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How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by JaySmart4422(op): 3:22pm On Oct 17, 2025
I was rejected n humiliated cos of money today I have the money but I don't see my family as family anymore
Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by Nobody: 3:47pm On Oct 17, 2025
JaySmart4422:
I was rejected n humiliated cos of money today I have the money but I don't see my family as family anymore
Don’t pay back evil with evil but make sure your foundation is standard to the point your grandchildren will enjoy your legacy before you start associating with them. Once they start showering you with that love, you might get carried away and forget.

Once you’ve forgotten how they treated you first and you fall again, no one is coming for you. Forgive but don’t forget the experience and make sure they don’t find you the way you were before.

See their past rejection as a motivation (then and now) but don’t ever imagine they can change. Treat them as you would a friend but don’t go extra miles just yet till they’ve earned it.
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Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by Kobojunkie: 3:56pm On Oct 17, 2025
JaySmart4422:
I was rejected n humiliated cos of money today I have the money but I don't see my family as family anymore
You have money? You mean something like you have at least Naira 30 million in savings for emergencies only, while you have a roof over your head and a reliable source of income(not a month-to-month paycheck), abi? undecided

You'd better go keep working on improving yourself and your finances as a whole, and stop worrying about whether your family would finally come to stroke your ego after the previous humiliation or not. undecided
Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by Kaczynski: 4:05pm On Oct 17, 2025
family is a social construct. if your biological siblings have proven themselves to be unreliable or toxic, then redefine your family.

surround yourself with people who value you for who you are, not for what you have.
Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by Pootle: 5:31pm On Oct 17, 2025
recompense no man evil for evil, vengeance is my, i will recompense says the lord
Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by Baronthecelebri(m): 5:23am On Oct 18, 2025
Cut ties with them
Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by A4alpha: 10:50am On Oct 18, 2025
Op you have not said anything yet, until you release the full koko what you put up there ain't reasonable enough to act upon.
Re: How Do I Start Seeing My Siblings As My Blood After This by frozen70(f): 11:14pm On Oct 18, 2025
JaySmart4422:
I was rejected n humiliated cos of money today I have the money but I don't see my family as family anymore
They are still your family, just that you will now be applying senses in every thing you do with them

Trust is like a sticker once it's removed from the wall, it doesn't fit well again
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