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Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by FutureFocus:
How can you send yourself on slavery mission with all your savings ?
I know the slave Masters usually come here to buy slaves , but not anymore, you have to struggle hard before they even accept you as a slave now, and pay for your flight ticket too

All simply because you refused to fix your country
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Nobody: 9:41pm On Oct 10, 2025
Kemetian:
Doing those menial jobs when you have advanced degrees can be soul destroying.

People think it's all about money and earning dollars or pounds or Euros, good roads, 24 hr light etc.

But all those things mean nothing after a couple of months there. You will be in one job far below your level collecting insult from one secretary that looks at you as a dropout, to be doing such menial work.

Meanwhile you have a degree and experience in a professional capacity the secretary can only dream of.

If you get there and do a menial job despite your degree, You will definitely reach a point where you will ask yourself if you made the right choice with Japa.
100%, u can make 3k monthly and still feel unhappy! The funny part is as a mental health worker u earn roughly x1.5 of a office staff.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Kalulu44: 9:41pm On Oct 10, 2025
brain54:
I have this Ghanian friend that worked at a hospital...

As an anesthetist. He had a poultry large poultry farm and did crop farming as side business. This is a poultry farm that had close to 10,000 birds and was doing well and he was comfortable. His wife also worked as a staff of one of the highest paying companies-Cocoabod.

Dude woke up one day and said he was leaving all these behind, including his wife and 2 kids to travel to America to go "hustle." shocked

He told me he worked in Winter and his fingers froze from the cold. undecided shocked


Scenario 2 is another friend that recently traveled sometime in the middle of last year. This one also had a good job, an 11 acres peice of land where he did pig farming as side business (he even gave me about 3 acres from the part he wasn't using on which I planted maize and okra last 2 years) he had property a wife and recently had a kid.


This one called me just early this year telling me he was now in America looking for a job. shocked shocked

He told me he recently got a job, he didn't disclose the type of job. But I suspect it's one of those unskilled jobs. He was telling me recently when we chatted how he had to work and was paying the person whose paper he was using to work. shocked shocked

He said something like he was saving money for now to get his own papers and couldn't even afford to get a decent bedsheet for now. He didn't want to open up on many things but I could sense his struggles.


My question is why would someone be doing fairly or averagely okay in their own country and decide to travel to another country not to go work as skilled or start a business but to go do demeaning unskilled labor work.

Why would I leave my country where I live almost as a king to go live in a rat race.


I can never understand that.

Another person was confiding in me recently that he wanted to travel to the US. This is someone that has a small factory, into iron rod sales and construction business. I just looked at him and told him not to do it. He should focus on growing his business and I used the other 2 people I mentioned earlier as examples.

If I want to travel to the US or any other country it's to go flex, explore, or look for bigger business opportunities and not to go hustle and start from the scratch.

A crocodile in the my country is better than a lizard in obodo oyibo!
Gbam! You have said it all. I keep telling people that w will make go abroad when I am fully comfortable here is for holidays and sight seeing. Shey I go suffer here finish come still go suffer for abroad, mbanu!hat
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Mindlog: 9:42pm On Oct 10, 2025
OriOko88:
Pathetic. Modern Slavery.In the 21st century.
I love the "modern slavery" or do you want me to be earning N450k per month in a government health facility in Nigeria?😂😂
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by ariesbull: 9:45pm On Oct 10, 2025
jiggyman:
100%, u can make 3k monthly and still feel unhappy! The funny part is as a mental health worker u earn roughly x1.5 of a office staff.
That's what is called under employment and it leads to depression for most of them
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by ariesbull: 9:48pm On Oct 10, 2025
brain54:
I have this Ghanian friend that worked at a hospital...

As an anesthetist. He had a poultry large poultry farm and did crop farming as side business. This is a poultry farm that had close to 10,000 birds and was doing well and he was comfortable. His wife also worked as a staff of one of the highest paying companies-Cocoabod.

