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Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by tammie24: 3:35pm On Oct 02, 2025
Toxic manipulative men

Gaslight their women
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by Bishopwizzy(m): 3:55pm On Oct 02, 2025
damage control.., she is now scared of the consequences of her post since people are dragging her husband which was her intention for making the post. All of a sudden she's now defending him to probably save her marriage should he see the post or his attention drawn to it
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by waice6571: 4:02pm On Oct 02, 2025
This is how they misbehave until they lose the best person in their lives.

Can't women save their marriage from unnecessary dramas?
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by Zuckembego: 4:41pm On Oct 02, 2025
CharlotteFlair:
I concur.

She could have used the remaining 29 characters though.
grin
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by Abaman001(m): 5:08pm On Oct 02, 2025
We4all:
The man is selfish for allowing his kids to hop on a bike when he has a car. What stops him from teaching the woman how to drive or even getting a driver to do the job in his absence?

The woman is stupid for posting about it to her followers and then make a u-turn to defend the man. What if there is a medical emergency that requires one of the kids to be taken to the hospital at midnight?
What if the man don't owned a car at all, won't the medical emergency be taking care of through other means? So those who don't own cars has all lost their lives bah?
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by We4all: 5:24pm On Oct 02, 2025
Abaman001:
What if the man don't owned a car at all, won't the medical emergency be taking care of through other means? So those who don't own cars has all lost their lives bah?
What if? Since the post says he owns a car, I commented based on the information that was posted. Regardless, people have lost their lives because there was no vehicle to convey them to the hospital. It cannot be everyone, but it has happened, and it is still happening to the unfortunate ones. So, don't use your weak point to defend a selfish man and his silly ways.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by duduade(m): 5:33pm On Oct 02, 2025
Clout chasing gone wrong
😂 😂 😂
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by ElevationD: 5:56pm On Oct 02, 2025
Toyota Corolla. That’s probably there source of income, as the man may be an UBER driver. If he keeps the key and his wife drives it to destruction, where will they feed from? Her mates wey dey take transport carry children go school no be human being sef?
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by ElevationD: 5:58pm On Oct 02, 2025
We4all:
What if? Since the post says he owns a car, I commented based on the information that was posted. Regardless, people have lost their lives because there was no vehicle to convey them to the hospital. It cannot be everyone, but it has happened, and it is still happening to the unfortunate ones. So, don't use your weak point to defend a selfish man and his silly ways.
How did you come to the conclusion of selfishness. You took sides with the wife, without hearing the man’s side?
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by Kobojunkie: 6:00pm On Oct 02, 2025
ElevationD:
➜Toyota Corolla. That’s probably there source of income, as the man may be an UBER driver. If he keeps the key and his wife drives it to destruction, where will they feed from? Her mates wey dey take transport carry children go school no be human being sef?
Source of livelihood that cannot be used by his own wife to transport his own kids? You are literally saying that his own wife is a potential threat to his source of livelihood... the same source she obviously depends on, since she admits the reason she does not have her own is because she does not have financial independence? undecided
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by jaszplus12(m): 6:19pm On Oct 02, 2025
Zonefree:
Let's be frank, for the man not to travel with the car means he's trying to save cost or the car is not in good shape at that moment.


It's easier for a woman to carry camera and make video to post online because no be she dey pay mechanic for car repairs.

Na mostly poor girls from broke home dey behave this way. Person wey dey trek over 15 kilometres during her primary school days is same person complaining about her children going to school with bike and taxi.



