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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by eepeepook: 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2025

I’m still wondering.

Feldie:
How is that a trick?

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by isaaclech(m): 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2025

Automatic marriage be that o… be wise..

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by ahamonyeka(m): 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2025

This same thing happen to me a lady in her late 30s whom dated long before now always telling me she wants to visit that she needs sex badly. I kept wondering is there no other guys around you or is she not dating any guy. So I ask her don't you have a boy friend ? She said No! I was shocked. I told her ok let's keep it month ending which she agreed the following she asked me for data and I told am broke for now I can't data after that day she has not been sending messages to me.this is somebody who I always sending happy new month messages every 1st of every month.but she forgot that she has told me that any man that gets her pregnant she will never abort it. Me I no ready to marry her as a wife.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by LoneSoldier: 3:29pm On Oct 01, 2025

lexy2014:
was marriage a scam to you?

Don't use alternate accounts to access

Am not married, but I know a friend of mine whose marriage is a mess.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by bcomputer101: 3:32pm On Oct 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
Omo is it my eyes or nairaland buttons has improved

Seun, please add dislike button. We need to let some people know that their comments are irritating

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by ednut1(m): 3:33pm On Oct 01, 2025

all these fake ig posts

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by mrkings84(m): 3:34pm On Oct 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
Omo is it my eyes or nairaland buttons has improved

What did you see?

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by MIKOLOWISKA: 3:34pm On Oct 01, 2025

budaatum:
So, basically, she should just buy him and own him? After all, he must be doing something apart from donating sperm, right?

Except, help the guy small now and he'd start to form the boss, yet I should serve him while his brat is bitting my tïts.

Yuk!

his brat yet na you de find pikin o.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by LoneSoldier: 3:35pm On Oct 01, 2025

RollinTNDA:
I did this and I regret it till this day

A girl in Europe I had one night stand with
She got pregnant and didn't tell me until i left Europe before COVID 2020
This wereh born my pikin and lock up
Until the baby turn 4 yrs

The worst part it is a baby girl and she looks like a mixed version of me very well.

Since we are apart, the highest I have done is zoom call with them.
And after each call, I start drinking to remove the sorrow. The sorrow of having a child that you won't be able to properly father.

Looking at her I just feel overwhelmed with regret. It tormented me for months to know I have a daughter I might never see physically again. Her mother vowed to never visit Nigeria due to bad news she hears about Nigeria

So my brother please don't do it
If you want to do it
Make sure she will not carry the child and run.
Make sure you are present in the baby life
Or else
You will regret it very well just like I did

If you had stayed single, maybe you would have not had this experience. She is not feeling the pain, you are the one suffering from the trauma she created in your life.

Single young men on nairaland learn from this man's experience.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Lovit(m): 3:38pm On Oct 01, 2025

So, if she marries him and both teams up to better their lives, what's wrong with that?

Who gave birth to these new generation of women?

In the past, our mothers work with our Dads in their farms and both laboured on those farms to raise their living standards and train their children together

Even now in the west, Married couples share bills to run the home

where does our Nigerian women falls into bayi?

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by jojothaiv(m): 3:41pm On Oct 01, 2025

RollinTNDA:
I did this and I regret it till this day

A girl in Europe I had one night stand with
She got pregnant and didn't tell me until i left Europe before COVID 2020
This wereh born my pikin and lock up
Until the baby turn 4 yrs

The worst part it is a baby girl and she looks like a mixed version of me very well.

Since we are apart, the highest I have done is zoom call with them.
And after each call, I start drinking to remove the sorrow. The sorrow of having a child that you won't be able to properly father.

Looking at her I just feel overwhelmed with regret. It tormented me for months to know I have a daughter I might never see physically again. Her mother vowed to never visit Nigeria due to bad news she hears about Nigeria

So my brother please don't do it
If you want to do it
Make sure she will not carry the child and run.
Make sure you are present in the baby life
Or else
You will regret it very well just like I did

I had similar case too. Babe is in faraway Scotland and I'm here still finding my bearing in Ojuelegba, had the girl immediately after high school and her family been the most cool and level headed folks I've ever met decided to send her to the UK without making noise about it.

She's 15 years old if I'm not mistaken and the feelings of regrets still bite harder.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by RealityKings1: 3:42pm On Oct 01, 2025

bcomputer101:
Seun, please add dislike button. We need to let some people know that their comments are irritating

I hole you know my common was made yesterday immediately after the update was introduced

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by obaidan: 3:58pm On Oct 01, 2025

This gender again. Dear young kings, when and if you decide to deal with this gender, ensure you are not holding the short end of the stick. Otherwise, you will weep. They will ask you why are crying u no go fit speak up.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Gerrard59(m): 4:01pm On Oct 01, 2025

Are there really that many single women in their 30s and above in Nigeria these days who genuinely need marriage? huh

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Gerrard59(m): 4:02pm On Oct 01, 2025

obaidan:
This gender again. Dear young kings, when and if you decide to deal with this gender, ensure you are not holding the short end of the stick. Otherwise, you will weep. They will ask you why are crying u no go fit speak up.

