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Re: To Hell With Marriage. by okwusdidi: 7:02am On Oct 09, 2025
Passionate888:
Marry o, a good woman is scarce in Nigeria but try marry
I believe that if you can practice celibacy,it's even better to remain single.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Ten06(m):
Yes, there are many ladies out there, but it’s hard to find a wife material among them. Just try to find someone you can manage with, because she’ll have a purpose in your old age or during your vulnerable moments.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by hope4nigeria(m): 7:43am On Oct 09, 2025
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
you will regret it when the time comes, or you can still quench from several infections
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Meedon: 7:48am On Oct 09, 2025
Opt for adoption if you have the means. Nigeria is already overpopulated. Bringing children to this wicked world is an injustice.

Antinatalism is the way. If you say you love humanity, adopt the ones that are already in existence and take care of them.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Kingzjayzee: 7:55am On Oct 09, 2025
Sabadon:
you attract your type, be a good man you ll attract a good woman... tho not a general rule, but most often times than non
@the bolded I no fit laff oo abeg 😂😆
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Meedon: 8:15am On Oct 09, 2025
wunmi590:
tongue

So if your mama and papa no born you, how you go come take exist?

Choi, every malam with him kettle 😆
Those who no deh existence their own good self. There is nothing in this world that warrant bringing anybody to it. This earth with its wickedness. If someone is not in existence, he or she won't know.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Adaumunocha(f): 8:21am On Oct 09, 2025
Kobojunkieee:
The 25% other people of his father's generation who no born nko? huh Why must he live life according to his father's template? huh
It ain't that deep abeg
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by MunorAnne(f): 8:27am On Oct 09, 2025
ObaKlaz:
The likelihood of marrying a box-to-box midfielder, with many match caps naim even dey worse, than make one stupid woman cut your Gbolistic Gbola. Na oloshos full everywhere now.

Baba, stand your ground. If na to born pikin, find one woman gee bele, and take care of your offspring(s).

My mumu friends go come around, trying to trigger me by saying I wouldn't understand certain experiences because I ain't married yet. They say that with smug expressions on their faces, thinking I don't know that their wives are frying them like Ijebu Garri at home. And I even hol' bar pass dem.

Some of their silly wives behave so good around me, appearing very easy for me, if I had nasty intentions.

I bet If I splash some cash, I could clap their fat cheeks behind their goat husbands who happen to be my friends.
Every adult is entitled to their choices and decisions, but I feel there's too much bile oozing from this post. I mean who refers to their "friends" as "goats"?
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by wunmi590(m): 8:35am On Oct 09, 2025
Meedon:
Those who no deh existence their own good self. There is nothing in this world that warrant bringing anybody to it. This earth with its wickedness. If someone is not in existence, he or she won't know.
You are right tho
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Meedon: 8:37am On Oct 09, 2025
Tenrack:
e go still come ramble about having your own family to go home to and take care of you. E no fit pass like that. I still maintain, if ill health and old age wasn't an issue, majority of them will never get married cause humans are selfish creatures.
It is because of that selfishness that they bring kids to this wicked and useless world to suffer.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Faposky95: 8:42am On Oct 09, 2025
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
This is one part of you talking out loud
What about the quiet one.
Learn to live and love someone...build together, fight together in this world where nothing is sure.
Marriage is to blame ain't it....?
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by authority2006(m):
ObaKlaz:
The likelihood of marrying a box-to-box midfielder, with many match caps naim even dey worse, than make one stupid woman cut your Gbolistic Gbola. Na oloshos full everywhere now.

Baba, stand your ground. If na to born pikin, find one woman gee bele, and take care of your offspring(s).

My mumu friends go come around, trying to trigger me by saying I wouldn't understand certain experiences because I ain't married yet. They say that with smug expressions on their faces, thinking I don't know that their wives are frying them like Ijebu Garri at home. And I even hol' bar pass dem.

Some of their silly wives behave so good around me, appearing very easy for me, if I had nasty intentions.

I bet If I splash some cash, I could clap their fat cheeks behind their goat husbands who happen to be my friends.
Still, you're still an.irresponsibu man at 40 or whatever with no wife (and possibly kids) waiting for you at home to come back from work or club.
The kind of loneliness that will deal with your sorry a$$ when you are 60 upwards is doing pressup at the moment. Go and ask oyinbos who started this madness, they're there pointing out their decision not to marry or have kids as their greatest regret in life.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by faithfull18(f): 9:10am On Oct 09, 2025
40year old man, your choice.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by lymelyte(m): 11:04am On Oct 09, 2025
stagger:
When you are 70 years, come back here.
and what is wrong with that?
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by yinkeys(m):
authority2006:
Still, you're still an.irresponsibu man at 40 or whatever with no wife (and possibly kids) waiting for you at home to come back from work or club.
The kind of loneliness that will deal with your sorry a$$ when you 60 upwards is doing pressup at the moment. Go and ask oyinbos who started this madness, they're there pointing out their decision not to marry or have kids as their greatest regret in life.
But the soldier guy wey him wife just burn am this month with fire 🔥
No regrets Abi grin