May we not get entangled with broke girls!
Give her a break, for me I see two things here, the man no matter the circumstances should leave the keys behind just in case. There may be a fire, or situation that warrant the car being moved to avoid loss. Warn the woman to make sure only moved in cases that's emergency. He may think he's saving cost but i don't know how much he will save if something happens while kids are riding on okada to school...safer in the car being driven by their mum if she's able to drive. Why risk your family on careless okada.
My first car was for wife to drive kids to school while I hustled to obtain mine.
For the woman, it's just embarrassing that she can post this about her husband. Even if she's from a broke background and never owned a car, levels have changed and she is posing and posting, unfortunately not in positive light if I may say.
So it's all about them, but to me, the man should leave keys behind anytime he's travelling, one day he might bite his tongue in regret.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by DMCY: 6:42pm On Oct 02, 2025
Na only that guy sabi how e dey manage his car with faults not known to the wife, my perspective sha…
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by lilyheaven: 7:21pm On Oct 02, 2025
Emmy000seun:
Probably he might be saving the wife from crashing or even more deadly danger of driving... probably the wife dont know how to drive or he taught her already knowing fully well she is not perfect and if she knows where he drop the key she might go and try to drive in his back...don't judge the man base on say e carry key commot..na d reason behind it is the Koko..
Exactly ooo
If not why travel with the key 😆
He knows his wife very well.

She won’t tell us why her husband will pack car and travel with the key when she is in the house.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by CashVessel(m): 8:08pm On Oct 02, 2025
Emmy000seun:
Probably he might be saving the wife from crashing or even more deadly danger of driving... probably the wife dont know how to drive or he taught her already knowing fully well she is not perfect and if she knows where he drop the key she might go and try to drive in his back...don't judge the man base on say e carry key commot..na d reason behind it is the Koko..
Let us hear from the man first. We dont know your antecedents in driving. We cannot judge like that
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by vikstandon(m): 8:37pm On Oct 02, 2025
If you be the kind girl wey dey put Camera for one corner, dey video yourself dey dance... I no marry you.

When you no get shape again, you go carry family matter go online.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by kennethesan(m): 8:52pm On Oct 02, 2025
Is he ok?

What if there was an emergency? To rescue the car or a family member.

A stingy bro's convertible got flooded after he travelled to the UK with the keys so that it wasn't used.

It cost him a fortune to fix it.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by Ishilove: 9:39pm On Oct 02, 2025
Traveling with the car keys means he doesn't want the woman to touch his vehicle.

Women sha can defend rubbish. I hope he loses those keys one day when he travels so that he will spend additional thousands of naira to replace them
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by zeestone99(m): 9:36am On Oct 03, 2025
We4all:
The man is selfish for allowing his kids to hop on a bike when he has a car. What stops him from teaching the woman how to drive or even getting a driver to do the job in his absence?

The woman is stupid for posting about it to her followers and then make a u-turn to defend the man. What if there is a medical emergency that requires one of the kids to be taken to the hospital at midnight?
If you provide and pay for a driver, it's not bad. Show workings
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by zeestone99(m): 9:39am On Oct 03, 2025
jaszplus12:
Give her a break, for me I see two things here, the man no matter the circumstances should leave the keys behind just in case. There may be a fire, or situation that warrant the car being moved to avoid loss. Warn the woman to make sure only moved in cases that's emergency. He may think he's saving cost but i don't know how much he will save if something happens while kids are riding on okada to school...safer in the car being driven by their mum if she's able to drive. Why risk your family on careless okada.
My first car was for wife to drive kids to school while I hustled to obtain mine.
For the woman, it's just embarrassing that she can post this about her husband. Even if she's from a broke background and never owned a car, levels have changed and she is posing and posting, unfortunately not in positive light if I may say.
So it's all about them, but to me, the man should leave keys behind anytime he's travelling, one day he might bite his tongue in regret.
The way y'all are talking it's like there's no life for family without cars cos how would they save themselves. What if they didn't have the car, the children and wife will not live good life?
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by bukatyne(f): 10:51am On Oct 03, 2025
DyshApp:
A woman has gone viral on TikTok after sharing a video of her husband’s car, sparking hilarious reactions online.

In the clip, she is seen filming her husband’s parked car, saying he had “traveled again with the car key,” leaving her and the children to hop on a bike for school runs. According to her, this is routine, and she’s already used to it.

In the video, she said:

“He has travelled again with the car key while the car is here… bike all the way. This is a routine, so I am used to it. He will park car in the compound and take the key along with him.”

