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Veteran Yoruba actress, Lola Idije, has opened up about the harsh realities of being a single parent, describing it as one of the most difficult journeys any woman can face.

In a candid interview, the Nollywood star explained that raising children alone comes with enormous financial and emotional responsibilities. From paying school fees to providing daily meals, she noted that the burden often rests solely on the shoulders of single mothers. Eyes Of Lagos reports,

According to her, friends and relatives usually make promises of support but rarely show up when it truly matters, leaving women to “carry the load alone.”
Men, Trust, and Stereotypes

Lola Idije also addressed the challenges women—especially actresses—face in their relationships with men. She criticized many men for being unserious, revealing that some even place bets on who can “win” a woman’s affection.

She further noted that actresses are often disrespected and underestimated, with some men believing they can easily buy their attention with money—sometimes as little as ₦500,000.

Describing such stereotypes as degrading and hurtful, the actress urged women to be cautious with trust, warning that betrayal often comes from those expected to help.

Pushing Through Despite Challenges

Despite these struggles, Lola Idije praised single mothers for their resilience, sacrifice, and determination. She explained that, while society often judges women harshly—especially those in the entertainment industry—they continue to push forward for the well-being of their children.

She concluded with a message of encouragement:

“Life may not be easy, but with determination and faith, women can overcome even the toughest challenges and raise their children successfully.”

SafariHunter:
Marry an actress at your own peril except the like likes of Mercy Johnson who get sense and put her hubby first.

Aunty just dey find help and sugar zaddy

Habbeyy:
If you know that it is not easy, then raise your children with their father na

UniversalDove:
If you don't frustrate a man, he would never leave you. He will make every effort to provide.
You think it's easy for men but even you as a woman can't do it. Yet you think men are magicians.

If you don't want to be a single parent, respect men and do things together

Habbeyy:
If you know that it is not easy, then raise your children with their father na

Habbeyy:
If you know that it is not easy, then raise your children with their father na

Morenikeji090:
lol childish comment you are talking as if among men we don’t have the fools who don’t wanna take responsibility among men… we men should start to blame women for everything..

Host78:
did she say some men? She said men. Stop being a pick me.

There are billions of men, yet she slept with the irresponsible one. It's a problem with her decision making not the men.