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A heartwarming yet controversial moment just unfolded on X, formerly known as Twitter, when a man made a public proposal to his partner in an open restaurant, prompting both applause and debate across social media.

The romantic gesture, witnessed by friends, family, and onlookers, showcased his commitment and love, but also sparked discussions about how bold he was to make such public displays of affection.

While many applaud the man for his courage and the authenticity of his love, others questioned whether such proposals should be done publicly, citing privacy concerns and potential social media scrutiny.

This proposal has ignited a conversation about inclusivity, representation, and how society perceives relationships involving people of different statures. Many supporters highlighted that love transcends physical differences and applauded the couple for their unapologetic celebration of their bond.

A red cap wearing man, kneeling down? Just wear suit and do your shit

She is short but her character might be tall. His choice of woman

Soon skit makers will start receiving beating s

Make Una just dey play... let's go back to our culture and traditions...all these western style of proposal will not help us

Nice!!!! Wishing them a happy and blissful married life.

Normal norm, I don't know why the brouhaha. Should it be done the other way

viqSmallz:
A red cap wearing man, kneeling down? Just wear suit and do your shit

Explain in 40 characters how his kneeling down concerns your existence on earth

I don’t know why there is too many foolish men nowadays

Hhh4444:
Make Una just dey play... let's go back to our culture and traditions...all these western style of proposal will not help us

Explain how our culture and traditions helped us today, and how his western style affects your existence.

Live and let live.

He knelt and they were still same height

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Edusouls:
I don’t know why there is too many foolish men nowadays

Abi now, and I'm very definitely sure you are part of them.

Keybliss:
Normal norm, I don't know why the brouhaha. Should it be done the other way

What makes it normal?

Is that how an African man should propose marriage?!

Just look at how this one is disgracing red cap chiefs

Shawarmagirl:
The day my hubby propose to me, it was inside his room when I visited. Just the two of us at home. He just brought it out without kneeling down and ask me to marry him. I said YES. Today we are both enjoying the most enjoyable marriage in history. 3 months after marriage, I joined him in the UK.

He hates publicity.

Hehehehe. We ALL know you're an igbo male.

What do you guys gain from these pointless games ?

Tomorrow when you offend her and she will ask you to kneel down and beg you will start forming Bruce Lee.

Nawaoo for this generation.


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I pour every black african man spit that copy white man culture without shame

Black Africans, should be black Africans

The only reason you should kneel down to propose is if you are proposing to a western girl… (that’s their culture and you have to respect it to propose to her)

Other than that, I omoawoke will never ever kneel down to propose to any Nigerian /african girl

Chinese don’t do it, Arabs don’t do it, Indians don’t do it… only black Africans with identity issues and low self esteemed

What all this kneeing down to propose?
You belittle yourself as a man by doing so!
She just wants to get married and not all these unnecessary extras!
A lady wants to see a father in a man for marriage not a boy!

Shawarmagirl:
The day my hubby propose to me, it was inside his room when I visited. Just the two of us at home. He just brought the ring out without kneeling down and ask me to marry him. I said YES. Today we are both enjoying the most enjoyable marriage in history. 3 months after marriage, I joined him in the UK.

He hates publicity.

Well done! May your marriage last till your old age and may you enjoy every blessings that come with it

Wore red cap to kneel down.

Must be an Anambra man. They are notorious for stuff like this once women are involved.

Biglittlelois:
Explain how our culture and traditions helped us today, and how his western style affects your existence.

Live and let live.

Divorce rate has been on the rise ever since we started copying them. Marriage is no longer seen as a worthy venture by many. Our women are now embracing feminism which now makes marriage uninteresting for the men.

This one na skit nau.


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Biglittlelois:
Explain how our culture and traditions helped us today, and how his western style affects your existence.

Live and let live.

The people that maintained their cultures are thriving

Having an identity issues is a serious problem that doesn’t help in anyway… it creates confusion and lose of spirituality and awarensss

It’s a thing of shame

See Japanese, Koreans, Chinese, and majority of Indian that maintained their culture and highly successful

There’s even a reason uk and western countries are protesting today against immigration that immigrants are coming to destroy their culture and identity…
They are worried of western civilization coming to a threat

But you that your identity and culture have almost been eroded completely, you are still saying this!

What’s wrong in embracing your culture and identity ??


Have you seen Japanese doing wedding? Or Jews doing weddings?
Which among them copy western ways… but only you black Africans do this nonsense

Copying of gibberish from westerners. Tụfịakwa.
Western men have proven to be ultimate simps, look how they unwittingly transferred their rights to women.
Women are playing them like football in their own courts of law that it's become almost impossible to win women in the same courts. Who made the stupid laws? Men.
Who are at the receiving ends? Men.

Back to the matter, why go down on one's knees to ask a lady to marry you? Is she the one to fund the marriage? Is she the head of the union?
Is she doing you a favour?
Most people just copy what they don't know.

Africans watch Hollywood too much
Not our culture

Hhh4444:
Divorce rate has been on the rise ever since we started copying them. Marriage is no longer seen as a worthy venture by many. Our women are now embracing feminism which now makes marriage uninteresting for the men.

Lol keep lying to yourself

Divorce rate is higher today because women realise that they don't have to endure marriage with a deadbeat violent irresponsible cheat of a man because of a culture and tradition that doesn't respect and consider women's emotional, mental, and psychological health, a selfish culture that should be scrapped or rewritten cos no progress had been made in the Nigerian society today, only regression.

All this proposal just to drill borehole.
God knows I can't do this.

So, man must now kneel down to propose to his girlfriend?
Why is it that our people don't see good things to copy?

Omoawoke:
The people that maintained their cultures are thriving

Having an identity issues is a serious problem that doesn’t help in anyway… it creates confusion and lose of spirituality and awarensss

It’s a thing of shame

See Japanese, Koreans, Chinese, and majority of Indian that maintained their culture and highly successful

There’s even a reason uk and western countries are protesting today against immigration that immigrants are coming to destroy their culture and identity…
They are worried of western civilization coming to a threat

But you that your identity and culture have almost been eroded completely, you are still saying this!

What’s wrong in embracing your culture and identity ??


Have you seen Japanese doing wedding? Or Jews doing weddings?
Which among them copy western ways… but only you black Africans do this nonsense

Are we still talking about public proposal or we are deviating elsewhere?

Explain to me in graphic details how kneeling down to propose to a woman has automatically stopped our culture and traditions?

Cos last I checked, traditional weddings are still rampant today and thriving, so explain exactly how it's been erased.

Biglittlelois:
Lol keep lying to yourself

Divorce rate is higher today because women realise that they don't have to endure marriage with a deadbeat violent irresponsible cheat of a man because of a culture and tradition that doesn't respect and consider women's emotionally, mentally, and psychological health, a selfish culture that should be scrapped and rewritten cos no progress had been made in the Nigerian society today, only regression.

Our culture is for the good of women. It checks their excesses. Women need measures in place to guide them properly. The freedom you crave is what is destroying marriage in the west and even now in Nigeria. Your gender can't handle the freedom you seek,it will only lead to self-destruction and erosion of family values.

In a country when people invest much energy in discussing other people's personal affairs, it is inevitable to find irrelevant stories occupying front page of newspapers and major online platforms.