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Bahamas95:
Dem don burn candle for mama head. No comrade don't tell her yet because the guy working on her will give a testimony and the grandma will be wailing on how she was scammed...the guy on her matter get strong soap but then may God deliver her sha










Should we tell her?

Samantha125:
I don't get it, majority of black American men are basically Nigerians in diaspora since they have a dominant Nigerian DNA.

So what's the difference between black American men and Nigerian men?🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️🤷🏿‍♀️

And can she differentiate Nigerian men from other West African men? Because some of us can't.

Brendaniel:
Samantha, you won't understand till you meet Nigerian men who grew up in Nigeria especially Lagos and to a large extent the Southeastern part of Nigeria, the black American guys abroad are far different in behavior than the ones who grew up in Nigeria, different in almost everything.

The ones who grow up in Nigeria are more family oriented and more caring to their women, because most grow up with the training and mindset of being the provider(or main provider) both in the relationship and family.

So it has little or nothing to do with DNA, aside from these aspects I just mentioned, there are still other aspects I don't want to mention here, I don't want to look like I'm bragging about Nigerian guys

manuelkel:
How the hell does she know that American black men have Nigerian DNA's??
I'm referring to the insensitive lady who you replied to and yes American black men can never never marry a granny not even for money only including treasures and love. It can only be friendship like boyfriend and girlfriend but never to the altar. So you're right.



Black Americans don't have a majorly DNA linked to Nigeria only. Infact they majority of their DNA's are Senegalese, Gambia,Congo and Liberia.
When you talk about Nigerians in diaspora you think of UK.
Do your researches.

Kobojunkie:
She is probably eyeing one of them hoping to play cougar and find her a lover in one. Dem never scam this one yet. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. I am not against older women finding love or women being cougars. I am against the fact that these victims tend to ignore the red flags to fall into the hands of obvious scammers while claiming to be blinded by love.

Samantha125:
Which other aspects? Don't tell me about your bedmatics skills because I've already heard some of your ladies as well as those here in SA talking about how terrible you guys are in that field... That they were only enduring you guys because of the money.

sacajawea:
Hello Dear..

Kobojunkie:
She is probably eyeing one of them hoping to play cougar and find her a lover in one. Dem never scam this one yet. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. I am not against older women finding love or women being cougars. I am against the fact that these victims tend to ignore the red flags to fall into the hands of obvious scammers while claiming to be blinded by love.

Brendaniel:
I wasn't even going there or even thinking to that side at all, but since you raised it, I think you have some point there, I've noticed quite a number of guys here are too direct in sex, they don't really believe in pre-intimacy and sensual type of sex and for me those aspects count a lot because these are aspects I really like, so it's not all Nigerian guys

But in pounding they are really good I think this is where they share similarity with Black American guys

For some of the aspects I was talking about, they are quite smart, they are quite quick to see and pick opportunities, make good use of it and get things done quickly too( I know you will say I am bragging), that's why I didn't want to say it earlier on

Kobojunkie:
She is probably eyeing one of them hoping to play cougar and find her a lover in one. Dem never scam this one yet. 🥱🥱🥱

P.S. I am not against older women finding love or women being cougars. I am against the fact that these victims tend to ignore the red flags to fall into the hands of obvious scammers while claiming to be blinded by love.

elobrave17:
✓ Are you saying that real love cannot exist between an elderly woman & a young man?

Bluntemperor:
✓ And if she she is in True Love and many of you are casting aspersions,why Not,If Not?
Love is a Strange Bird 🐦 that is always flying and reaching out to those who love and respects it's Colours!
Americans Are Great People, irrespective being Black or White and if you are Truthful to them- their Love Is For Life!
Ko Sarugbo Ni Ghana!(No Old Women In Ghana), because we are all Under Twenties!!

Mrexcell:
✓ These old american ladies are just sex starved they don't even seem to care about the dangers that's involved one of them that recently travelled down to warri to meet her young lover was later found dead in the room of the young man obviously due to too much marathon sex

Samantha125:
There's no man who's not good in pounding, the most important thing is the skills.