1 Corinthians 7:28 - staying single still ?
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by lymelyte(m): 11:28am On Oct 09, 2025
Tenrack:
Lol. Let them keep deceiving themselves. They believe everyone finds fulfilment in that family thingy. Forgetting that some people have a bucket list of things they wish to do and family might be or not be one of them.
well said. Tbh, I am not surprised. In a country like Nigeria where R & D, human development and love for humanity seems like a herculean task, base level thinking is the day.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Tamires(f): 12:18pm On Oct 09, 2025
You're scared coz you're a bad person
Assuming you're a good guy, you'll also attract a good lady that won't give you problem
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Testimony1988(m): 1:50pm On Oct 09, 2025
There are good ladies, but you need to pray to meet the one who has the fear of God.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by IHate9jerianss(m): 3:22pm On Oct 09, 2025
MunorAnne:
Every adult is entitled to their choices and decisions, but I feel there's too much bile oozing from this post. I mean who refers to their "friends" as "goats"?
@Emboldened

Respect is reciprocal
His "friends" usually talk down to him because they are married and erroneously believe because he isn't,that makes them better than him.
Funnily enough,the women his "friends" talk down to him for,are willing to fucck him behind their backs.
Hence,he realizes the situation and correctly describes his "friends" as goats which they are.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by IHate9jerianss(m): 3:26pm On Oct 09, 2025
authority2006:
Still, you're still an.irresponsibu man at 40 or whatever with no wife (and possibly kids) waiting for you at home to come back from work or club.
The kind of loneliness that will deal with your sorry a$$ when you 60 upwards is doing pressup at the moment Go and ask oyinbos who started this madness, they're there pointing out their decision not to marry or have kids as their greatest regret in life.
When I was in my 20s and sounded like the OP,I was told that I would experience the emboldened in my 40s.
I am now in my 40s,childless and marriage-less and living my best life.Naysarers have now increased the age upwards to 60s and above.
Continue increasing the age range if that makes you sleep better at night.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Taquin(f): 8:26pm On Oct 09, 2025
thomas2024:
How do you expect him to feel? You should have informed him to feel like a dead person because his mates are dead too
Whatever makes you sleep
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Taquin(f): 8:26pm On Oct 09, 2025
Tenrack:
lol so that's the bone of contention for you? Makes plenty sense.
Whatever makes you sleep
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Queenserah1(f): 9:08pm On Oct 09, 2025
The institution is not the problem, the individuals are.

Be a good person and please don’t settle for less. Don’t ignore the red flags, don’t get married for the wrong reasons and be careful in your choice of a spouse because people change overtime.
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by thomas2024: 1:00am On Oct 10, 2025
Taquin:
Whatever makes you sleep
Mweet! Wọ́n pè ẹ́ (Your mates calling you)😂😂😂
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by yinkeys(m): 3:59am On Oct 10, 2025
Comfortableme:
Wait, una wey don marry how is it going? It's like the good wife's has been married off. Because na almost every day I dey see news of wife killing her husband, one even use knife cut her husband preak. Am in my 40s but let marriage go to dungeon. No wife, no kids am good. My mama no kill my papa make one woman no come make my family cry over me.
Ire ooo
https://youtube.com/shorts/aRJz_yVDa3I?si=SSlYcSAAnOmkuxIN
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Karlifate: 6:54pm On Oct 10, 2025
ObaKlaz:
The likelihood of marrying a box-to-box midfielder, with many match caps naim even dey worse, than make one stupid woman cut your Gbolistic Gbola. Na oloshos full everywhere now.

Baba, stand your ground. If na to born pikin, find one woman gee bele, and take care of your offspring(s).

My mumu friends go come around, trying to trigger me by saying I wouldn't understand certain experiences because I ain't married yet. They say that with smug expressions on their faces, thinking I don't know that their wives are frying them like Ijebu Garri at home. And I even hol' bar pass dem.

Some of their silly wives behave so good around me, appearing very easy for me, if I had nasty intentions.

I bet If I splash some cash, I could clap their fat cheeks behind their goat husbands who happen to be my friends.
LMAO! 🤣🤣🤣
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Karlifate: 6:59pm On Oct 10, 2025
UselessBuharist:
Once you hit 40, every conversation with your parents somehow circles around marriage like it’s their favourite topic. It gets exhausting. I never imagined a day would come when my parents would be the ones chasing me about settling down.
LMAO! 😂😂

They don't want you wasting away as a "useless buharist" 😂
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Karlifate: 7:01pm On Oct 10, 2025
otomatic:
"By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you will be happy; if not, you will become a philosopher"
One of the most useless quotes I've come across. grin angry
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by Pinkyposh(f): 7:33pm On Oct 10, 2025
Tenrack:
Lmao. Why this matter dey vex certain women for here like this? Shey na pepper body we go call this one? Why not just ignore him you that's happily married. E no hard. Make Una live and let live. cheesy
It's the way he's boldly saying it, that he is in his 40's, no shame?
Well a fool at 40 is a fool forever
Re: To Hell With Marriage. by otomatic(m): 9:10pm On Oct 10, 2025
Karlifate:
One of the most useless quotes I've come across. grin angry
I don't share that view. Dissect it and you will appreciate it.
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