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lagostrendboy:
https://eyesoflagos.com/lady-shares-shocking-messages-from-ex-husband-after-leaving-marriage/

The lady should kindly narrate how she travelled to UK and how she managed to fund the whole expenses. Let start from there. Some women are really sth else. Believe them at your risk.

Kobojunkie:
No point for men to engage women at all. These days a man can pretty much work to pay for and raise his own family without a woman in the picture. That should be encouraged.

A man can, in this day and age pay for a surrogate, a nanny, cleaner, tutor, housekeeper, sex provider, cook, mental counselor, personal assistant, laundry service, etc,. All he needs do is work on himself and pay for the peace of mind he needs without a woman needing to be in the picture. So why not encoi that instead? 🥱🥱🥱

Men be extra Extremely careful.. in all thing's. Get the message my bro .

motionarena:
See them
They get pained when a woman wins.

If it is a man that shares the same story they will rejoice with him

How did she win?? Its still on going......do u know how the woman will finally end?? They are still both young... 95% of women still regret divorcing their husband ...especially when they hit 50s

Mynd44:
When he was broke in Nigeria, bro was not called a narcissist. But when she gain financial independent, it jumped out.

I am not saying the guy was not an abusive prick just wondering why she didn't leave him when they were both in Nigeria

kai.. Mynd77 u don talk my mind finish

McCarlito:
I don't trust a one sided story.... Expessially coming from a woman..
Until I hear from the side of the man; then it would be easier to comment...
I don't trust these women...

There is always three sides to any story...

I am a stingy man, women who has come across me can testify about it, as you come. I will tell you that I don't give money to women, and that am not interested in marriage, these two things are what has been pushing them away. I no get time for long talk.

Mynd44:
When he was broke in Nigeria, bro was not called a narcissist. But when she gain financial independent, it jumped out.

I am not saying the guy was not an abusive prick just wondering why she didn't leave him when they were both in Nigeria

That is normal na. There is one on TT that started content creation and remembered her husband is abusive. It is possible he could have been abusive given she posted evidences, but it is also eye-opening it took financial independence for her to leave. If you give many women money, a good percentage of men would wake up without wives tomorrow.

motionarena:
See them
They get pained when a woman wins.

If it is a man that shares the same story they will rejoice with him

No she didn't win. She lost. You guys don't get it.

Believe a woman's story at your risk, they always blame others and cover up their misbehaviors

Tell her Kemi Badenoch is planning to deport 750,000 immigrants soon!

lagostrendboy:
https://eyesoflagos.com/lady-shares-shocking-messages-from-ex-husband-after-leaving-marriage/

Believe these women at your peril . Any person that accuses the spouse as being narcissistic is most likely the one guilty . You dont leave a narcissist and not immediately proceed to therapy . Brainless lot jumping on any big sounding words for social.clout

semid4lyfe:
Reminds me of David Hundeyin and his ex-wife.

The ex-wife was from a poor background, and he married her against his family wishes. Her marital affiliation with him changed her life, and that of her family.

When they were separated, and the ex-wife was leaving, the MIL stopped at the doorway, turned and said to him, "you may think that you helped us and changed our lives, but it was God who used you". Talk about misattribution and gaslighting 101.

I am always wary of ladies who are quick to refer to men as narcissist. E come be like say narcissism na gender based trait, as I have never heard of men referring to women as narcissists.

The man should move on. It is well even in the well.

And if u check the meaning of that word, u will realise that for every male narcissist, there are about 10 female narcissist.... a narcissist is a person that loves attention... that's attention is a woman's drug

How do we know she is saying the truth?

Failed Man.......
You go explain tire
E pain am well well.

They always turn bitter when their women progresses.

pocohantas:
That is normal na. There is one on TT that started content creation and remembered her husband is abusive. It is possible he could have been abusive given she posted evidences, but it is also eye-opening it took financial independence for her to leave. If you give many women money, a good percentage of men would wake up without wives tomorrow.

But men will still stay and take care of their wives if they hit big... there was a social experiment that was conducted...


They asked 50 women between the ages of 25 and 35 what they will do if they suddenly hit a large amount of money... tey al talked about shopping and taking care of their parents and siblings...none mentioned marriage... they asked 50 men between the ages of 30 and 40, 90 percent said they will first get married and reserve funds to take care if their wife and future kids and then invest so that money can keep on flowing to be able to take care of their family ..

This shows uvtge true nature of women.... they really don't care about men...they only care about te benefits they get from men

Truth of the matter is that most women will leave their husbands once they gain some form of financial independence especially when you then join it with relocation to the west.

cr7lomo:
But men will still stay and take care of their wives if they hit big... there was a social experiment that was conducted...


They asked 50 women between the ages of 25 and 35 what they will do if they suddenly hit a large amount of money... tey al talked about shopping and taking care of their parents and siblings...none mentioned marriage... they asked 50 men between the ages of 30 and 40, 90 percent said they will first get married and reserve funds to take care if their wife and future kids and then invest so that money can keep on flowing to be able to take care of their family ..

This shows uvtge true nature of women.... they really don't care about men...they only care about te benefits they get from men

Oga, bottomline, as a man think of yourself, plan for retirement, enjoy yourself with your money while still able to, take care of your health, have it in your mind no one has your back, be it wife or kids, if you are lucky they do, thank God and take it as a compliment as you have already had your own back.

pocohantas:
That is normal na. There is one on TT that started content creation and remembered her husband is abusive. It is possible he could have been abusive given she posted evidences, but it is also eye-opening it took financial independence for her to leave. If you give many women money, a good percentage of men would wake up without wives tomorrow

@Emboldened

Especially in Nigeria but many Nigerian men are very okay with that arrangement.Afterall,without money,what else do many Nigerian men have to offer any woman?NOTHING!

cr7lomo:
But men will still stay and take care of their wives if they hit big... there was a social experiment that was conducted...


