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Ishilove, you know that thing you said about your former boss? A married man tried it with me. He told me "let's get one thing straight: I'm a man of principle! And I respect my wife! So keep her out of it. Ehen, now that we've gotten that out of the way, oya plis date me, give me a chance you won't regret it".

Someone that I had only one conversation with and half the conversation was about his business. Facebook is a horrible place

But it's not new behaviour: someone I know (she's a Grandmother now but used to be a side chic in her heydeys) annoyed her sugar daddy. In anger that one seized everything he gave her: pots, fridge, clothes etc. Side Chic ran to meet his wife at her shop in Balogun, knelt down and begged the wife to please beg her husband for forgiveness. Apparently Wife had veto power (man had foolishly married his main side chic as wife no. 2 and was regretting it, so had decided to continue cheating but never marry any more side chics as wife no. 3)

Maeve7:
✓ It’s not my intention to drag you darling, maybe to engage you. Also, I didn’t argue that people on social media don’t put up an image, that the suffering smile. Certainly, many do.
But you have refused to answer my question. Is it bad karma dealing with the wife who is asked to apologize to her husband’s mistress?
And was it karma that was dealing with your ex who had his girlfriend (you) cheat on him?

Again, good questions! 🥱🥱🥱

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Ahn Ahn

Ishy Ishy.

I thought you gave us this advice sometime ago.[/color]

Wahala wear bone straight. 😀😀

Nazgul:
That's because you're 100% dependent on him. He knows that if you leave him you won't be able to survive independently. Even his family wouldn't even rate you. Cos all they see is a lazy woman feeding fat their son's money.

This is why we advise you women to work hard and become financially independent before jumping into marriage. But you keep looking for a Davido who would treat you like Chioma.

Can Tuface with his reputation as the undisputed celebrity womanizer champion in Africa tell his new wife Natasha to apologize to a side chick. Dem no born am well. That's because the babe is independent. She doesn't need his money to survive.

The energy most young girls put in looking for successful men, if they channel that same energy into developing themselves, whoever they end up with would respect them.

I so love you, Nazgul!

folake4u:
Wahala wear bone straight. 😀😀

[color=royalblue]Madam, where have you been?

Well, Ishy has cleared the air sha

But that her comment left me in stitches. [/color]

Onegai:
I did answer your question.

Karma is the wrong word, it's Hindu. Biblically it's justice. Scientifically it's how the universe works (Physics explains this better). Like throwing a ball at a wall.

Bad things will always happen to you and anyone.

However, there are things you do, that will always end up coming back to you.

If a tanker falls on you today on your way home, that's not karma.

If you stole all the money meant to fix roads in Apapa for years, bought land in your village, in Lekki, took nice holidays and sent your kids to school abroad and then one holiday they come home and a tanker falls on the car they're in, on one of the roads in Apapa that you should have fixed 15 years ago, what would you call that?

And most of us wouldn't remember you were once the Commissioner for Roads (or whatever they called Amaechi) 15 yrs ago. We won't even know the name of the people who died in that car. It would be a blip on our radar.

CS Lewis gave a very good example of God's justice in his book "The Horse And The Boy".

So sometimes bad things happen for no reason and other times because of karma, correct?

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Madam, where have you been?

Well, Ishy has cleared the air sha

But that her comment left me in stitches. [/color]

I've been to London to see the King.

Lmao, the comment is amusing though.

Kobojunkie:
Just imagine a human being literally saying she will spend her lifetime piling up evidence for what she imagines would be her eventual revenge against the very same person she literally devotes her entire life to pleasing and serving. NO be craze dem dey call that? 🥱🥱🥱

Abeg rest.....