₦airaland Forum

LoneSoldier:
I don't know why is a norm in our society today for a grown up man, doing well financially who is not interested in marriage to be considered an irresponsible man. I think a man's decision should be personal not mandatory or tailored by society.

Marriage should be a thing of personal decision not been pressured by society.

What do you think?

chinchum:
how does eating infection and licking orifice of a public toilet equal enjoying your life?

LoneSoldier:
I don't know why is a norm in our society today for a grown up man, doing well financially who is not interested in marriage to be considered an irresponsible man. I think a man's decision should be personal not mandatory or tailored by society.

Marriage should be a thing of personal decision not been pressured by society.

What do you think?

KingDashx:
you just dey use lexx your life ni oh..

obataokenwa:
In a nutshell, all im trying to say is that Children abroad are more focused and set their priorities right from early age. Youths in Nigeria are not focus and most times are ashamed to start small or even learn a skill or trade.

How many kids abroad depend on yahoo for survival or how many of their girls are online or on the road doing prostitution depending on man for survival. Alot of 30+ in Nigeria dont even have headway. Ive advised some and even volunteered to pay for them to go learn skill like electric car repair, solar connection but none accepted my offer. Im talking from experience cos Nigeria is a timebomb of youths doing nothing

cucumbar:
Abeg, what is Tinubu solving 🤔

Una no Dey taya to play the blame game?

Sirseedorf:
I'm iny thirty, not because am irresponsible or bad as portrayed by the society but because i had to struggle to get some things which my parents never gave me, and which i had to struggle hard to give my children what I've never had, though another issue is finding the right partner because most lady prefers ready made guys than an hardworking determined guys. Many of us wish to marry at a specific time and age but nature and destiny works in different ways.

Nonexisting1:
I have clocked 30 and still single with pride. Anyone that sees me as an irresponsible man needs his or head examined.

ibedun:
Don’t do it guys!

I don say my own.

I hate this platform

HelloWorld80011:
When you are unmarried, you can challenge authority or raise insurrection since you don't have any family they can threaten or cause harm.
But a married man above 30 won't cause any fight because he won't want to put his wife through challenges

always247:
I am 31 I dont have a girlfriend talkless of getting married. any girl I talk to, will start trying to manipulate me into marrying her.

chidi2003:
Mohammed Yusuf, the founder of Boko haram, was married with wives and children - when he was causing problems in Nigeria - before being killed. So, your logic was wrong!

ONUTOPSY:
DON'T ALLOW ANYBODY TO FORCE YOU INTO MARRIAGE, WHEN YOU ARE NOT FULLY READY. MARRIAGE IS MORE THAN HAVING ENOUGH MONEY TO SHOULDER THE MARITAL RESPONSIBILITY; YOU MUCH BE EMOTIONALLY AND SPIRITUALLY STABLE.
(MANY RESPONSIBLE MEN ARE NOW IN BURIAL GROUND) BE WISED.

thomas2024:
Marriage is a social construct. It’s a bourgeois trap meant to enslave men so as to increase their capacity to the economy. Tell me how men have benefitted from marriage? The indoctrination has been programmed to us from birth that it’s cool to raise a family whereas children lean to their mother most time. Men provide and keep providing and they are only loved by what they provide. I love the fact that a lot are waking up, unplugging from the trap and matrix. Have protected segzx, have fun and take your financial life carefully for old age sake.


By the way, I stumbled on this picture and the pics hit me like fan.

HelloWorld80011:
When you are unmarried, you can challenge authority or raise insurrection since you don't have any family they can threaten or cause harm.
But a married man above 30 won't cause any fight because he won't want to put his wife through challenges

liveyourlife007:
You know someone that his Life has spoilt will be looking for people to join him.

I see married men as miserable humans, especially the struggling ones. Funny enough they will be looking at you singles as someone that's not responsible.
That's someone that still depends on his parents to send garri, plantain and Beans to feed his family.

Tueh.

It's just that we are living in an archaic society.
All we need is a companion, like in the movie with thesame title. An emotional support robot that we can just have sex with and discard at the end, since sex is the main reason men are falling for this scam called marriage.

obataokenwa:
Abroad by 18, 19, 20 people already have kids so that by 40, they're done training children. More reason they're responsible and focused in life while in naija, a man and a woman of 30+ still dey post sexy pictures on instagram.

Go to titktok and see how Nigerians chase free money and u will know that it will be a long lane for people to ever arrive. Anyday monetisation will be cancelled, alot will be useless

You see people give stupid reasons for being single. A man or woman of 30+ that's not in a serious relationship dont have any reason to blame Tinubu for bad govt.

endee1996:
For the longest of time, single 30+ women were being shamed because women begin to their physical deterioration @30 whilst men start theirs at 40

Maxxim:
I turned 30 this year, and the number of people asking about my partner and kids is overwhelming! It seems like something about this age triggers these questions, no one asked me before now. I just respond as if I have a partner and kids, and people treat me differently .

HelloWorld80011:
No man should have that amount of freedom. You're a potential threat to the laws because you'll be able to ask questions without fear.