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All the storytellers are females.

Is it one-sided? Is it all about men solving women's problems?

Kobojunkie:
4. So long as poverty is in a home, it does not matter any other behavioral qualities one thinks one possesses. (There are literally men and women who work themselves to death and never make it out of poverty.)

This is untrue, Kobo. But let's agree to disagree, abi how them dey talk am.

immortalcrown:
All the storytellers are females.

Is it one-sided?

https://www.nairaland.com/8513589/what-greatest-regret-married-man

This is a thread of male storytellers.
Help us make it double-sided. Thank you.

pocohantas:
https://www.nairaland.com/8513589/what-greatest-regret-married-man

This is a thread of male storytellers.
Help us make it double-sided. Thank you.

Your request for me to make it double-sided is a proof that the experience is likely one-sided.

Your source has not been able to provide a male among the storytellers. It remains one-sided, at least, on the platform where you sourced the stories. Thank you.

immortalcrown:
Your source has not been able to provide a male among the storytellers. It remains one-sided, at least, on the platform where you sourced the stories. Thank you.

Since there is a widespread notion of men being bad, I think it is common sense the OP carefully selected female posters or maybe the entire post was to appreciate lovely husbands. The main problem should be there exist humans who still have a problem with this.

Thank you too.

pocohantas:
Since there is a widespread notion of men being bad, I think it is common sense the OP carefully selected female posters or maybe the entire post was to appreciate lovely husbands. The main problem should be there exist humans who still have a problem with this.

Thank you too.

Your first response contradicts the impression you try to create in this your second response. But no wahala.

immortalcrown:
Your first response contradicts the impression you try to create in this your second response. But no wahala.

There is no contradiction, Sir.
Except English is not your first language.

pocohantas:
There is no contradiction, Sir.
Except English is not your first language.

In your first response, you ignored my question and requested that I tell my own story to make the narrative double-sided. You even went as far as providing a link to a thread about men's bitter experiences in marriage.

But in your second response, you started saying you think that the poster selected only stories told by females.

Evidently, your first response contradicts your second response, even if English is your first language.

immortalcrown:
In your first response, you ignored my question and requested that I tell my own story to make the narrative double-sided. You even went as far as providing a link to a thread about men's bitter experiences in marriage.

But in your second response, you started saying you think that the poster selected only stories told by females.


Evidently, your first response contradicts your second response, even if English is your first language.

Obviously you didn't read the link. You want to hide something from a black man, put it in writing. Have a lovely weekend.

pocohantas:
Very important!!
I keep praying for the wisdom to please Mine.
He has his occasional moments, who doesn't?
But in all, he is a great guy and I am super proud of him.

You kuku get sense before. There are so many out there who have character problems and invariably use their hands to create problems for their marriages. If you meet a good man, love and cherish him so that you will not come one day to start writing "hide my identity". I saw one who was complaining that her husband has stopped eating her food because she poured soup on him during an argument. She admitted that the man no get wahala but she was provoked because he told her to buy something in the market and she didn't buy it, but instead bought her own choice and lied that she forgot his own. When the man scolded her, she sparked pour am soup for body. Shey that one is not bad character?? You are now coming online to complain.

And may the sons of perdition not come our way, and if they do,may we have the sense and discernment to run away from them. When women pray for spirit filled men, they should be specific because Lucifer sef na spirit.

There should be.
The story cannot end like that.
Please go check again. 😂

It's a bad memory. Maybe she couldn't finish it because I searched for the finale but there was none. 🥺

immortalcrown:
All the storytellers are females.

Is it one-sided?

A man in marriage knows there's nothing lovely about marriage, so, you don't expect him to come and start telling lies to massage some people's ego.

Na men dey suffer pass for marriage, the reason "MRS" is called "ORIAKU" in Igbo language.

Ishilove:
You kuku get sense before. There are so many out there who have character problems and invariably use their hands to create problems for their marriages. If you meet a good man, love and cherish him so that you will not come one day to start writing "hide my identity". I saw one who was complaining that her husband has stopped eating her food because she poured soup on him during an argument. She admitted that the man no get wahala but she was provoked because he told her to buy something in the market and she didn't buy it, but instead bought her own choice and lied that she forgot his own. When the man scolded her, she sparked pour am soup for body. Shey that one is not bad character?? You are now coming online to complain.

And may the sons of perdition not come our way, and if they do,may we have the sense and discernment to run away from them. When women pray for spirit filled men, they should be specific because Lucifer sef na spirit.


It's a bad memory. Maybe she couldn't finish it because I searched for the finale but there was none. 🥺

She is testing him. How he reacts will tell how subsequent cases of abuse would go.

Wisdow and self-control is key. With time I am even seeing too much talk no really dey necessary, but na God dey help person.


The concluding part would have been nice as I am curious to see how they broke the news of his death to her mum. So touching!

pocohantas:
Obviously you didn't read the link. You want to hide something from a black man, put it in writing. Have a lovely weekend.

You are the one hiding something from yourself here. All the stories you sourced came from women. The link you posted for me is not even to the same source where you got the stories you posted. So, what exactly is your point?

