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Nigerian skit maker Deacon Famous has praised his in-laws for their rare sense of independence and respect.

In a post shared on social media, he revealed that since getting married, no one from his wife’s family has ever asked him for any favor — not even during family events or funerals.

We need to learn that it’s not the duty of your son-in-law to solve your family problems. Na marry I marry, I no take loan with interest,” he wrote humorously.

Since I got married, nobody from my wife’s Family has ever asked me for any favor, they’ve had several Family events including funeral and never asked for my contribution as Inlaw.
We need to learn to accept that it is not the duty of your Son Inlaw to solve any of your problems in your Family.
Na marry I marry, I no take loan with interest!!!

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Na so

No need for them to ask you directly, oga......Na their daughter dey do the asking indirectly,on their behalf

Bride's family gat so much sense

Sonnobax15:
Na so

No need for them to ask you directly, oga......Na their daughter dey do the asking indirectly,on their behalf

Bride's family gat so much sense

Can’t you men just appreciate a woman who works hard to take good care of her family without asking her husband for support

If a woman ask her man for financial favour, you men must talk
If she decides not to ask, you men will still find something to talk

What is you people’s problem?

Jennyclay:
Can’t you men just appreciate a woman who works hard to take good care of her family without asking her husband for support

If a woman ask her man for financial favour, you men must talk
If she decides not to ask, you men will still find something to talk

What is you people’s problem?

you should have directed that question of yours to your gender instead . Cuz majority of you bannies live your lives, depending entirely on men and you know that's the truth . Keep defending lies,you hear .

Sonnobax15:
you should have directed that question of hours to your gender instead . Cuz majority of you bannies live your lives, depending entirely on men and you know that's the truth . Keep defending lies,you hear .

Biko, let us hear word

If i ask people like you when was the last time you supported your wife/girlfriend financially, I’m pretty sure you will have absolutely nothing to say

Broke men everywhere!!

Jennyclay:
Biko, let us hear word

If i ask people like you when was the last time you supported your wife/girlfriend financially, I’m pretty sure you will have absolutely nothing to say

Broke men everywhere!!

. Jennyclay,you don't know me . I'd have really loved for you to hear it from my banny's mouth on how I've been supportive to her . Don't assume everyman out there's like those men who've been toasting you . Just like it's in Physics --"Like terms attract each other" ,so it's with relationship..... you should change your circle, perhaps when you do,you may end up attracting men like my type even tho we're almost going into extinction

You did not marry from a poor family obviously, by poor I mean poverty of the mind

How does this concerns us?

Most of these marriage where they want to tell the public at doesn’t concern them are always the imperfect ones.

Mumu man
There are something u are not supposed to be told as a man..... Extending help when not told and when you have capacity to do is what makes you reasonable, honorable, and respectable.

That’s the advantage of not marrying for poverty alleviation programs

Sonnobax15:
. Jennyclay,you don't know me . I'd have really loved for you to hear it from my banny's mouth on how I've been supportive to her . Don't assume everyman out there's like those men who've been toasting you . Just like it's in Physics --"Like terms attract each other" ,so it's with relationship..... you should change your circle, perhaps when you do,you may end up attracting men like my type even tho we're almost going into extinction

This has nothing to do with your argument with the Jenny girl. I stopped physics as a subject about twenty years ago, but are you sure physics states that like poles attract? Isn't it supposed to be the opposite?

The marriage is still too early.

Are they supposed to ask you help?

At all you are not their benevolent

NiRfreak:
Mumu man
There are something u are not supposed to be told as a man..... Extending help when not told and when you have capacity to do is what makes you reasonable, honorable, and respectable.

Did he say he doesn’t voluntarily participate?
It is one thing for them to bill you, it is another for you to voluntarily use your mind when they don’t trouble you.

Do you really expect him to publicly announce how he has been actively involved voluntarily

Jennyclay:
Can’t you men just appreciate a woman who works hard to take good care of her family without asking her husband for support

If a woman ask her man for financial favour, you men must talk
If she decides not to ask, you men will still find something to talk

What is you people’s problem?

What the wife has, doesn't belong to the husband again?..
This your reply sha.

Dammnnnnn

This nikka should stop lying for real. When divorce happen now, na different story we go come Begin dey hear.

Funny funny funny


Many more character to come

That's because your wife is not Nigerian, it's a normal thing for non Nigerian babes.
Ask people who married foreigners.

Jennyclay:
Biko, let us hear word

If i ask people like you when was the last time you supported your wife/girlfriend financially, I’m pretty sure you will have absolutely nothing to say

Broke men everywhere!!

How do you know that there are "broke men everywhere" if you are not broke?

if you have a sourve of income and you take of your needs from your legit source of income, will you notice whether men are broke or not?

Jennyclay:
Biko, let us hear word

If i ask people like you when was the last time you supported your wife/girlfriend financially, I’m pretty sure you will have absolutely nothing to say

Broke men everywhere!!

You just broke shamed someone you don't know, just make sure you have enough funds in your account and a legitimate source of income,if not, you will remain broke for the rest of your life even if a man gives you money, the money will vanish from you.

Keep fooling yourself. They’ve already collected money from you indirectly over and over through your wife.

Chilipepper:
Nigerian skit maker Deacon Famous has praised his in-laws for their rare sense of independence and respect.

In a post shared on social media, he revealed that since getting married, no one from his wife’s family has ever asked him for any favor — not even during family events or funerals.

We need to learn that it’s not the duty of your son-in-law to solve your family problems. Na marry I marry, I no take loan with interest,” he wrote humorously.



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Are you God?
See this one oo
Even wigwe of access of blessed memory was humble

Jennyclay:
Can’t you men just appreciate a woman who works hard to take good care of her family without asking her husband for support

If a woman ask her man for financial favour, you men must talk
If she decides not to ask, you men will still find something to talk

What is you people’s problem?

Looks like you live in a parallel world. At least not in Nigeria.

The overburden most young men receive from their spouse or girlfriend is quite worrisome and you want to meander the corners by saying they work hard. Which of the hard are you referring to??

TheFreshVanilla:
Keep fooling yourself. They’ve already collected money from you indirectly over and over through your wife.

What if they are financially comfortable enough not to ask the wife for any money? Is that not a possibility?

When you marry to a wealthy family, there might be little or no need to assist them, but you should always show concern occasionally after all,you're part of the family, but in a situation where they are not well to do family, what stops you from helping out? Most people that talk about these things are broke men..btw I don't support extorting inlaws oh

Toor, for this life if you have the opportunity,marry from an average or well to do family.... parasitic in-laws na dem full outside

Probably the family has enough.

Must they tell you? Even if they have enough, you can help out.

Sky4lite:
The marriage is still too early.

lol he is not even married.if u haven’t been married for upto 5yrs we still see u as bachelor.we will like to hear from him after 10yrs of marriage

It's possible but rare. Sooner or later, they will expect the man to show workings without demanding.

dominique:
What if they are financially comfortable enough not to ask the wife for any money? Is that not a possibility?

Sonnobax15:
. Jennyclay,you don't know me . I'd have really loved for you to hear it from my banny's mouth on how I've been supportive to her . Don't assume everyman out there's like those men who've been toasting you . Just like it's in Physics --"Like terms attract each other" ,so it's with relationship..... you should change your circle, perhaps when you do,you may end up attracting men like my type even tho we're almost going into extinction

Famous Na you be this??


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