Dude woke up one day and said he was leaving all these behind, including his wife and 2 kids to travel to America to go "hustle." shocked

He told me he worked in Winter and his fingers froze from the cold. undecided shocked


Scenario 2 is another friend that recently traveled sometime in the middle of last year. This one also had a good job, an 11 acres peice of land where he did pig farming as side business (he even gave me about 3 acres from the part he wasn't using on which I planted maize and okra last 2 years) he had property a wife and recently had a kid.


This one called me just early this year telling me he was now in America looking for a job. shocked shocked

He told me he recently got a job, he didn't disclose the type of job. But I suspect it's one of those unskilled jobs. He was telling me recently when we chatted how he had to work and was paying the person whose paper he was using to work. shocked shocked

He said something like he was saving money for now to get his own papers and couldn't even afford to get a decent bedsheet for now. He didn't want to open up on many things but I could sense his struggles.


My question is why would someone be doing fairly or averagely okay in their own country and decide to travel to another country not to go work as skilled or start a business but to go do demeaning unskilled labor work.

Why would I leave my country where I live almost as a king to go live in a rat race.


I can never understand that.

Another person was confiding in me recently that he wanted to travel to the US. This is someone that has a small factory, into iron rod sales and construction business. I just looked at him and told him not to do it. He should focus on growing his business and I used the other 2 people I mentioned earlier as examples.

If I want to travel to the US or any other country it's to go flex, explore, or look for bigger business opportunities and not to go hustle and start from the scratch.

A crocodile in the my country is better than a lizard in obodo oyibo!
The term "Green Grass Syndrome" isn’t a formal medical or psychological diagnosis, but it’s often used metaphorically to describe a mindset or behavior pattern where people believe that “the grass is greener on the other side.”

Let’s break it down in a few contexts:


🌿 1. Psychological / Behavioral Meaning

Green Grass Syndrome refers to a tendency to:

Constantly compare one’s situation, job, relationship, or possessions with others’.

Believe others have it better or easier.

Feel dissatisfied with one’s own circumstances even when they’re objectively good.


It’s essentially the “grass is greener on the other side” phenomenon — a kind of chronic restlessness or discontent driven by comparison.

Example:

Someone switches jobs every few months, always thinking the next one will be perfect, but ends up unhappy again.



Possible roots:

Low self-esteem

Perfectionism

Social media comparison

Fear of missing out (FOMO)


Healthy antidotes:

Practicing gratitude

Realistic self-reflection

Mindfulness and acceptance

Limiting comparison with others


🌱 2. Organizational / Career Context

In workplaces, “Green Grass Syndrome” can describe employees who constantly job-hop, believing the next company will solve all their frustrations — but who often bring the same issues with them.

Managers sometimes use the term when employees leave for “greener pastures,” only to realize the same challenges exist elsewhere.

🌾 3. Relationship Context

It can also describe someone who repeatedly leaves relationships, convinced a new partner will make them happier — but without addressing their own underlying issues.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by femi4: 9:53pm On Oct 10, 2025
You go watch plate taya...UK no rate your degree
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by jaxxy(m): 9:56pm On Oct 10, 2025
Lawyer profession has jurisdiction and practice limitations. Ur Lawyer ends in Nigeria until u upgrade it for global recognition and practice.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by enemyofprogress: 9:57pm On Oct 10, 2025
No be charge and bail lawyer she be for Nigeria? Abeg make we hear word jare.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by ceejayluv(m): 10:02pm On Oct 10, 2025
motymop:
you wrote not quite true as if there are immigrants driving taxis in the uk
Driving taxi get levels small sef. Which ride hailing platform fit give you gigs without permit? There are Nigerians there paper-less.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Angelfrost(m): 10:05pm On Oct 10, 2025
Nobody is forcing you to do a damn thing... Enough of these silly statements by you ungrateful immigrants.

If your professional qualification from your country were equivalent in every aspect along with your work experience, you would be sliding smoothly into that role abroad.


There are Pharmacists, Doctors, lawyers, accountants, etc, who came from other nations and are practicing their professions in UK.

Most of them don't come online misyarning the way a lot of you Nigerians do.


Una too dey constitute nuisance for social media...!
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by FashionCookie(f): 10:07pm On Oct 10, 2025
brain54:
I have this Ghanian friend that worked at a hospital...

