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LagosOrigin:
All this bimbos should let us rest. Nobody cares about what your husband sent you or how you people lived your lives. Make all of una getat with the attention seeking show of shame .

Hahaha, LoL at get out, l agree ooooooooo, Make Dem get out ooooooooo

[quote author=motionarena post=137041355]See them
They get pained when a woman wins.

If it is a man that shares the same story they will rejoice with him.

Never knew this was a WAR OF THE SEXES!!!.

Woman wey you carry go UK as a man..waiting you been expect make she do..lol
Men are in love, women are business

ajalawole:
never bro.. Even though she was so close to my mum when we were together, she don't inform my mum before she leaves and don't call her either, been 4yrs now and she want to come back.

A woman is thinking survival and best option, a man is thinking love.

No woman is interested in you. All they want is to use u to climb and once they are above you, they move. Women dont look down, they look up. This is the reality peole have failed to understand. The man said the plain truth. The lady is only gas lighting. Women call men they cant control narcissists and their experience with them abusive bcs they cant control them. Madam, u have already moved on, let the man breathe. And I hope he too has learnt his lesson in life.

Both parties should move on. It didn’t work. Thank God thousands of potential partners exist in the world.

Kobojunkie:
Women need to stop dating and marrying their bullies/enemies. 🥱🥱🥱

Koboko abi wetin be your name gan
men dont marry with the intention to bring the woman to surfer or punish her. They marry her bcs they love her and ab initio have good plans for her. Where problem starts is when she begins to disrespect him and look down on his effort to care for her. Women often do these when their expectations in the marriage are not met. And men too are humans, they can react. Let women treat their husbands as they want to be treated and u will see most of the problems in the marriage will vanish.

Kobojunkie:
Abandonment is a criminal offense even in Nigeria. A man who abandons his side and children is by definition a deadbeat and offender. Same as a woman who abandons her child and husband..🥱🥱🥱

Okay... So, someone cannot run for his or her life again?

Fekumzi123:
➜Okay... So, someone cannot run for his or her life again?

Separation is not abandonment. When a spouse separates from another spouse in hopes of bringing to an end the union through official means, it is not abandonment. However, when a spouse literally ghosts his other partner and children without even officially ending the relationship, it is abandonment and a criminal offense.

lailo:
➜Koboko abi wetin be your name gan men dont marry with the intention to bring the woman to surfer or punish her. They marry her bcs they love her and ab initio have good plans for her. Where problem starts is when she begins to disrespect him and look down on his effort to care for her. Women often do these when their expectations in the marriage are not met.
➜ And men too are humans, they can react. Let women treat their husbands as they want to be treated and u will see most of the problems in the marriage will vanish.

We are talking facts, not private delusions here.

Men who marry women only to financially, physically, mentally, or emotionally abuse them have no love but detest for such women. Men who cheat on their wives — a form of abuse because the woman is denied the right to consent to an act that could lead to her physical and emotional harm— do not do so out of love but hate. Yes, humans only abuse that which they detest/hate. And men who do these things do not love but hate their wives. (Here, I use the words hate/detest as the opposite of love, or in a milder tone, indifference.)

2. If a woman first needs to treat a man a certain way before the man can be expected to show her love, then that man is abusive since he manipulates her by providing her love only when she does as he wants. That is not love but hate(or, in milder language, a form of indifference to the emotions and well-being of that individual) as well. If you don't love a woman, leave her and go find yourself a woman you can love without all the abuse and manipulation tactics.

Human beings particularly women are predictive and typical, there's a thread in which murdered her husband by dousing him with fuel and fire as usual, most logically and emotionally women of Nairaland didn't bother hopping on that but on cases like this you'd see them jumping upon and down, quoting this quoting that.

Surprised, hell no, in the words of Nosa 'na your way'

jojothaiv:
➜Human beings particularly women are predictive and typical, there's a thread in which murdered her husband by dousing him with fuel and fire as usual, most logically and emotionally women of Nairaland didn't bother hopping on that but on cases like this you'd see them jumping upon and down, quoting this quoting that.
Surprised, hell no, in the words of Nosa 'na your way'

I am just curious, is all! What is there to argue or debate about an apparent crime? Are the opinions of Nairalane females required to prosecute and sentence the woman in that case?

LagosOrigin:
All this bimbos should let us rest. Nobody cares about what your husband sent you or how you people lived your lives. Make all of una getat with the attention seeking show of shame .

thank you God bless you, coming to social media shows she's guilty and a lier. Until we hear from the husband

Kobojunkie:
We are talking facts, not private delusions here.

Men who marry women only to financially, physically, mentally, or emotionally abuse them have no love but detest for such women. Men who cheat on their wives — a form of abuse because the woman is denied the right to consent to an act that could lead to her physical and emotional harm— do not do so out of love but hate. Yes, humans only abuse that which they detest/hate. And men who do these things do not love but hate their wives. (Here, I use the words hate/detest as the opposite of love, or in a milder tone, indifference.)

2. If a woman first needs to treat a man a certain way before the man can be expected to show her love, then that man is abusive since he manipulates her by providing her love only when she does as he wants That is not love but hate(or, in milder language, a form of indifference to the emotions and well-being of that individual) as well. If you don't love a woman, leave her and go find yourself a woman you can love without all the abuse and manipulation tactics.

But women say and use that all the time. Only treat him like a king if and when he treats you right, only do such and such when he puts a ring on it. A woman's love to a man is always transactional. I'm glad even women are starting to agree they're the greatest manipulators and can never truly love. Thank you very much 😊

kiddaz:
✓ But women say and use that all the time. Only treat him like a king if and when he treats you right, ✓ only do such and such when he puts a ring on it.
✓ A woman's love to a man is always transactional. I'm glad even women are starting to agree they're the greatest manipulators and can never truly love. Thank you very much 😊

It does not matter what gender initiates or inflicts abuse on the other; abuse is abuse. 🥱🥱🥱

2. I assume I am talking to a sane human being here. Why would a person treat another person right if that individual treats them bad? How is the victim in this case to be considered an abuser? 🥱🥱🥱

3. If you don't want to put a ring or whatever the legit contract may be, what happened to moving on? Why does telling you that abuse is wrong a reason for you to think that women then ought to open their legs to you just because? Again, I am responding here cause I expect I am conversing with a sane individual.

4.. Marriage/relationship is transactional, but that in no way provides justification for that which is instead abuse/manipulation which always takes an emotional/physical/mental/financial toll in the partner that is the victim.

Kobojunkie:
It does not matter what gender initiates or inflicts abuse on the other; abuse is abuse. 🥱🥱🥱

2. I assume I am talking to a sane human being here. Why would a person treat another person right if that individual treats them bad? How is the victim in this case to be considered an abuser? 🥱🥱🥱

3. If you don't want to put a ring or whatever the legit contract may be, what happened to moving on? Why does telling you that abuse is wrong a reason for you to think that women then ought to open their legs to you just because? Again, I am responding here cause I expect I am conversing with a sane individual.

4.. Marriage/relationship is transactional, but that in no way provides justification for that which is instead abuse/manipulation which always takes an emotional/physical/mental/financial toll in the partner that is the victim.

Abuse is abuse. Good.