The video quickly went viral, with viewers both laughing and commenting on the situation. While some criticised her, she defended the clip, emphasizing it was purely humorous.

Must I drive the car? It is not mine, so I don’t have the need to be entitled to his car. A man who pays school fees, house rent, and feeding can’t be labelled bad or wicked because of a funny video,” she wrote.

She also encouraged financial independence for women:

Women, hustle for your own money, especially if your hubby isn’t big on sharing. Get the things you desire without waiting for anyone to hand them over.
The two bolded part of the post tells me all I need to know.

Anyways, she has found a way to navigate the situation, it's all good.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by xeju: 12:05pm On Oct 03, 2025
Na social media go kill una. Now I cherish the lives our parents & grandparents lived.
DyshApp:
A woman has gone viral on TikTok after sharing a video of her husband’s car, sparking hilarious reactions online.

In the clip, she is seen filming her husband’s parked car, saying he had “traveled again with the car key,” leaving her and the children to hop on a bike for school runs. According to her, this is routine, and she’s already used to it.

In the video, she said:

“He has travelled again with the car key while the car is here… bike all the way. This is a routine, so I am used to it. He will park car in the compound and take the key along with him.”

The video quickly went viral, with viewers both laughing and commenting on the situation. While some criticised her, she defended the clip, emphasizing it was purely humorous.

“Must I drive the car? It is not mine, so I don’t have the need to be entitled to his car. A man who pays school fees, house rent, and feeding can’t be labelled bad or wicked because of a funny video,” she wrote.

She also encouraged financial independence for women:

“Women, hustle for your own money, especially if your hubby isn’t big on sharing. Get the things you desire without waiting for anyone to hand them over.”
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by jaszplus12(m): 12:06pm On Oct 03, 2025
zeestone99:
The way y'all are talking it's like there's no life for family without cars cos how would they save themselves. What if they didn't have the car, the children and wife will not live good life?
Hmmmm...have we said so?
So because he or she had lived without a car in the past, he or she should also not drive the car regularly? Then they should continue to just live without the car! What's the point buying one when you will then resort to using your feet or okada!!
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by emperordammy69(m): 5:36am On Oct 04, 2025
Boluwajipraise:
Best thing the husband could do is take her to driving school and stop suffering the woman, make little kids no grow meet this nonsense them dey do
As an adult, you have to wait for a fellow adult to register you in a driving school? Na everything man go dey do for dem? SMH
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by zeestone99(m): 10:48am On Oct 04, 2025
jaszplus12:
Hmmmm...have we said so?
So because he or she had lived without a car in the past, he or she should also not drive the car regularly? Then they should continue to just live without the car! What's the point buying one when you will then resort to using your feet or okada!!
If you own a car then you should know there many reasons for such situations.
Are you married? Do you have kids? It's easier to talk about marriage as a single man or woman.

The man must have his reasons best known to him.

What would you have said if the wife have an accident with the car and injuring the kids.

The only reason a man will take his keys is if you are a stubborn person.

I use to be like that. I could drive but was not perfect, I drive my dad's car when I was still a sec school student decades ago, at first he warns me not to take the car and I still take it anyway and bring it back with small small scratches until I hit the corner of the fence while trying to enter the compound. I didn't pay a dime in maintenance or repair. Not to talk of this present age, I won't allow U drive until you are good enough or I have the funds for repair or pay people that you got Thier car damaged by hitting them. If he had such funds he won't be driving a corolla.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by jaszplus12(m): 6:11pm On Oct 04, 2025
zeestone99:
If you own a car then you should know there many reasons for such situations.
Are you married? Do you have kids? It's easier to talk about marriage as a single man or woman.

The man must have his reasons best known to him.

What would you have said if the wife have an accident with the car and injuring the kids.

The only reason a man will take his keys is if you are a stubborn person.

