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Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

You’re asking if you should consult a doctor or specialist🤔

There are several factors that can contribute to a man losing interest in intimacy with his wife.

- Lack of Emotional Connection: When emotional intimacy wanes, physical intimacy often follows suit. Feeling disconnected or unappreciated can dampen desire.

- Stress and Fatigue: High stress levels and exhaustion can significantly reduce libido. Work pressure, financial struggles, and daily responsibilities can take a toll.

- Communication Issues: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts can lead to emotional distance and decreased intimacy.

- Routine and Boredom: Falling into a predictable pattern can stifle excitement and desire. Novelty and spontaneity can help keep things fresh.

- Lack of Appreciation: Feeling undervalued or unappreciated can diminish interest in intimacy.


- Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Dysfunctions

- Low testosterone can contribute to decreased libido.

- Porn Addiction

Addressing these factors often requires open communication, empathy, and sometimes professional guidance. 😎
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effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue. After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round. I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

She is your wife she is your priority you are young 1 round no be sex for who they find child .don't you enjoy her or you both don't do romance just bang and bang .May be make you na they romance small small it will turn you on again and on again .no be to they bang bang you will get tired and won't enjoy it at 31 you still have much energy to perform 3 rounds over night don't be lazy or you drink too much sugry drinks

First of all, make I correct you for one mistake wey you dey make. No be person wey go numerous rounds na dey get belle, only one shot can lead to triplet sef. Haven't you seen guys complaining that "only once I touch her oooooooo, and I even withdraw sef. So how the belle go be my own ". So bros, no be to do 10 rounds dey guarantee pikin. Now for the other one, you may be losing interest because of the kind of sex wey you dey receive. I've come to discover that all holes aren't the same when it comes to sex. I have a friend that can go 3 rounds with his sidechick but he can't go 2 with the wife. I've come to discover that when a kpekus is tight, men tend to get more excited and anxious to drill it than when it's wide and "LAGBA LAGBA", hence we thank the originator of vagina tightening cream. So going back to your complaint, is it that you're naturally a lazy man on bed or your wife's body no dey motivate you? But whatever advise you may get from this place, go and see a fertility doctor and try to spice your love life with your wife. Definitely you will be a father by next year and don't forget to share the good news with us all. Feel free to invite me for the child's naming ceremony but that will be after I get a confirmation result of your DNA test because non-virgins can't be trusted.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Why lose interest

Things you need to know:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days from the first day of a woman's menstrual circle. So, if you are conscious of this, engage in regular sexual intercourse over the next 3 - 4 days starting from the 14th day.

The moment you ejaculate, do not withdraw immediately, give a few minutes (at least 5mins).

Meanwhile, the two of you should approache a gynecologist to recommend laboratory tests just to be sure that you are medically ok.

With respect to going just one round, some men are wired to have low libido. Once they ejaculate, that is it for them. This may not be a medical issue.
You can go 2 to 3 rounds if you really want to, but this will take hours. Prepare your mind to always make love to your wife and not just intercourse. Be creative and explore. pre-intimacy is very very essentially.

I was once a novice in the matters of sex, but I had to explore. My wife was equally patient and helpful. Now, we have evolved and we enjoy sex more.

I have some other tips to share, but let me stop here for now.

Goodluck!

Na calendar Dem take dey find pikin no be number of rounds,
U be fresher for marriage 🤣

Oh I am very sorry for the issue you face .

But one round is enough .

You can also buy her intimacy gadgets .

Or better still , please use Viagra . Don't go for agbo . It will damage your kidneys . Also make sure you don't have high blood pressure issues and you're not taking any blood thinners .

Or let me ask .. are you obese

Same thing is happening to me with my GF ..... I fear I'm losing my Libido too

There is nothing wrong with either of us and she is still the sweet girl I met but in issues of sex, after the first round I hardly go the second round and this issue just started this year.

Regular intimacy between husband and wife consistently for a reasonable period without child should be analyised.

You guys should both go for serious medical analysis and bother yourself less about round two or three.

Your prick haff expired, no Kee your self oOoOO

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

Second or first round have nothing to do with conseption, even a drop of semen can get a woman pregnant which means you not been able to get a second round is not a factor affecting her inability to conceive

NobleDeSage001:
Things you need to know:
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle. So, if you are conscious of this, engage in regular sexual intercourse over the next 3 - 4 days starting from the 14th day.

