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A beautiful Nigerian lady has taken to social media to vent her anger over what she describes as the terrible and nasty character of some men today.

In the short viral video, she expressed disbelief at how certain men would urge a woman to keep her pregnancy, show care and concern during the process, and even encourage her to go ahead and have the baby — only to later demand a DNA test after the child is born.

She questioned, “Why would you sleep with a woman without protection if you know you’re not truly ready to be a father?”

According to her, these same men are often the ones who insist that their girlfriends keep the pregnancy even before marriage, fully aware that they’ve been having unprotected sex with them. Yet, when the baby finally arrives, they suddenly start doubting and demanding a DNA test.

“Why would you impregnate someone you don’t trust? And why even get a girl pregnant before marriage?” she ranted, switching to Pidgin English to add, “Men of this generation, una get bad and nasty character — and nobody dey talk about am!”

Watch the viral video below and share your thoughts in the comments.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKC5XogBO_A?si=TFyoWWr_kGkU6eLB

Summary:

A Nigerian lady has gone viral after angrily calling out men who encourage their girlfriends to keep a pregnancy but later demand a DNA test. She criticized such behavior as hypocritical and described it as a sign of mistrust and bad character among today’s men.

This one is looking for likes and engagement 👀
No DNA Testing, no child dedication and the craziest part is that I won’t tell you while we’re dating so you’ll disgrace yourself, your family and friends.
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SpencerForbes:
This one is looking for likes and engagement 👀
No DNA Testing, no child dedication and the craziest part is that I won’t tell you while we’re dating so you’ll disgrace yourself, your family and friends.
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Did your father do DNA test on you

Still trying to make sense of what she's saying.

So she feels good character is when the men should have told their girlfriends on time to abort their pregnancy and should have shown hatred and no concern during pregnancy process if they plan to demand the baby DNA Test in future

Bad character to me is when after showing you affection during the pregnancy you refuse to do that DNA Test as you were instructed.

At the mention of the DNA test, the holy and innocent gender starts panicking

Joeboypondeck:
Did your father do DNA test on you

If your father stole, does that mean his father should also steal? are you doing everything that your father did? bloody s!mp.. get over Ur list for women.

THis one has fish brain and she is really daft and not accountable. must you fvck the guy if he refused to use contraception? and can she not use contraception herself?

No trust anymore among couples...dis is a bad omen actually considering our fathers didn't have to do DNA test to confirm our true identity....I guess d trend is now obvious

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Why do so many women appear to hate DNA tests?

Would they hate it for their brothers or sons?

For me it should be done automatically at every birth.

Men can encourage pregnancy that is theirs!,not one belonging to another man.

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IKC5XogBO_A?si=TFyoWWr_kGkU6eLB

Social media has given every idiot an opinion and a voice even in matters beyond their intellectual strength.

She's not even making sense at all. She doesn't know how to put her thoughts together

This one no get sense at all

DNA test only trigger unfaithful women. A woman who has nothing to hide has nothing to complain about.

After you don open legs like mouth waaaah

Joeboypondeck:
Did your father do DNA test on you

Yeah, we did it in my family not long ago, and it was positive. I don't know if it's the rate of paternity fraud cases now or that men are getting wiser, but there's a rise in paternity fraud compared to the past two generations. So, as a man, I think it is very necessary to have a DNA test to avoid a story that touches the heart.

SpencerForbes:
This one is looking for likes and engagement 👀
No DNA Testing, no child dedication and the craziest part is that I won’t tell you while we’re dating so you’ll disgrace yourself, your family and friends.
🚶‍♂️

I no even know what to say to these ladies. My own sisters are in support for a DNA test and I played the evil character by telling them, it'll not make a man like them. My elder sisters supported me as they're all married and nature and knows a person wey wan "shey werey go shey shey werey" no matter what you do.

These irresponsible girls everywhere today want to dey run from the consequences of their debauched actions... Those wey dey give them attention sef be the main problem. As the mumu want to be used and dumped, as a man, why don't you simply comply?

Do ya thing and move on. No time to waste for anyhow person or matter.