It's good that they have all those aspects, but it would've been even far better had they used them for the betterment of Nigeria.

Brendaniel:
Samantha, Nigeria's problem is not really the way you see it, sometimes I hate talking about the issues of Nigeria because I know the problems are not hard to solve and we have people who can do that within a short period but some people would rather burn down the country than have those problems solved especially by the people who can solve them for reasons that are shaped by their ideology(ethnic, political and religious ideology).

This i wrote here is the biggest problem of Nigeria, I've given up on the unity of Nigeria because of that and I seek to divide Nigeria according to whatever ethnic group(s) that wish to be together or form their own country, my tribe is constantly blamed for the problems of Nigeria even though we haven't ruled for more than 50 years and the time we got to rule it only lasted for about 6 months, but we are blamed by certain tribes for what happened within that 6 months till date, my tribes man who ruled within that 6 months was killed by these certain tribes who took over and have shared power within themselves for over 50 years and this is where the country is today, some of them have sworn my tribe will never rule(I'm not bothered about that though), but if you gonna rule, why not improve the country?


They don't want to, because they feel my tribe will be the biggest beneficiaries of a working country, so they rather destroy the country believing they are fighting a perceived enemy, so when you have people with the intelligence, smartness and ability to fix things whether from their tribes or my tribe, they'll rather fight such people from getting close to power or making any impact in any political office.

To them, having a country is like war, sports, game, It's like Arsenal vs Man-u, it's like a we vs them thing, the result of all these is that the worst among the worsts among them keep getting into offices as long as it's their tribesman who is ready to play along their ethnic, religious or political supremacy ideology, surprisingly they have the numbers to do that back to back without even the support of my tribe.

I'm not saying all the other tribes are bad, but there are 2 major regions responsible for these things I just said, it stems from their ideology which predates our country's independence and they have the numbers and not all their people support the nonsense they are doing but a large number of them do.

This same issue costed over 3 million lives from my tribe in a needless war that lasted for 3 and half years just because we wanted to have our separate country, Britain and France gave support to these tribes to kill and returned us back into Nigeria even after we had declared our own country and had our own running government.

Imagine being hated because of where you come from in a country that's supposed to be your country, I don't even feel like a have a country anymore because the current ruling government came to amplify these issues with the supremacy ideology thing.

South Africa, you guys are really( I don't want to use the word lucky) let me use the word graced, You guys tend to share similar ideologies with each other which is one great attribute of unity, Nigeria is not united, religious, political and ethnic divides are not striving for a common goal because of the different ideologies of what having a country means to some, to some it's just " we are the ones in charge so we are superior " , for me I just want a country that works but sincerely speaking i don't really see that happening with these guys who carry the we vs them supremacist ideology.

So not like those Nigerian guys may not be having plans to use such aspects to improve Nigeria but like said, in Nigeria, it goes just beyond having plans, sometimes it is almost like fighting a war just because you want to do good and improve your own country, whether politically, religiously, ethnically or economically because some people believe you shouldn't be doing it and are ready to fight you if you do.

pretydiva:
Nigerian guys always check on you😁ok ma’am. Should we tell her?🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Samantha125:
Haibo!!! I didn't say you must write an entire bible...😭😭😭

My job alone involves a lot of drafting and reading and now I must read this?😩😩😩 I need an energy drink.

Brendaniel:
Eyaahh, Sorry, I didn't know

Brendaniel:
Samantha..... Nigeria's problem is not really the way you see it...I'm not saying all the other tribes are bad, but there are 2 major regions responsible for these things I just said.... Imagine being hated because of where you come from in a country that's supposed to be your country... South Africa, you guys are really( I don't want to use the word lucky) let me use the word graced....

Samantha125:
I've read your write up and it's quite interesting, but I don't want to dive deep into Nigerian politics because my country's own is already giving me grey hairs.

But you guys really need find a way to resolve your differences and lead by example as the giants of Africa.

Gudiza:
Err.... pardon me, I think you're omitting a vital piece of information.
You should probably surmise in addition, that your people were those hers kicked out earlier in the year...and that Ur people have resolved to label hers Xenophobic till thy kingdom come.