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Woman gets blocked by a friend for not showing concern about her pregnancy struggles.

Chilipepper:
Woman gets blocked by a friend for not showing concern about her pregnancy struggles.

She no wan be your friend. It is that simple, so move on!

People are constantly moving mad because wtf 🤬

Some some people are just kids.

So she blocks her friend because of her inability to take in.

So if she quarrels with her husband she's going to blame you for that too.

I've always maintained match the energy of your friends.

Availability does not translate to loyalty.

Some friends are just there but they are not there for you.

When shît hits the fan you will know how far

Don't mind her jaree, If you ask why she never born, they will say you are not minding your business and call you all sorts of name, if you no ask, they will say you do not care. Just forget her and move on.

Just move on already.
She might have deeper reasons for shutting you out.

Many are the problems of this world…

You weren’t wrong for not asking. Your intentions were kind, and it’s understandable to avoid sensitive questions like that. Sometimes, people handle pain differently what one person sees as respect, another may interpret as indifference. But A simple message like “I’ve been thinking of you and praying for you if you ever want to talk, I’m here for you” might have bridged that gap better.

You are not at fault my dear! Give her some space to let the heat out!

I remember about 12 years ago, I saw a friend who had a bulgy belly and she told me she was 4 months pregnant. I saw her at a mutual friend’s wedding about 2 months later with a flat tummy. Her reaction and quick glances suggested to me she lost the pregnancy. I didn’t want to take her down the memory of the possibly horrible experience so I decided to play along and smiled and joked with her. I told her she looked fabulous. I planned to ask her via the telephone later. Later in the night, she sent a text to me telling I was a horrible human and I didn’t ask about her pregnancy and she would go ahead and block me. As a mental health nurse, I understood she was going through PTSD. I just feigned ignorance. I needed to protect my mental health as well. The lady is back in Nigeria with a new marriage and 2 kids and probably still thinks I am a bad friend.

There are some situations you can’t help but have to force yourself to forget in order to protect your mental health.

You self no get work...use your energy dey check dollar rates, gas prices, petrol prices!.

Thank me later

By making meaningful connections, you'll realize that people belong to various categories, each with its unique reasoning styles. You'll see that madness can manifest in different degrees, enriching your understanding of the human experience.

You never see anything

Is the friend who blocked her giving her oxygen to breath

Why bother yourself? Mtchewwwwwwwwwwwwww

Chilipepper:
Woman gets blocked by a friend for not showing concern about her pregnancy struggles.

wahala nor too plenty. If u talk na crime, if u nor talk na crime.

So u dont know ur friend? if YES, then why are u surpised, if NO, then why are u also surprised?

Emmah123:
Asking a TTC mum about her pregnancy status or related matters is often something she may not appreciate. Such questions can create unnecessary pressure and emotional stress. For this reason, most friends choose to avoid bringing up the topic unless the TTC mum initiates the discussion herself.

As it should be, unless if it's close family.

Even close family sef, you can't say how they will react to such concerns

It all depends on your relationship with her, if you are very close, at least, after 2 or 3 years into marriage, she should have ask her as a close friend.

Though she went too far by blocking you.

How is she your friend, when you can't freely communicate with her

That was unthoughtful of the TTC woman.

The feeling of TTC should not lead to senselessness.

Check my GRE info below:

these days friends are no longer truly friends,if truly she was your friend,almost all topics can be discussed between the two of you .I kind of understand where she is coming from and also understand your own point,but that conversation won't be the worst conversation to have between two friends.

You have done nothing wrong . I don't even bring up the topic. I relate like everything is ok whether child or not

But man can ask fellow friend after marry for 10 year what is delaying u guys , have u gone to the hospital for check. A friend must check on a friend if u not any thing

If this is true than avoid that friendship by all means

Asking someone when will they give birth is like mocking them even if it's coming from a sincere heart.
People are not God that gives children

U ask question wahala
U no ask questions wahala
U mind ur business wahala

Just like u post on NL dem ban u
U quote someone them ban u

What kind of friend are you that you could not even say something like " omoge, I don't know if it's me o or you guys are not ready, I find myself praying for you to give me god kids o. Do you know how to count ovulation periods abi I am jumping ?". Thats a good start.

I have asked subtly, I have been offered unsolicited info. If friends can't be free with each other what kind of friends are they?

Chilipepper:
Woman gets blocked by a friend for not showing concern about her pregnancy struggles.

Are you the woman?

Should people who have access to the phone in your imaginary mind go and unblock?

Why are you crying more than the bereaved?

Emmah123:
Asking a TTC mum about her pregnancy status or related matters is often something she may not appreciate. Such questions can create unnecessary pressure and emotional stress. For this reason, most friends choose to avoid bringing up the topic unless the TTC mum initiates the discussion herself.

It's a very awkward topic only the TTC person in question can bring up.

If she asked. The same friend would say she wants to mock her

Your friend is a she-diot

Oblongata:
You are not at fault my dear! Give her some space to let the heat out!

I remember about 12 years ago, I saw a friend who had a bulgy belly and she told me she was 4 months pregnant. I saw her at a mutual friend’s wedding about 2 months later with a flat tummy. Her reaction and quick glances suggested to me she lost the pregnancy. I didn’t want to take her down the memory of the possibly horrible experience so I decided to play along and smiled and joked with her. I told her she looked fabulous. I planned to ask her via the telephone later. Later in the night, she sent a text to me telling I was a horrible human and I didn’t ask about her pregnancy and she would go ahead and block me. As a mental health nurse, I understood she was going through PTSD. I just feigned ignorance. I needed to protect my mental health as well. The lady is back in Nigeria with a new marriage and 2 kids and probably still thinks I am a bad friend.

There are some situations you can’t help but have to force yourself to forget in order to protect your mental health.

If I'm a lady and you saw me pregnant and later you see me without the pregnancy or a child in hand , you just looked at me without asking me about the baby, I will know you heard it from someone else and you have been talking behind my back with others about my situation that's why you are scared to ask me to my face, same thing with the case of this lady a friend that know you are married for many years and has never seen you pregnant or with a child and never asked is not a true friend,