If the link you posted for me contains similar stories from men, why not fetch the stories and bring them here the same way you fetched female versions of the stories and brought them here?

immortalcrown:
You are the one hiding something from yourself here. All the stories you sourced came from women. The link you posted for me is not even to the same source where you got the stories you posted. So, what exactly is your point?

If the link you posted for me contains similar stories from men, why not fetch the stories and bring them here the same way you fetched female versions of the stories and brought them here?

Ok

pocohantas:
Ok

Waiting...

pocohantas:
Very important!!
I keep praying for the wisdom to please Mine.
He has his occasional moments, who doesn't?
But in all, he is a great guy and I am super proud of him.




There should be.
The story cannot end like that.
Please go check again. 😂

Wow! Is this same Poco of those days

So,marriage can make you reason like this??

I have been observing your comments lately and I knew something had changed.

Congratulations!!! I am happy for you.

Helpout12345:
Wow! Is this same Poco of those days

So,marriage can make you reason like this??

I have been observing your comments lately and I knew something had changed.

Congratulations!!! I am happy for you.

Can you show any comment of me reasoning otherwise on a similar topic? Keep your congratulations. I will be waiting...

pocohantas:
Can you show any comment of me reasoning otherwise on a similar topic? Keep your congratulations. I will be waiting...

I be old timer here. No need to open all those old wounds. I wish you all the best.

Helpout12345:
I be old timer here. No need to open all those old wounds. I wish you all the best.

Which wound? I said show me one comment of me saying otherwise on a similar topic. You say you be oldtimer. Who cares?

You wish me the best indeed...

All the sacrifices are from the male,yet you see broken women lamenting men are scum,Wata Bam Bam Bam

Jennyclay:
Love is very sweet only if there’s money.

Honestly, life is too short to be fooling around with broke men

Life is more interesting when you are not surrounded by leach that doesn't know how to make money

Ishilove:
Bad news sells. A LOT. Which is why most people will click on

Ok, but are you married yourself?

Why are these stories about the man solving a major problem in the woman’s life, then her “falling in love” based on that

I wanted to read i love him with all my heart just because i do

Who noticed it's the man in all the stores doing the risk and sacrifices?

For Evey successful story as read above they're 5 unsuccessful- that the sacrifices weren't appreciated or reciprocated

Harddiskng:
Why are these stories about the man solving a major problem in the woman’s life, then her “falling in love” based on that

I wanted to read i love him with all my heart just because i do

😀😀😀😀😀 let's still be observing my guy. Maybe the real love story without "anything" attached from the man will be posted.

This is a thread for nairaland evening newspapers lol after una finish laughing about the thread una go enter street face reality..awon old cargos lmao

FaAbData:
Who noticed it's the man in all the stores doing the risk and sacrifices?

For Evey successful story are read above they're 5 unsuccessful- that the sacrifices weren't appreciated or reciprocated

We saw that but still dey look whether they will post stories of women doing the sacrifice for love and marriage.

Marriage is a humongous societal fraud. A very big scam. From those gibberish testimonies, I read how these ladies, two ladies didn't take the Men seriously, but they married someone they didn't take seriously because the first one foolishly came as second Jesus to save her from her traditional father, and sponsored her to become a lawyer. Then the second one married him because he opened a salon for her. Even her brother saw how foolish the man was for his sister.

I was waiting for how any of them made the sacrifices that made the marriage good, but none, all the testimonies are on how a man took either financial gamble on them or put his life at risk for them.

None of these women assisted themselves to be financially stable before marrying or assist the victims called husbands to accomplish extraordinary great feat.

I am satisfied with women being Feminist while Men patronize hookups and baby mamas. If Tiwa Savage like she can be Ned Nwoko 12th wife, her business. Toke Makinwa for let Love Machine impregnate her instead of Man na, why Linda Ikeji end up being a babymama?

Awon agent of destruction.

Sandra Maryam was pardoned. Innocent army doctor was burnt, many men died of food poisoning from spouse, paternity fraud.

Shalom.

Ishilove:
I couldn't resist adding this bonus. For the 'single to stupor' and "love na scam" geng.

All these beautiful stories of men bringing women out of shit, cleaning them up, prospering them and marrying them.

Big question is, Can a woman do this same thing for a man?

The answer is known and in our mind. It's men that truly loves. Women are just in business of looking for comfort

Helpout12345:
😀😀😀😀😀 let's still be observing my guy. Maybe the real love story without "anything" attached from the man will be posted.

Lool brother real love is real. Like two of my guys, broke boys right from university days, their babes were the one that was madly in love with them. One of these babes would bring her own food stuffs for my guy, even tell him to come to her hostel to eat when he was broke as usual. They would tax their parents and give the money to these guys. These babes small small act of love plenty and i am glad these my guys married them.

These guys work in top organizations earning big bucks now and won’t mind spending it on their wives from university days.

However nowadays it seems these babes are about me me me, Most of these babes have become “traders”- (something for something), most can’t give you N5, these women in the stories didn’t even take their suitors seriously; i am seeing you have to solve their major family for them to fall in love lol. is this what men of nowadays are supposed to marry?

I neva hear of police station for naija where man and woman de stay the same cell.

Notice how every story here is about a man helping a woman not the other way around.

These eve creatures, Everything is about them. if they even manage to buy boxers for you , the whole world would hear about it.