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Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Gerrard59(m): 6:39am On Oct 21, 2025
phorget:
Bros no state or city can anyone survive on 100k monthly unless you usually get side income that will argument the 100k.

If you feed on 3k per day that gives you 90k on feeding alone within a month, how about other expenses?
Have you lived in northern Nigeria, Jigawa, Gombe, Bauchi, Sokoto, Adamawa, especially outside the capital cities? Or you think Nigeria begins in Lagos and ends at Abuja?
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by phorget(m): 8:06am On Oct 21, 2025
Gerrard59:
Have you lived in northern Nigeria, Jigawa, Gombe, Bauchi, Sokoto, Adamawa, especially outside the capital cities? Or you think Nigeria begins in Lagos and ends at Abuja?
And you call that "surviving"?
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Sirchiboy(op): 8:44am On Oct 21, 2025
sonssyo:
I have already drafted all these,I'm into HR and knows the tricks of employees,small basic pay and all other earnings will be tied on commission.
.
Is there vacancy in your company?
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by sonssyo(f): 9:51am On Oct 21, 2025
Sirchiboy:
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Is there vacancy in your company?
for engineers, fresh graduates yes........ though we are located in the south east
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by malikombi(m): 12:26pm On Oct 21, 2025
stormborn28:
May God bless your home. He will take you to a new level
Amen. Thank you 🤝
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Hackman1994: 12:51pm On Oct 21, 2025
sonssyo:
for engineers, fresh graduates yes........ though we are located in the south east
Can you employ me too.
I Stay in uturu
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by llona: 1:27pm On Oct 21, 2025
Badca81:
Na this type of men dey born 11 children like football team grin grin despite their little income .

In his condition he is looking for a woman instead of to improve his well being, cry cry
True true E worry mind 😌
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by emmaodet: 2:45pm On Oct 21, 2025
africanusvu:
That's what deceived many, they only look at the take home salary but never knew many make five times their salary before month end
A truck driver in a Nigeria construction company even machine operators don't receive UpTo hundred thousand, but builds bungalow worth millions before Year ends, live big, buys cars yet if you no go, you no go know
Gbam!!!!
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by sonssyo(f): 2:53pm On Oct 21, 2025
Hackman1994:
Can you employ me too.
I Stay in uturu
are you an engineer?
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Hackman1994: 3:38pm On Oct 21, 2025
sonssyo:
are you an engineer?
I studied computer science ma HND
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by sonssyo(f): 5:24pm On Oct 21, 2025
Hackman1994:
I studied computer science ma HND
we only need engineers and that was clearly stated Sir
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by olutund(m): 5:46pm On Oct 21, 2025
emmaodet:
Married with 2 kids and earn 60k? You see, you people are the cause of Nigeria's problem.
I can only imagine the havoc you will wreck if Nigeria is better and you are earning 1m
cheesy cheesy
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Hackman1994: 5:53pm On Oct 21, 2025
sonssyo:
we only need engineers and that was clearly stated Sir
I feel like crying
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by sonssyo(f): 9:47pm On Oct 21, 2025
Hackman1994:
I feel like crying
Don't give up, your testimony go loud!
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by PencilBox: 12:34am On Oct 22, 2025
phorget:
Bros no state or city can anyone survive on 100k monthly unless you usually get side income that will argument the 100k.

If you feed on 3k per day that gives you 90k on feeding alone within a month, how about other expenses?
Yes, I agree with the side hustle to augment
But bro, I have worked with people who earn as low as 40k or 50k as salary (like janitors) even 38k monthly as just watch men.

Yes some of them have side hustles or little businesses to augment. But in total, e no sum up to 100k a month

Suicidal? YES.
But they live daily with hope.
They still manage to feed
And do other things.

It's the life bro.
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Miracle494: 12:55am On Oct 22, 2025
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Communicate with your partner and if no solution get a second wife if you're financially capable.
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Miracle494: 12:56am On Oct 22, 2025
I don't cope bro. Too hard
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Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by phorget(m): 6:09am On Oct 22, 2025
PencilBox:
Yes, I agree with the side hustle to augment
But bro, I have worked with people who earn as low as 40k or 50k as salary (like janitors) even 38k monthly as just watch men.

Yes some of them have side hustles or little businesses to augment. But in total, e no sum up to 100k a month

Suicidal? YES.
But they live daily with hope.
They still manage to feed
And do other things.

It's the life bro.
If you know the amount of debts hanging on those people's neck, if you know the amount of "begging without dignity" carrying out by those people, if you know the amount of shady deal here and there... Bros you go fear!

If a man eats with just 2k in a day that automatically becomes 60k in a month and such person is earning 40k as the salary and he has other mouths to feed and other things to cater for so how exactly do you think such a person is coping?
The poor salary culture in Nigeria is one of the reasons crime is rampant Sir, people need to survive somehow.
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Hackman1994: 7:51am On Oct 22, 2025
sonssyo:
Don't give up, your testimony go loud!
I just feel like giving up
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by PencilBox: 9:22am On Oct 22, 2025
phorget:
If you know the amount of debts hanging on those people's neck, if you know the amount of "begging without dignity" carrying out by those people, if you know the amount of shady deal here and there... Bros you go fear!

If a man eats with just 2k in a day that automatically becomes 60k in a month and such person is earning 40k as the salary and he has other mouths to feed and other things to cater for so how exactly do you think such a person is coping?
The poor salary culture in Nigeria is one of the reasons crime is rampant Sir, people need to survive somehow.
You're DAMN RIGHT 👍
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by ThaThinka: 3:27pm On Oct 22, 2025
Jennyclay:
Men still earn below 100k in this country undecided

How do such men takes care of their wife/girlfriend is really my concern undecided

I shouldn’t say what’s on my mind, honestly undecided
Girl wetin? What's a girlfriend doing in this talk? huh
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Caaz: 5:03pm On Oct 22, 2025
JobAndVacancies:
please are you single?
You're the kind of lady I need that will manage with me despite my meager income
Hahahahaha

Yenyenyen

This one dey find person daughter to suffer.

See the meals i cooked with firewood.... My husband para for using firewood to cook it instead of gas,but e nor concern me

Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by JobAndVacancies: 6:00pm On Oct 22, 2025
Caaz:
Hahahahaha

Yenyenyen

This one dey find person daughter to suffer.

See the meals i cooked with firewood.... My husband para for using firewood to cook it instead of gas,but e nor concern me
Ahnie it doesn't rhyme.
That kind of meal cannot be cooked with firewood.
That's a sumptuous meal that is easily prepared with gas cooker so why firewood when you have the resources for gas cooker?
Or is it what I'm thinking? Downloaded pictures from the internetgrin
Re: Married Men With Kids Earning Below 100k, How Do You Cope? by Caaz: 6:25pm On Oct 22, 2025
JobAndVacancies:
Ahnie it doesn't rhyme.
That kind of meal cannot be cooked with firewood.
That's a sumptuous meal that is easily prepared with gas cooker so why firewood when you have the resources for gas cooker?
Or is it what I'm thinking? Downloaded pictures from the internetgrin
You need to reset your life..... Anyways you can grovel in your doubt,that's your business,but do not drag person pikin to manage with you in your owite
,hustle hard... Na your mate dey place people on salaries.

Your can laminate my response,con you wont get any from me ever on this forum.


And yes,those are my meals,i cooked them with firewood and i have nada to prove to ya.


You are free to laminate my response.
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