As an anesthetist. He had a poultry large poultry farm and did crop farming as side business. This is a poultry farm that had close to 10,000 birds and was doing well and he was comfortable. His wife also worked as a staff of one of the highest paying companies-Cocoabod.

Dude woke up one day and said he was leaving all these behind, including his wife and 2 kids to travel to America to go "hustle." shocked

He told me he worked in Winter and his fingers froze from the cold. undecided shocked


Scenario 2 is another friend that recently traveled sometime in the middle of last year. This one also had a good job, an 11 acres peice of land where he did pig farming as side business (he even gave me about 3 acres from the part he wasn't using on which I planted maize and okra last 2 years) he had property a wife and recently had a kid.


This one called me just early this year telling me he was now in America looking for a job. shocked shocked

He told me he recently got a job, he didn't disclose the type of job. But I suspect it's one of those unskilled jobs. He was telling me recently when we chatted how he had to work and was paying the person whose paper he was using to work. shocked shocked

He said something like he was saving money for now to get his own papers and couldn't even afford to get a decent bedsheet for now. He didn't want to open up on many things but I could sense his struggles.


My question is why would someone be doing fairly or averagely okay in their own country and decide to travel to another country not to go work as skilled or start a business but to go do demeaning unskilled labor work.

Why would I leave my country where I live almost as a king to go live in a rat race.


I can never understand that.

Another person was confiding in me recently that he wanted to travel to the US. This is someone that has a small factory, into iron rod sales and construction business. I just looked at him and told him not to do it. He should focus on growing his business and I used the other 2 people I mentioned earlier as examples.

If I want to travel to the US or any other country it's to go flex, explore, or look for bigger business opportunities and not to go hustle and start from the scratch.

A crocodile in the my country is better than a lizard in obodo oyibo!
Wetin u want make we come do with this story.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Theescrowguy(m): 10:07pm On Oct 10, 2025
I’m a lawyer in my country,
everybody knows me well,
if you look at me up and down,
you will know that it’s true…
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by brain54(m): 10:08pm On Oct 10, 2025
FashionCookie:
Wetin u want make we come do with this story.
I want make you read am na...

All the story wey you dey read for NL since wetin you dey take them do? undecided
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by OredoPikin: 10:14pm On Oct 10, 2025
Lanretoye:
Abeg wetin be your own discipline?…na the ones wey Dey ugheli police station be 90% of the population of lawyers in this country.i don’t know what is wrong with some of you and reasoning,in fact i am very sure that you don’t even have children in school.isn’t it insane that someone doesn’t see lawyer’s that have their own chambers and the ones doing very well in their field?,na the ones wey Dey hustle for police station be your own yardstick.howmany lawyers self Dey the ugheli police station compared to population of well to do lawyers in the country
oga leave grammar
Nigeria done too spoil. na only doctor be profession worth studying in Nigeria now
aside doctor, the others are just there
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Tayorshd87(m): 10:16pm On Oct 10, 2025
brain54:
I have this Ghanian friend that worked at a hospital...

As an anesthetist. He had a poultry large poultry farm and did crop farming as side business. This is a poultry farm that had close to 10,000 birds and was doing well and he was comfortable. His wife also worked as a staff of one of the highest paying companies-Cocoabod.

Dude woke up one day and said he was leaving all these behind, including his wife and 2 kids to travel to America to go "hustle." shocked

He told me he worked in Winter and his fingers froze from the cold. undecided shocked


Scenario 2 is another friend that recently traveled sometime in the middle of last year. This one also had a good job, an 11 acres peice of land where he did pig farming as side business (he even gave me about 3 acres from the part he wasn't using on which I planted maize and okra last 2 years) he had property a wife and recently had a kid.


This one called me just early this year telling me he was now in America looking for a job. shocked shocked

He told me he recently got a job, he didn't disclose the type of job. But I suspect it's one of those unskilled jobs. He was telling me recently when we chatted how he had to work and was paying the person whose paper he was using to work. shocked shocked

He said something like he was saving money for now to get his own papers and couldn't even afford to get a decent bedsheet for now. He didn't want to open up on many things but I could sense his struggles.


