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Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by FarahAideed: 11:33am On Oct 29, 2025
Well as a gentleman I would advise you to leave that marriage and stop eating her food because she is definitely going to poison you and tie U ... Be wise
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Chisave: 11:36am On Oct 29, 2025
Hs
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by ajalawole(m): 11:39am On Oct 29, 2025
TotoSuckker:
As you no gree nack your wife give am chance make another man nack am.

Are you happy that her to/tow is just there being underutilised?

Your wahala too much sef!
case close.... Some married men will say they don't have time to bleep I just Pity them. My ex that stay with me for 4month during lockdown almost kpai me with sex, the day I decline her sex request Na same.dey she sleep iya shade house. Since then any bleep she want we do am. She marry this year sha and she don born.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Ojagun(m): 11:39am On Oct 29, 2025
"I have read stories about SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me"

@Emboldened

Ugh! cheesy
The male ego grin
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Anabosee(m): 11:40am On Oct 29, 2025
Man you really messed up, you should have investigated further to get clarity. There's a reason you were destined to see the pop up message, maybe God is the one that make you see the booking.

But you don fockk up
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by ajalawole(m): 11:40am On Oct 29, 2025
FarahAideed:
Well as a gentleman I would advise you to leave that marriage and stop eating her food because she is definitely going to poison you and tie U ... Be wise
exantly. He should just let her go and move on.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by ARISHEM:
Mr silently ended the convo. huh
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by BATified2023: 11:41am On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do
don't worry

Dey Mumu yourself dey go until she kpai u
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by yommysure(m):
The op know Wetin hin dey do, the op no say if hin no tell the wife about the matter before 24th of Oct. dem go nack the wife better style for hotel and the wife will denied it. In a nutshell.. the poster dey fear to lose his wife…. Bro, you’re too soft. And your wife will seriously punished you for this. Bye bye
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by emiye(m):
It's like this OP wants to die untimely death. What you did is worse than completely staying silent and doing nothing.

You should have stayed silent, if you wont be decisive. When women cheat, they do it with so much venom and force that is unimaginable and incomparable with that of a man. Your method may be applicable for a wife dealing with a cheating husband to pick his conscience. You have zero understanding. If she is already spiritual and cheating by booking a hotel to be "knacked", she is EMOTIONALLY AND FINANCIALLY INVESTED" in the cheating, a dangerous combo that tells me it is worse than you think.

She even has the upper hand now, afterall when the thing scatter, she will gladly paint a story of you denying her sex.

If you are not willing to end the marriage, ask for STD TEST and pregnancy test like someone suggested and a 3 months no sex window plus her booking joint marriage counselling theraphy session(s) WITH HER MONEY. She does not need to explain anything to you now. If she is not willing to follow these instructions, then she is not anywhere close to remorseful . Prepare your will.

@dbabs500, i just realized it was you that reported some misbehaviour from your wife some weeks back, and i told you clearly a romantic 3rd party is involved. If all of these stories are true, you are weak, pardon me. She has been doing it for a long time and sex is getting to her head. I heard of a woman cursing her husband during sex with a concubine, you think it is a joke when woman cheat. She has lost her head in the cheating , and i bet the man involve is using her as a sex slave, little wonder she is using her money to book hotel to be fuckkkked and you are acting like a sex starved indecisive man. This attitude of yours makes it worse.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Cmanforall: 11:46am On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do
Let her do a pregnancy test, before you ….
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Ojagun(m): 11:49am On Oct 29, 2025
yommysure:
The op know Wetin hin dey do, the op no say if she no tell the wife about the matter before 24th of Oct. dem go nack the wife better style for hotel and the wife will denied it. In a nutshell.. the poster dey fear to lose his wife…. Bro, you’re too soft. And your wife will seriously punished you for this. Bye bye
Gbam
Thread closed cool
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Darkmode64: 11:52am On Oct 29, 2025
Goo0dHardDick:
You're a weak man.

Strong men moves in silence, they avoid unnecessary dramas until they are satisfied with their curiosity. After which they'll quietly end the marriage if they catch their wives in the hotel with another man.

The fact your beloved wife said she doesn't want to continue that conversation already shows she's in charge of the home and not you. She didn't bother proving anything. Ur beloved wife would be knacked back to back that's if hasn't already started collecting massive rods elsewhere
Well-said!!!
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by pappilo(m): 11:55am On Oct 29, 2025
Its time to go. The marriage is over. No matter the amount of begging or change of behaviour that woman has checked out.

Do not get violent. Control your emotions and plan an exit strategy. You are going to exit eventually so its better you start strategizing.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Ojagun(m): 11:56am On Oct 29, 2025
Tenrack:
how many times I dey sound am here. Another simp reading this will say, I trust my woman ,she can't treat me this way. Shey Una see. It would be your turn. Keep trusting your wives and gfs. They are angels. You wey dey read this thing now beating your chest say your girl no go fit f you up, no worry, it's just a matter of time. Trust females at your own peril.
Men: "E no fit happen to me.No woman fit mumu me...Lai lai!" cool

When woman begin mumu you eh! E dey always be like film trick grin
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Kelklein(m):
Are you sure you didn't just make this marital problem up in your head.. cos I understand o..

God bless you with a peaceful marriage, only you dey use your hand and mind dey find problems..

If you are worried other people may be fúcking your wife, these are normal worries that comes across every man's mind once in a while..you just concentrate on being a better man and enjoy your marriage

And why in a hurry to ask her about the booking before the said date.. why not take a photoshot of the booking reminder that popped up, allow her to actually go for the booking and play her the tape when she returns.

If you really want to ascertain what's going on and decide what exactly you want to do, you have got to grow up and handle this with all the maturity it deserves.