The solution is to use condom and have it at the back of one's mind that it is not every girl/lady one should have sex with.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by lexy2014: 4:04pm On Oct 01, 2025

LoneSoldier:
Am not married, but I know a friend of mine whose marriage is a mess.

thats interesting.

so you are not marrie and you have absolutely no experience in maariage but because of this your friend you then concluded that

LoneSoldier:
Marriage is just a scam, married men are really seeing shege with people they call life partners.

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Cmanforall: 4:05pm On Oct 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
Omo is it my eyes or nairaland buttons has improved

Seun is working 😁

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by boxypane: 4:05pm On Oct 01, 2025

RealityKings1:
Omo is it my eyes or nairaland buttons has improved

They decided to improve finally.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by marlow1962(m): 4:06pm On Oct 01, 2025

Predictor3:
That's not true. There are desperate people everywhere especially women. Don't you see the growing number of single mothers out there.?

I have a friend that is a single lady at age 30, no husband no kids, no boyfriend self. One day we were chatting about her issues, I told her I can help her out but Its going to come with a cost.
Just 2 things I told her, 1= that I won't be responsible for her or the baby or anything relating to her delivering the baby. 2= she's going to pay me.

She was speaking gibberish and I was just looking at her, up til now she's doesn't have any to hold on to.
Still no man and no kids.
I do not feel pity for her cus I know many men that I personally know of that were interested in her, but she dy do baddie, thinking she still has time.

Many women are the cause of their problems.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by mrjojo: 4:08pm On Oct 01, 2025

Gerrard59:
Are there really that many single women in their 30s and above in Nigeria these days who genuinely need marriage?

A whole LOT!! it's an endemic! and it's just the start

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by RealityKings1: 4:10pm On Oct 01, 2025

Cmanforall:
Seun is working 😁

Working Overtime grin

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by RealityKings1: 4:10pm On Oct 01, 2025

mrkings84:
What did you see?

I see CSS

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Jamie248: 4:19pm On Oct 01, 2025

budaatum:
You guy seriously need to buck up or become surplus to requirements!

Men have always been 'surplus to requirements'

In France already, you cannot do a DNA test without the partner's consent, according to them 'fatherhood is social, whilst motherhood is biological'. And in all the developed world if you divorce your wife you're the one gets kicked out of the house & into the streets. Nigeria will get there eventually

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by obaidan: 4:20pm On Oct 01, 2025

Gerrard59:
The solution is to use condom and have it at the back of one's mind that it is not every girl/lady one should have sex with.

But condom does not solve all. This situation for example, the boy is somewhere imagining he is about to start building a family with a woman he desires. Marriage never happen, the babe is already somewhere negotiating with the divorce lawyer she will use. Sometimes the only way to deal with these kind of users is to ensure you are well-positioned to do a bigger damage on them, once they begin to manifest

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by pocohantas(f): 4:26pm On Oct 01, 2025

Jman06:
Instead of marrying the guy and then join hands with him to start a business and make money, she's there talking about getting pregnant out of wedlock..

He should go look for a younger lady and join hands with her. Or do men not want sweet18 again? Better still he can keep hustling. Men age like wine. He would marry at 60.

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Omoawoke(m): 4:28pm On Oct 01, 2025

No big deal, some girls come straight to you and beg if you can father them a child.
Ive had one or two speak to me straight to get them pregnant… of course , they want my gene cuz I am really smart and good looking..
I may consider this later in few years time and help as many ladies that meet my criteria and want me to father their kids

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by CorperKola: 4:43pm On Oct 01, 2025*

Bukola94:
Make sure he has something doing and he is not lazy. A small salary is better than none, a handiwork is better than begging and depending on anyone. Give him a chance like two to three years, if he is hardworking, is story may change for good

Can you imagine being given 3 years probation by your wife whether you will make big money or not
Lol
See woman life
If i was the guy i would accept and if i male big money first thing i do is to marry more beautiful and yoinger wives

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Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by CorperKola: 4:44pm On Oct 01, 2025

Omoawoke:
No big deal, some girls come straight to you and beg if you can father them a child.
Ive had one or two speak to me straight to get them pregnant… of course , they want my gene cuz I am really smart and good looking..
I may consider this later in few years time and help as many ladies that meet my criteria and want me to father their kids

Shes the one that proposed the deal
Keep your advice for her not the man

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by Donchieli: 4:53pm On Oct 01, 2025

Wetin I wan beware off

Abeg who de game

Game on

Pupanchie:
Just said I should inform you guy on daily basics that this is the new pattern the women use now day when time is no longer on their side, so beware

Re: This Is The Trick Women Use Now, Guy Beware by ajalawole(m): 4:55pm On Oct 01, 2025

koladata:
I don't really think this story is true, to get pregnant out of wedlock, women would rather find someone who is financially buoyant but that does not like them for marriage

Anytime you see a women getting pregnant for a broke man, it's always by mistake even if they are married to the broke make.

young single mother are jokes to you. Most of those young girls know what they are doing, they want to use the pregnancy and baby bill someone down.

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