The moment you ejaculate, do not withdraw immediately, give a few minutes (at least 5mins).
Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle.

Meanwhile, the two of you should approache a gynecologist to recommend laboratory tests just to be sure that you are medically ok.

With respect to going just one round, some men are wired to have low libido. Once they ejaculate, that is it for them. This may not be a medical issue.
You can go 2 to 3 rounds if you really want to, but this will take hours. Prepare your mind to always make love to your wife and not just intercourse. Be creative and explore. pre-intimacy is very very essentially.

I was once a novice in the matters of sex, but I had to explore. My wife was equally patient and helpful. Now, we have evolved and we enjoy sex more.

I have some other tips to share, but let me stop here for now.

Goodluck!

Ovulation normally starts 14 days after a woman's menstrual circle.

Abi from the first day of mensuration

Some girls no dey try too, dey no dy try look sexy Small, many girls once dey naked you go just tire and some too no dey sabi take care of their vjay

Please I need clarity, must sex be more than one round? So if you only go one round, it's a problem.

Work on your faith and belief that God will give you a child ....

Your loss of intimacy is because your subconscious is telling you that what is the need of a second round when nothing will happen....

So first of all, let two of you grow your faith and love, make a fertile soul ground for a baby to come ....

It is not the number of rounds that makes a woman pregnant,medical check up for both of you is number one,it is absolutely normal to go one round and not feel like going for a second,I'm a veteran.A man can spend a long time on one round,meanwhile,the woman has cut several times,the bottom line,both of you enjoyed it,as per the pregnancy,you guys should go for a medical check up,a lot will be revealed and expert advice will be given.

Your wife doesn’t have a high sexual appeal, thereby limiting your urge to crave for her..

Everyday egusi soup. Test another soup and you will find out that it's just emotions. Easy solution you and your wife should not have sex for 2 weeks and after 2 weeks when having sex the vibes for 2 rounds will be back and when having sex take your mind off child bearing and just enjoy the moment with your wife. The child will come when it wants to come. Try this

effixxyguy1:
Hello Nairalanders, I'm seeking advice on a sensitive issue.

After the first round of intimacy with my wife, I often lose interest in going for a second round.

I'm 31, and we've been trying for a child, but I'm worried this might be affecting our chances. Is this normal? Are there any underlying issues I should be concerned about? Should I consult a doctor or a relationship counselor? I'd appreciate any guidance or suggestions.

Second round is not always required...... Enjoy the one round and ensure the akamu is nutritious enough......... 🤣😉😂

SpencerForbes:
You’re asking if you should consult a doctor or specialist🤔

There are several factors that can contribute to a man losing interest in intimacy with his wife.

- Lack of Emotional Connection: When emotional intimacy wanes, physical intimacy often follows suit. Feeling disconnected or unappreciated can dampen desire.

- Stress and Fatigue: High stress levels and exhaustion can significantly reduce libido. Work pressure, financial struggles, and daily responsibilities can take a toll.

- Communication Issues: Poor communication or unresolved conflicts can lead to emotional distance and decreased intimacy.

- Routine and Boredom: Falling into a predictable pattern can stifle excitement and desire. Novelty and spontaneity can help keep things fresh.

- Lack of Appreciation: Feeling undervalued or unappreciated can diminish interest in intimacy.


- Erectile Dysfunction and Sexual Dysfunctions

- Low testosterone can contribute to decreased libido.

- Porn Addiction

Addressing these factors often requires open communication, empathy, and sometimes professional guidance. 😎
🚶‍♂️

I didn't care to go thru your other underlisted.
Just the first one is enough for me to discuss,
Lack of emotional connection, but he did first round. The truth is dude is suffering from an internal diseases, too much of sugar and so on. You think he doesn't have the desire to go on and on, but his penis and body system is betraying him in the aspect.
So I disagree totally with your assertion of been emotionally disconnected with his wife

