that makes him a shareholder of sorts meaning that even if they were to get divorced, the woman would still need to pay him his share of the dividends from the business regardless. 😏😏

immortalcrown:
This is the first time I find Jennyclay's statement right. She is absolutely right here. I'm surprised. Did she repent or replace her brain?

Any man who does not trust his wife enough to support her business should admit that he was stupid in his choice of wife. If you don't choose a gold digger as a wife, you won't be scared of sponsoring her business.

A good wife is submissive and respectful to her husband even if she is richer than him. Ngozi Okonjo, Late Dora Akunyiri, Chimamanda Adichie, Oby Ezekwesiri are examples. A bad wife disrespects her husband even if he is richer than her.

na plan W, no be only plan B. woman neva do u strong thing.

no be same gender wey we all know.
What have you done for me naim go enter the matter at the end of everything.
Just dey play.

It’s as good as digging one’s grave

The truth about life in general, whether in relationship or marriage is that everything about it is a riisk.....As a man,You may choose not to invest on your wife and still experience the greatest marital smack down of your life......And you may equally support her business and still get the same betrayal too ....So it's a 50/50 something.......I support the controversial Jennyclay on this one

Jennyclay:
I will support my man if he invested in my business but If my man didn’t invest in my business while he was getting enough money and he suddenly went broke, I will exercise little patient like 1 or 2 years to stay with him but if after that he didn’t get back to his feet, I will kindly dust my bag the 3rd year and leave him.

“For better, for worse” is not in the Bible. It’s a white man language, Biko.

After you leave with your badluck, the man now got another better job, you'll now run and come back when your business collapse. As you know, anything can happen.

In many cases the women refused to help when the man faces financial difficulties

My own is Don't go overboard for any woman because she will forget

Fekumzi123:
➜After you leave with your badluck, the man now got another better job, you'll now run and come back when your business collapse. As you know, anything can happen.

Tell that joke to the millions of men out there who, many years after their women left them, are still plagued by the same bad luck. Africans and delusions are siamese twins joined in the brain.

Kobojunkie:
Tell that joke to the millions of men out there who, many years after their women left them, are still plagued by the same bad luck. Africans and delusions are siamese twins joined in the brain.

I don't like arguing too much, it's stressful. I rest my case.

Jennyclay:
When you see a situation whereby a married man was a millionaire, but along the way he lost everything and became completely broke it’s actually because he never had a plan B.

The best plan B you men don’t know is investing in your wife’s business. Once you are making enough money as a man and your wife is also into business, please kindly pump money into your wife’s business, expand the business, give her enough money to grow her business.

The reality of life is that No one knows tomorrow, you can lost everything you once had at any point and Trust me, you can never get to a very bad stage with this backup plan B.

E be like say you don dey get sense small small

De Play

Agreed. I witnessed this happened, my uncle while working in NNPC refused to tow the reckless lifestyle of his friends and instead sent his salary to his wife back home. Woman opened a shop at Effurun market and today they both run the shop every single day. Like a man of God once said.
“ men can only fall down to the level of their wife during tough times”, keep upgrading her level financially and mentally. Wife nt g.f

Plan B wey fit finish the person
Invest in yourself and make your wife support your growth why you teach her the ropes .

ablogroup:
True story:

I know of a very nice Urhobo man. He worked with Daily Times in the late 80s, He retired some years after and his graduity was paid. He decided to invest and he involved his lovely wife, they both opened a beer parlor and a provision store in both of their names. The business became an instant hit. Over the years the wife started taking more control of the business, she went behind his back to change the bank details from a corporate account in both of their names to her own personal account without the man's knowledge. To cut the long story short, she started to frustrate,starve and dehumanize the man cos she had total control of the business that was funded 100% by the man. Eventually she asked him to park his bags and go back to his Village. When the man told me the story I cried. Ever since then I have been supporting the man (now in his mid 60s) with some monthly stipends and hopefully I will open a small business for him over there in Delta state.

[color=#550000][/color][b][/b] same thing happened to my dad. As a man, plan yourself all the way down. If it’s possible for you to save money for your casket, then save it.

No one is coming for you, Not your wife or kids. There’s no plan B. That’s reality, that’s the truth.
Only very few ladies will be with you when you’re low and our fathers have married them all. The ones we have now are tax collectors social media baby mamas.

Make men invest in her business, make she go the carry sugar--boys abi.