Good luck to you sir..
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Mathewrichard99: 11:57am On Oct 29, 2025
Definitely she's cheating on you. How to handle it is what you are worried about now. She has even gone diabolical against you with that concoction or whatever you attached here. Please, for the sake of the brotherhood, be very careful. Left to me, I. Would stop eating her food and be a little distance from her. However, to make things clearer, I'm would sit her down and talk heart to heart with her, telling everything I have seen and discovered. I. Would tell her am opting out cos i still need my life and my extended family too still need me. A wife that cheats will Soon kill that husband in the near distance future. Things should be easy for you cos I can perceived you don't have any kids yet....that makes it better.....some women ain't worth fighting for at all.......
dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by ShenTeh(m): 11:59am On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do
Guy I sense that you are too afraid of the rough road towards gaslighting and divorce.

If you don't know what to do, confide in your sisters, they are the best at advising how to deal with fellow women.

If I were you, I would confront her directly and demand a confession. Make it an extended family affair.

She is going to get smarter and you won't catch her again for a very long time, by which time you are already 6 ft under from 'natural causes' aka smart positioning.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by tnerro1(m): 12:04pm On Oct 29, 2025
Instead of you to set trap for her on that booking date and catch her red handed with enough evidence and free your self from her, you sheepishly let her know you are on to her, women wey sabi pretend, you no go fit catch her again. When a woman don dey cheat, she has moved on, you too move on
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by dododawa1: 12:04pm On Oct 29, 2025
Marriage is not





DO or DIE



AFFAIR.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Rolings: 12:05pm On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do
Quite a dilemma you are in. One thing is sure , that your woman no be only yours again.
But if I were you this is what I will do
After searching my conscience and knowing I didn't make her feel lonely or abandoned, was taking good care of her to the best of my ability
I will confront her to know why she did it
If her answer is not satisfactory enough I will quit.
If she blames me for making her look outside for whatever reason I will change my ways and give her another chance. But if shes not remorseful, shes gone
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by emiye(m): 12:05pm On Oct 29, 2025
ShenTeh:
Guy I sense that you are too afraid of the rough road towards gaslighting and divorce.

If you don't know what to do, confide in your sisters, they are the best at advising how to deal with fellow women.

If I were you, I would confront her directly and demand a confession. Make it an extended family affair.

She is going to get smarter and you won't catch her again for a very long time, by which time you are already 6 ft under from 'natural causes' aka smart positioning.
I can tell that is the big hurdle for him. He possibly does not have the legal stay permit ratified correctly as well. It is a tough one with kids, but he really fumbled how he handled the discovery.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by advanceDNA:
Anabosee:
Man you really messed up, you should have investigated further to get clarity. There's a reason you were destined to see the pop up message, maybe God is the one that make you see the booking.

But you don fockk up
....he's afraid of losing his sneaky wife.. very low self esteem somebody...that's why he keeps letting her know of her moves hoping to make her stop
...... His fellow mùmù men will soon come and praise him for not allowing his cheating wife go on a weekend get away with another supposed p£nis...
las las na hypertension go kii am if the story is true
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Zocalite: 12:14pm On Oct 29, 2025
But no be today this woman has been giving you issue - from your previous tread

It has now graduated to adultery and she dey do jazz too

Which prophet does she listen to more frequently

Unfortunately you seems too weak to take the right decision

God help you O, you don marry jezebel
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by adeblow(m): 12:19pm On Oct 29, 2025
Tolu2024:
I don’t believe your tales though, even if it true why didn’t you monitor your olosho wife to the hotel without telling her?

It seem once Nigeria men travel abroad they all turn mumu.
The thing is they can manipulate you or call the cops on you. Once the cops comes, they don't care who is at fault, its always the man
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by enemyofprogress: 12:23pm On Oct 29, 2025
Double0h7:
What did you find on top of the cupboard?
Did she go away for that weekend getaway?
Abeg! Finish this gist now so I can give you the steps to take. 🥹
gist wey no make any sense at all.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by dauntless15(m): 12:23pm On Oct 29, 2025
You're weak bro, everything no p, me wey like games die, you'd never know I'm unto you, and the way I'll emotionally blackmail you ehn, guilt will eat you alive and you'd start acting sketchy and paranoid and I still won't say anything, you go beat yourself up sotey plus subtle clues wey I go dey show you say I know, you'll reach your breaking point and beg me to divorce you, and I'll tell you I already did without your knowledge.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by advanceDNA: 12:24pm On Oct 29, 2025
Rolings:
If she blames me for making her look outside for whatever reason I will change my ways and give her another chance. But if shes not remorseful, shes gone
Lol...... Have u ever seen any human being blame themselves when the sh!t hits the fan. Its human nature to gas light when they get caught......

i don't know how y'all blame the victim of infidelity.....u carry urself, enter clothe, pass plenty bus stop with traffic, go jump on another p£nis/pvssy.....but it's the fault of the spouse that you are cheating on..

. Okay shaaa...wateva makes y'all sleep well at night ...
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by gasparpisciotta: 12:25pm On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Attached is the picture of what I saw, forgot to attach
What is that in the paper?

You should have followed up with your suspicion by unravelling the reason for the hotel booking.

You acted too soon without a tangible evidence apart from the mystery in the paper and the alleged mistake hotel booking...
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by StreetFight: 12:26pm On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Hello Nlanders

I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.

I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not

So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.

Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.

A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.

Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.

Nlanders what would u do
Do DNA for your the children first, then you will know what next.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by Bwilliam(m): 12:27pm On Oct 29, 2025
Start protecting your assets and investments.
Contact a divorce lawyer immediately.
Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by StreetFight: 12:27pm On Oct 29, 2025
dbabs500:
Exiting now is too soon, he better to suffer in silence sometimes while planning ahead.
Children whose biological father you cannot say for sure.
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