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Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Adesiji77: 10:49pm On May 01, 2015
A middle-aged-man identified as Collins Nduka, on Thursday, April 30, 2015 pleaded with an Ojo Customary Court in Lagos State to order his wife, Sefinat Nduka, to refund N1.4 million he spent in marrying her.

Nduka told the court that his wife, whom he married three years ago, was unfaithful and had decided to abandon her matrimonial home for more than a year.

“I would want a refund of the amount that I spent as marriage and dowry expenses because she has become unfaithful.

“My wife is not faithful to the marriage because she has other relationships apart from me and I no more love her. After all, she has not given birth to any child for me.

“The most painful thing is that she has parked all my belongings in my house to an unknown place in addition to her emptying my shop which I stocked with over N750,000,” he said.

The aggrieved man further narrated how their union of three years was threatened as his wife seemed to have obviously lost interest in the marriage.

“I invited my friends from outside the country to make the marriage an expensive one and after it, she wants to leave me for another man, I need my dowry so she can be free,” Nduka said.

He pleaded with the court to dissolve the marriage and order Sefinat to return his belongings which she allegedly parked away and money to him so that he could continue with his life.

Sefinat, who did not show up at the court had earlier indicated her interest in getting a divorce while maintaining that she she did not cart away her husband’s property as he had alleged.

President, Chief Joseph Ogunmola, advised Nduka that divorce might not be the best alternative and urged him to invite his wife in court before a concensus would be reached on the matter.

He said, “The court does not dissolve any marriage except in extreme cases, we need the consent of both parties before judgment so she must be invited.”

Ogunmola, therefore, adjourned the case to Tuesday, May 19, 2015 for further hearing.

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Nobody: 10:51pm On May 01, 2015
lmao!!who does that??some men are just so funny.mehn that's impossible cheesy

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Nobody: 10:52pm On May 01, 2015
OK
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Godvilla(m): 10:58pm On May 01, 2015
Oh! Really?
Please tell me more

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by IamOdin: 10:59pm On May 01, 2015
STU.PID LOVE..

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by LewisO: 11:00pm On May 01, 2015
Eniqurl:
OKAY WE DN HEAR.
You hear abi u read? undecided grin

Make una change una behaviour to last longer in your marriage. undecided

Ladycloud i have missed you. sad

Why do you unfollowed your future husband? sad

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Nobody: 11:00pm On May 01, 2015
oga i support u collect everything collectable


and b4 she lives mk una use knife share her punny


tomorrow now she go born pikin with 8 different sperms

pikin no go resemble papa or mama, come go resemble orubebe

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Eniqurl(f): 11:00pm On May 01, 2015
OKAY WE DN HEAR.
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by CR77(f): 11:01pm On May 01, 2015
The man go also return all the visa way he don sign for the woman body tongue

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by AmNotDrunk(m): 11:01pm On May 01, 2015
Well i feel your pain Mr. Nduka. They just aint loyal.
If really you paid 1.4M for dowry then na one chance oo.
The father na d driver, her mother the front seat passenger and d siblings backseat passengers. A perfect setting for one chance grin grin grin

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Sweetguy25: 11:01pm On May 01, 2015
I love divorce tales. LOL

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Nobody: 11:02pm On May 01, 2015
Testimony Time!!!!!
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by okooloyun1(m): 11:02pm On May 01, 2015
The guy don enter one chance. If the woman refund the money i will trek from Lagos to Cotonou.

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by DecencyLady(f): 11:02pm On May 01, 2015
Big joke
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by jmoore(m): 11:02pm On May 01, 2015
Nkpu atago ego gi. Ota go ya, ta ya pia pia.

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Nobody: 11:03pm On May 01, 2015
prettythicksme:
lmao!!who does that??some men are just so funny.

who does what? u beta mk up ur mind of being a good wife b4 we get married, cos anyday u misbehave i go collect everything i spent on u

including ur eye lashes and fixed nails

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Estimable(m): 11:03pm On May 01, 2015
This thing called marriage wasn't like this before.....The rate of broken marriages nowadays is alarming.....

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Mamaye(m): 11:03pm On May 01, 2015
I just dey laugh

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Isiterere(m): 11:04pm On May 01, 2015
Some marriage though!




ALL IZZ WELL
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by braine(m): 11:05pm On May 01, 2015
Good. But what are the "extreme" cases they look for that can make a court dissolve a marriage? So one can't just divorce a cheating wife? Na wah. I'm having some hatred for court weddings already.

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by CR77(f): 11:05pm On May 01, 2015
From where u dey get all this ur pictures self
Godvilla:
Oh! Really?
Please tell me more

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by millionboi(m): 11:05pm On May 01, 2015
Then d man go pay 4damages
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by holicalpha(m): 11:05pm On May 01, 2015
These Hoes ain't loyal!

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by blessedvisky(m): 11:06pm On May 01, 2015
na wao. wetin I wan comment sef ?

A beg click LIKE if you don't know what to comment too undecided

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by UnknownT: 11:06pm On May 01, 2015
Sefinat? I thought it is only Igbo girls that a groom can spend millions to marry?

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by jbaby265(f): 11:06pm On May 01, 2015
lol...but why would that woman behave like dat mtchwwwww


anyway the man should just move on and forget watever penny he spent on her..refunding is in oxford dictionary not in dowry

still laughing though..lol.
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by phill63(m): 11:06pm On May 01, 2015
If what he claimed is true, then I see no reason why the marriage shouldn't be dissolved. Though there should be a mutual consent before any action is taken. Wish you luck in your pursuit of happiness.

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Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by lilmax(m): 11:06pm On May 01, 2015
Okay
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by Missmoney(f): 11:06pm On May 01, 2015
Hmm. Oga o
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by chubykemicheal(m): 11:07pm On May 01, 2015
1.2m nawaoooo......... D man spent a lot oooo.stupid luv
Re: Man Orders Wife To Refund N1.4 Million He Spent In Marrying Her In Lagos by palma(f): 11:07pm On May 01, 2015
Lol! Tales that touches! He berra wake up! Thats the fee for doing the koko with her na! The woman will also claim damages as he don enjoy something. The truth is the only thing the woman traditionally will be required to return is the dowry not the actual amount spent on the wedding. He was not forced to spend a fortune hence the woman might not even return the dowry as he can not return the woman to the previous state she was in before he married her. He's not getting a dime, a divorce yes but money? Nah!

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