My question is why would someone be doing fairly or averagely okay in their own country and decide to travel to another country not to go work as skilled or start a business but to go do demeaning unskilled labor work.

Why would I leave my country where I live almost as a king to go live in a rat race.


I can never understand that.

Another person was confiding in me recently that he wanted to travel to the US. This is someone that has a small factory, into iron rod sales and construction business. I just looked at him and told him not to do it. He should focus on growing his business and I used the other 2 people I mentioned earlier as examples.

If I want to travel to the US or any other country it's to go flex, explore, or look for bigger business opportunities and not to go hustle and start from the scratch.

A crocodile in the my country is better than a lizard in obodo oyibo!
Many will still call u a bad person for trying to tell them the truth.

Japa is only made for people that are not doing well in their own country and that doesn't mean the country is totally bad too.

Nigeria is this and that yet we have produced many business millionaires in this same country..

People should understand this and know peace 🕊️✌️
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by DiasGodinHeaven: 10:17pm On Oct 10, 2025
eyesoflagos:
https://eyesoflagos.com/nigerian-lawyer-uk-care-assistant-reveals-job/
She is a slave from Southern Nigeria. Her northern colleagues are eyeing to be SAN and appeal court judges but the only problem she had was greed and the quest to make it at all costs.
No medical Doctor abroad is Richer than a SAN in Nigeria
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by XAUBulls: 10:18pm On Oct 10, 2025
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by XAUBulls: 10:19pm On Oct 10, 2025
brain54:
I have this Ghanian friend that worked at a hospital...

As an anesthetist. He had a poultry large poultry farm and did crop farming as side business. This is a poultry farm that had close to 10,000 birds and was doing well and he was comfortable. His wife also worked as a staff of one of the highest paying companies-Cocoabod.

Dude woke up one day and said he was leaving all these behind, including his wife and 2 kids to travel to America to go "hustle." shocked

He told me he worked in Winter and his fingers froze from the cold. undecided shocked


Scenario 2 is another friend that recently traveled sometime in the middle of last year. This one also had a good job, an 11 acres peice of land where he did pig farming as side business (he even gave me about 3 acres from the part he wasn't using on which I planted maize and okra last 2 years) he had property a wife and recently had a kid.


This one called me just early this year telling me he was now in America looking for a job. shocked shocked

He told me he recently got a job, he didn't disclose the type of job. But I suspect it's one of those unskilled jobs. He was telling me recently when we chatted how he had to work and was paying the person whose paper he was using to work. shocked shocked

He said something like he was saving money for now to get his own papers and couldn't even afford to get a decent bedsheet for now. He didn't want to open up on many things but I could sense his struggles.


My question is why would someone be doing fairly or averagely okay in their own country and decide to travel to another country not to go work as skilled or start a business but to go do demeaning unskilled labor work.

Why would I leave my country where I live almost as a king to go live in a rat race.


I can never understand that.

Another person was confiding in me recently that he wanted to travel to the US. This is someone that has a small factory, into iron rod sales and construction business. I just looked at him and told him not to do it. He should focus on growing his business and I used the other 2 people I mentioned earlier as examples.

If I want to travel to the US or any other country it's to go flex, explore, or look for bigger business opportunities and not to go hustle and start from the scratch.

A crocodile in the my country is better than a lizard in obodo oyibo!
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by brain54(m): 10:20pm On Oct 10, 2025
Tayorshd87:
Many will still call u a bad person for trying to tell them the truth.

Japa is only made for people that are not doing well in their own country and that doesn't mean the country is totally bad too.

Nigeria is this and that yet we have produced many business millionaires in this same country..

People should understand this and know peace 🕊️✌️
Exactly bro...
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by XAUBulls: 10:27pm On Oct 10, 2025
Kemetian:
Doing those menial jobs when you have advanced degrees can be soul destroying.

People think it's all about money and earning dollars or pounds or Euros, good roads, 24 hr light etc.

But all those things mean nothing after a couple of months there. You will be in one job far below your level collecting insult from one secretary that looks at you as a dropout, to be doing such menial work.

Meanwhile you have a degree and experience in a professional capacity the secretary can only dream of.