Lalami3232:
First of all, make I correct you for one mistake wey you dey make. No be person wey go numerous rounds na dey get belle, only one shot can lead to triplet sef. Haven't you seen guys complaining that "only once I touch her oooooooo, and I even withdraw sef. So how the belle go be my own ". So bros, no be to do 10 rounds dey guarantee pikin. Now for the other one, you may be losing interest because of the kind of sex wey you dey receive. I've come to discover that all holes aren't the same when it comes to sex. I have a friend that can go 3 rounds with his sidechick but he can't go 2 with the wife. I've come to discover that when a kpekus is tight, men tend to get more excited and anxious to drill it than when it's wide and "LAGBA LAGBA", hence we thank the originator of vagina tightening cream. So going back to your complaint, is it that you're naturally a lazy man on bed or your wife's body no dey motivate you? But whatever advise you may get from this place, go and see a fertility doctor and try to spice your love life with your wife. Definitely you will be a father by next year and don't forget to share the good news with us all. Feel free to invite me for the child's naming ceremony but that will be after I get a confirmation result of your DNA test because non-virgins can't be trusted.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

You are actually a wise personality, I often misconstrue you for a troll. Your words are filled with wisdom.
At OP, you don't need more rounds to impregnate your wife. I remember when I had the first raw sex with my side chick. I only lasted 5 thrusts before cumming. Maybe due to the fact that I was doing a quickie. The next month, she told me her period has stopped. I didn't believe I could be the father of the baby. As a matter of fact, I abandoned her until the baby was born. Can you believe that when I saw pictures of the baby, he was my exact replica, as if I spat him out.

In conclusion, if having a child is your goal, try to make sure you know when your wife is ovulating (na the Koko). It is only an ovulating womb that can receive and grow seed.

At 31 u should be a sexual predator in bed. Ur woman should be the one running away from u.
However, infection from ur woman will always provoke ur dick not to have the urge for a comeback.
U sef reason am, if u enter a filthy house, will u feel the urge to enter again?
The fault lies in ur woman.
When last did ur woman treat infection? Infection makes sex unpalatable for men.
I know what u r passing through bro. Even the unpleasant smell that accompanies the sex.
The fault is not urs bro. The fault and problem is ur woman and soon u will go celibate cos the sexual urge will totally collapse.
Tell ur woman to go to a good hospital and get treated. She has multiple infections.
The fault is not yours bro!

Lalami3232:
First of all, make I correct you for one mistake wey you dey make. No be person wey go numerous rounds na dey get belle, only one shot can lead to triplet sef. Haven't you seen guys complaining that "only once I touch her oooooooo, and I even withdraw sef. So how the belle go be my own ". So bros, no be to do 10 rounds dey guarantee pikin. Now for the other one, you may be losing interest because of the kind of sex wey you dey receive. I've come to discover that all holes aren't the same when it comes to sex. I have a friend that can go 3 rounds with his sidechick but he can't go 2 with the wife. I've come to discover that when a kpekus is tight, men tend to get more excited and anxious to drill it than when it's wide and "LAGBA LAGBA", hence we thank the originator of vagina tightening cream. So going back to your complaint, is it that you're naturally a lazy man on bed or your wife's body no dey motivate you? But whatever advise you may get from this place, go and see a fertility doctor and try to spice your love life with your wife. Definitely you will be a father by next year and don't forget to share the good news with us all. Feel free to invite me for the child's naming ceremony but that will be after I get a confirmation result of your DNA test because non-virgins can't be trusted.

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

Hahaha, Lalami you're always cracking me up. You just sums everything up. Nothing else to say

She is definitely not your spec

This is why we say always marry your sexual spec

Your libido is weak

Boost ur libido

Who made the law you have to go multiple rounds to conceive or show you are man enough
She's your wife you can always try everyday, majority ofen lose interest after the first round jare

Shey eyokan na o ti to e ni. Shey o fe do pa ni?

Its completely normal. It is just the biological nature of man. We aint biologically made to be with one woman for too long even though we are morally meant to be. I am sure u could go 3 or more rounds when u first met ur wife but as time goes on the sexual attraction reduce with time. It is normal and happens to every man even though they may deny. I am afraid it will even get worse. There will come times that for u to go 1 round with her will be hard whereas if u see another lady walk by sexily dressed u will get erection that u find hard to get with ur wife. The earlier u realise this the better for u. Just do ur best to get hard and manage to make love to her even if its once. Not asking u to cheat o. Just making u understand.