I use to be like that. I could drive but was not perfect, I drive my dad's car when I was still a sec school student decades ago, at first he warns me not to take the car and I still take it anyway and bring it back with small small scratches until I hit the corner of the fence while trying to enter the compound. I didn't pay a dime in maintenance or repair. Not to talk of this present age, I won't allow U drive until you are good enough or I have the funds for repair or pay people that you got Thier car damaged by hitting them. If he had such funds he won't be driving a corolla.
Sir your arguments are logical, but we all know that good or bad drivers still get involved in minor to major accidents but does that mean we shouldn't drive again? No, if you follow my statement, I blamed both sides but like I mentioned, IMHO, I'd rather my family are in a car than on okada...no, I never said the man is poor, we all have our priorities and I speak as a man with vast experience...
Whatever reason the man had for taking away the keeys we respect that but I still say, leaving the keys are better than going away with them.
Just my opinion...
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by zeestone99(m): 10:59pm On Oct 04, 2025
jaszplus12:
Sir your arguments are logical, but we all know that good or bad drivers still get involved in minor to major accidents but does that mean we shouldn't drive again? No, if you follow my statement, I blamed both sides but like I mentioned, IMHO, I'd rather my family are in a car than on okada...no, I never said the man is poor, we all have our priorities and I speak as a man with vast experience...
Whatever reason the man had for taking away the keeys we respect that but I still say, leaving the keys are better than going away with them.
Just my opinion...
All you said is true but you have not factored reality. Any small bashing in this economy is money. Money that would have sorted other bills. When you look at it from the angle of a family that's just doing ok and can't afford any gbese. You will understand.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by jaszplus12(m): 11:07pm On Oct 04, 2025
zeestone99:
All you said is true but you have not factored reality. Any small bashing in this economy is money. Money that would have sorted other bills. When you look at it from the angle of a family that's just doing ok and can't afford any gbese. You will understand.
My brother, I wear shoes and I know where it pinches!! And again I say, if there a car, it's to be used by the family, and let me say this, no matter how careful one is, if an accident will occur, it won't be because you're careful or careless!! So whether it's the man or wife, it may happen!
Why deprive yourself or family??
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by zeestone99(m): 9:20am On Oct 05, 2025
jaszplus12:
My brother, I wear shoes and I know where it pinches!! And again I say, if there a car, it's to be used by the family, and let me say this, no matter how careful one is, if an accident will occur, it won't be because you're careful or careless!! So whether it's the man or wife, it may happen!
Why deprive yourself or family??
What if the car is dangerous for the family and can put them in danger. Is that a good reason or you will still go ahead and find out?
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by Kobojunkie: 11:59am On Oct 05, 2025
zeestone99:
✓ What if the car is dangerous for the family and can put them in danger. Is that a good reason or you will still go ahead and find out?
A car is too dangerous because their is a demon living inside of it or something? 🥱🥱🥱

Or the woman who knows to drive is too stewpid to understand the details of hy she probably should not drive a car that is missing brake pads or could potentially knock? I don't follow, abeg! 🥱🥱🥱
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by jaszplus12(m): 1:00pm On Oct 05, 2025
zeestone99:
What if the car is dangerous for the family and can put them in danger. Is that a good reason or you will still go ahead and find out?
I'm trying to hide my shock at this statement you made sir.
Anyway, if the man is the only one who can drive the car without posing and danger to the family then so be it!
No further comment...cheers.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by zeestone99(m): 3:37pm On Oct 05, 2025
jaszplus12:
I'm trying to hide my shock at this statement you made sir.
Anyway, if the man is the only one who can drive the car without posing and danger to the family then so be it!
No further comment...cheers.
I'm shocked how you all see it from just one angle too. I'm tired of going back and forth. All your arguments is just based on right conditions, you don't factor the conditions might not be right based on the persons standards.
Re: Woman Defends Husband After Critics Slammed Him For Traveling With Car Key by jaszplus12(m): 4:14pm On Oct 05, 2025
zeestone99:
I'm shocked how you all see it from just one angle too. I'm tired of going back and forth. All your arguments is just based on right conditions, you don't factor the conditions might not be right based on the persons standards.
Sir, looks like you just needed to respond right? Did you really read my comments?? Hope you understand when I mentioned EXPERIENCE?
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