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Check This Out by Solofresh2(op): 9:44am On Oct 04, 2025
Hello nairalanders, there is something I would like to share here so, I need your contribution to this.
There is this girlfriend of mine that is nice when I first met her last year.So earlier this year she started playing games with me because I decided to be myself.Being myself in the sense that, I do things my way without looking at her reaction.I mean I became assertive.She played games to the extent that she started behaving rudely.So I questioned her new behavior and cautioned and she took it personal.She stopped seeing me, she stopped calling,if I call her she won't pick up.If I text her she won't reply.I was even thinking she would block me but she didn't.I didn't threaten her or anything so, I decided to let her be.
So weeks after, She started noticing I don't call or text her again.I didn't tell anyone what happened between us, not even her close friends.But she has painted me bad to them.So she noticed and started checking my status again on WhatsApp.All those weeks, she is already seeing another guy.One of her friends told me that.
Last week, she called me but I didn't pick up she texted me,I saw the message notification but didn't open it, She was saying I never loved her, that I was just using her to pass time, accusing me of cheating on her with one of her friends.She was actually pained that I stopped texting and calling her.
I haven't even read her message finish because I only read from the notification that popped up

What do you think I guys
Re: Check This Out by Pupanchie: 9:53am On Oct 04, 2025
Solofresh2:
Hello nairalanders, there is something I would like to share here so, I need your contribution to this.
There is this girlfriend of mine that is nice when I first met her last year.So earlier this year she started playing games with me because I decided to be myself.Being myself in the sense that, I do things my way without looking at her reaction.I mean I became assertive.She played games to the extent that she started behaving rudely.So I questioned her new behavior and cautioned and she took it personal.She stopped seeing me, she stopped calling,if I call her she won't pick up.If I text her she won't reply.I was even thinking she would block me but she didn't.I didn't threaten her or anything so, I decided to let her be.
So weeks after, She started noticing I don't call or text her again.I didn't tell anyone what happened between us, not even her close friends.But she has painted me bad to them.So she noticed and started checking my status again on WhatsApp.All those weeks, she is already seeing another guy.One of her friends told me that.
Last week, she called me but I didn't pick up she texted me,I saw the message notification but didn't open it, She was saying I never loved her, that I was just using her to pass time, accusing me of cheating on her with one of her friends.She was actually pained that I stopped texting and calling her.
I haven't even read her message finish because I only read from the notification that popped up

What do you think I guys
That's the matured way to deal with a female and it shows how alpha you are but the only one thing I can tell you is never to accept her back for the fact she has painted you black, it's a sign of red flag and manipulation, fling her away, I'm suggesting the other guy have had his way and fling her which is why she's looking for a way to get back to you.
Re: Check This Out by Solofresh2(op): 10:00am On Oct 04, 2025
Pupanchie:
That's the matured way to deal with a female and it shows how alpha you are but the only one thing I can tell you is never to accept her back for the fact she has painted you black, it's a sign of red flag and manipulation, fling her away, I'm suggesting the other guy have had his way and fling her which is why she's looking for a way to get back to you.
Thanks for this
I appreciate


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Re: Check This Out by headbasher96(m): 12:36pm On Oct 04, 2025
Pupanchie:
That's the matured way to deal with a female and it shows how alpha you are but the only one thing I can tell you is never to accept her back for the fact she has painted you black, it's a sign of red flag and manipulation, fling her away, I'm suggesting the other guy have had his way and fling her which is why she's looking for a way to get back to you.
like say him go even listen to you solo wey if e see bwess him head the turn na just one round of sex go come give you this Sunday and you go throw caution to the wind
Re: Check This Out by Solofresh2(op): 1:05pm On Oct 04, 2025
headbasher96:
like say him go even listen to you solo wey if e see bwess him head the turn na just one round of sex go come give you this Sunday and you go throw caution to the wind
I will listen bro grin grin
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