It's just like they're endorsing giving another person's child to some other guy. Tell me, no be total bastaard talk be that?

And you this man. How come ya comments are almost always the ones I quote and reply to? I dey suspect you and those two wey use brain and sonnobax as their moniker..

I dont blame women.
I blame the men that threw away their rights and handed it over willingly to these women.

Imagine such audacity?

That I had unprotected sex with you and told you to keep the baby, does that give you the right to frolick around and bring me another man's child?
Is that what your mother's thought you?

Just like saying if someone tells you they want to eat cooked rice. you now go and bring a plate of rice with plenty stones in it. Then when they get angry and query you on why the rice is full of stones, you too you vex and tell them they have no right to ask you such. That its the rice they wanted to eat that they should eat it like that.

Evil gender

She is a funny woman.

Someone quoted me below saying that she isn’t funny like I used “funny” in an endearing way. Nope. She is funny in the way that foolish people and stupid people are annoyingly funny. Besides it is my absolute right to see her as funny. You see her anyway you want.

Now that out of the way, these Women with accountability issues. It is interesting.

She is complaining when I am going further and advising men and women to do more than one test? What will she then do when she sees my advice to men in particular?

In fact and typically, I usually recommend three (3) Tests but 2 at a minimum, especially if you have the means and financial capability.

Generally I recommend 2 Peace of Mind Tests at a minimum. Even if you married the virgin herself.

- First test immediately the child is born and not latter than 48 hours after.

- Another test when the child is taken home. Hospitals can swap your kids.

- The third test usually should be at a new lab to identify testing errors from previous 2 as a form of QA/QC and verification of previous results.

She is talking about just one test.

Any sensible man knows that a woman lies strategically for her survival and to hide shame and disgrace which is tied to her social currency and sexual market value. Since they lack the physical strength for brute force and violence their superpowers are deceit, seduction, emotional blackmail, crying to gain pity, using voice modulation to feign pain, sorrow, etc.

When it comes to paternity, do not and never trust a woman. In their bid to “survive” they will justify such deceit like paternity fraud. To a woman, anything goes to make her happy, allow her access to resources and remove her shame.

Ur papa....DNA must be done to keep on exposing all these retired and active oloshos and there is nothing you can do about it.

Bunch of scum bags.

Joeboypondeck:
Did your father do DNA test on you

Go and ask ur papa that question.

correctguy101:
I no even know what to say to these ladies. My own sisters are in support for a DNA test and I played the evil character by telling them, it'll not make a man like them. My elder sisters supported me as they're all married and nature and knows a person wey wan "shey werey go shey shey werey" no matter what you do.

These irresponsible girls everywhere today want to dey run from the consequences of their debauched actions... Those wey dey give them attention sef be the main problem. As the mumu want to be used and dumped, as a man, why don't you simply comply?

Do ya thing and move on. No time to waste for anyhow person or matter.

It's just like they're endorsing giving another person's child to some other guy. Tell me, no be total bastaard talk be that?

The most infuriating aspect that's eating away at me is seeing effeminate men standing up for them. I could raise someone else's child, but to be given a child to nurture and care for, believing it's my own flesh and blood, only to discover the truth after all the years... Then, some pastor will be telling me to forgive and move on.
Bl@@d go surplus
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It's absolutely infuriating; the betrayal runs deep.

10thTenthMan:
She is a funny woman.

I recommend 2 Peace of Mind Tests at a minimum. Even if you married the virgin herself.

First test immediately the child is born and not latter than 48 hours.

Another test when the child is taken home. Hospitals can swap your kids.

She is talking about this and that.

She's not funny. She's irresponsible. And should be treated as such.

I'm unmarried but have children. My daughter's and I have this look you'll immediately know I sired them but I still did test when all these news online got me paranoid. It's not too expensive to get peace of mind. Less than 500k and you'll be confident to say.... "That's my child.."

Her current boyfriend should know that he is not the only one sleeping with her

Exceed15:
She's not even making sense at all. She doesn't know how to put her thoughts together

She's probably an illiterate 😂

Exceed15:
She's not even making sense at all. She doesn't know how to put her thoughts together

She's probably an illiterate 😂