They asked 50 women between the ages of 25 and 35 what they will do if they suddenly hit a large amount of money... tey al talked about shopping and taking care of their parents and siblings...none mentioned marriage... they asked 50 men between the ages of 30 and 40, 90 percent said they will first get married and reserve funds to take care if their wife and future kids and then invest so that money can keep on flowing to be able to take care of their family ..

This shows uvtge true nature of women.... they really don't care about men...they only care about te benefits they get from men

@Emboldened

Nothing wrong with that.
If men cannot develop the same mindset towards women and continue being their lapdogs,then they should keep "chopping breakfast" from women.
Shikena.

pocohantas:
That is normal na. There is one on TT that started content creation and remembered her husband is abusive. It is possible he could have been abusive given she posted evidences, but it is also eye-opening it took financial independence for her to leave. If you give many women money, a good percentage of men would wake up without wives tomorrow.

You are not just mature, you are intelligent.

cr7lomo:
But men will still stay and take care of their wives if they hit big... there was a social experiment that was conducted...


They asked 50 women between the ages of 25 and 35 what they will do if they suddenly hit a large amount of money... tey al talked about shopping and taking care of their parents and siblings...none mentioned marriage... they asked 50 men between the ages of 30 and 40, 90 percent said they will first get married and reserve funds to take care if their wife and future kids and then invest so that money can keep on flowing to be able to take care of their family ..

This shows uvtge true nature of women.... they really don't care about men...they only care about te benefits they get from men

Very big lie that people keep on parading until it became the truth.
The same as saying women are not breadwinners in nigeria nor contributes anything to the upkeep of the family both extended.
Wonder how people run with this mad story everytime.

Nigerian women are the most industrious in this world bearing in mind the restrictions from cultural and religious angles.
Those in the markets, offices are probably ghosts.


When you have men who are filled with low self esteem and didnt know they have it, comments like this abounds.

oluseyiforjesus:
God hate divorce not divorcees.
So wen it's toxic walk away please

Excuses could always be produced and made to sound true to justify preconceived decisions. Most Nigerian women uses domestic violence and infidelity as reasons for leaving their marriage to generate sympathy.

descarado:
Very big lie that people keep on parading until it became the truth.
The same as saying women are not breadwinners in nigeria nor contributes anything to the upkeep of the family both extended.
Wonder how people run with this mad story everytime.

Nigerian women are the most industrious in this world bearing in mind the restrictions from cultural and religious angles.
Those in the markets, offices are probably ghosts.


When you have men who are filled with low self esteem and didnt know they have it, comments like this abounds.

Industrious by billing men , prostitution and feeling entitled.... how many women are bread winners ? They will still tell the world that they re the ones feeding their family.....even if thy only do it for one month. ... Asian women are the most industrious women in the world....Nigerian women don't even come close

Nwaikpe:
To every woman that leaves a man after she has attained a level of independence, "Their husband is a cheat, and they now know their self-worth."
Even if they were cheating oh.

Don't mind women o. How are we even sure the man was abusive? That's the excuse these women always give, abusive. I fear men wey no fear women..

LagosOrigin:
All this bimbos should let us rest. Nobody cares about what your husband sent you or how you people lived your lives. Make all of una getat with the attention seeking show of shame .

why are you angry

tammie24:
why are you angry

Me angry ke?

Mynd44:
When he was broke in Nigeria, bro was not called a narcissist. But when she gain financial independent, it jumped out.

I am not saying the guy was not an abusive prick just wondering why she didn't leave him when they were both in Nigeria

I'm saying he's not. That's how it always turned out for men, not the first time and won't be the last.
The moment these women used their husbands to travel out based on the agreement between them, these selfish people would just start destroying their husbands image on social media. He was abusive and yet sent you first to travel out? If anyone thinks I'm lying or siding with the man, I will remind you that just last year, UK police (I think London) did sensitisation for Nigerian (Yoruba) women in UK to stop stressing the UK police and stop making life hard for their husbands. Because, police discovered that most of the calls to the police department about husbands abuse is false

descarado:
Very big lie that people keep on parading until it became the truth.
The same as saying women are not breadwinners in nigeria nor contributes anything to the upkeep of the family both extended.
Wonder how people run with this mad story everytime.

Nigerian women are the most industrious in this world bearing in mind the restrictions from cultural and religious angles.
Those in the markets, offices are probably ghosts.


When you have men who are filled with low self esteem and didnt know they have it, comments like this abounds.

Laughing. These women would not even date you, they would look down on you even if your income is the same as the one you are trying to date. I think you need to wake up from your dream. Are you married? What is the percentage of your wife's contribution in your home regarding school fees, food, cloth, rent, hospital bills and the rest?

Don't strive to be a better man sogbo, be wailing up and down.

motionarena:
See them
They get pained when a woman wins.

If it is a man that shares the same story they will rejoice with him

It is a divorce which one party didn't see coming. This is betrayal, not winning

cr7lomo:
How did she win?? Its still on going......do u know how the woman will finally end?? They are still both young... 95% of women still regret divorcing their husband ...especially when they hit 50s

Yes, you're right; just that I'm not sure about the percentage. Many of them do regret later in life most especially when the husband is a good man and good husband but the wife just lied against him in order to avoid the backlash from betraying the husband.
Well, if it is UK, the campaign o these women is to leave their marriage ASAP because of their newly found freedom and power.