If you get there and do a menial job despite your degree, You will definitely reach a point where you will ask yourself if you made the right choice with Japa.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by XAUBulls: 10:30pm On Oct 10, 2025
OboOlora:
She is just seeking media attention
Over 90% of Nigerians than relocated since 2022 are either into care, warehouse or other menial jobs


No shame in that, as long as it pays your bills and you don't get carried away with it but seek other professional passions after COS is over
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Insectkiller: 10:38pm On Oct 10, 2025
Who Law help??

Better do your care support (House-girl) work well...and concentrate..

Most lawyers (at least 50%) have no job..dey no even see ordinary charge-and-bail job do...

Lwa is one of the most useless course to do Nigeri.

Most of them have become fetish and join politics for survival...
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by folake4u: 10:49pm On Oct 10, 2025
9JAMac10:
Female lawyers are overrated take that to the bank. Law is a masculine profession. Nobody reasonable or rationale hires a female lawyer to represent them. She shocked that she been lied to her whole life about being a talkative and combative woman disguised as lawyer hahaha. Only professions women should engage in is healthcare , teaching or culinary industry. Those are feminine jobs. She better go to nursing school while working as a CNA
8th wonder of the world. 😂😂😂
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by WizardOfNG: 11:06pm On Oct 10, 2025
jaxxy:
Lawyer profession has jurisdiction and practice limitations. Ur Lawyer ends in Nigeria until u upgrade it for global recognition and practice.
Simple as that. If she wishes to be accredited to practice law in the UK then she knows what she has to do.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by millionboi(m): 11:12pm On Oct 10, 2025
ZombieDredd:
Not quite true.

Many immigrants entered NHS band 5,6.( Lab Scientist, doctors, biomedical science, radiography, physiotherapy etc etc)

That's not starting all over again
As you dey lie e dey sweet you for mouth,no be only you dey abroad we know what ppl abroad are passing through okay.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by KaLuCh: 11:28pm On Oct 10, 2025
OriOko88:
Pathetic. Modern Slavery.In the 21st century.
Shut the hell up before I shut it for you.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Shawarmagirl: 11:48pm On Oct 10, 2025
Her one week salary in care job in the UK, is her 3 months salary in Nigeria. grin grin
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Lekby25: 1:02am On Oct 11, 2025
brain54:
Na the like king wey you see pain you...? grin

I no say I be king. I only use am as metaphor as compared to the kind life I go live there.

Get it? Why you no say I be crocodile? grin

And is vacation in South Africa the standard to measure quality of life.

And besides I mentioned in the post you quoted that if I wouldn't mind going to flex and explore other countries rather than going to join in the rat race over there undecided

Right now that isn't a priority!
My brother don't mind him. Your point makes sense.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by ayandee: 2:18am On Oct 11, 2025
Attention seeker. What's the big deal? You're relocating. It will take you years to get back to legal practice in the new country.

In the mean time, you need to survive first so you do whatever your job you get as long as it's not illégal.

There's dignity in labour.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by Agugbadin: 2:19am On Oct 11, 2025
Kemetian:
Doing those menial jobs when you have advanced degrees can be soul destroying.

People think it's all about money and earning dollars or pounds or Euros, good roads, 24 hr light etc.

But all those things mean nothing after a couple of months there. You will be in one job far below your level collecting insult from one secretary that looks at you as a dropout, to be doing such menial work.

Meanwhile you have a degree and experience in a professional capacity the secretary can only dream of.

If you get there and do a menial job despite your degree, You will definitely reach a point where you will ask yourself if you made the right choice with Japa.
Perhaps a college diploma is not required for avaliable jobs,that is the reality of the current global employment situation.
Re: "Who I Wan Explain Give?” – Nigerian Lawyer In UK Reveals Her New Job by chatinent: 2:31am On Oct 11, 2025
Not just lawyers.

The first opportunity I had to go to UK on my side was to be a care giver. I mean, not even a standard certified one because I didn't even do any health-related course of study. I mean, to take care of very ageing parents of someone.

You'd think you have a choice until you realise the payment is better than what Nigeria gives you even as you dey Band A.

Coming to think of it, as per time jaki wey I bi, you wan make I reject am?
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