₦airaland Forum

Good afternoon everyone, hope we are all good? There's this my childhood friend that is in a problem but right now even me I am confused and I don't know what to do so I decided to bring it here so u people can advice him on what to do.


Note, I am not here to beg for money for anyone so don't think anyone wants your money or wants to scam you, all I need is advice for him.


We went to higher institution together n we have been friends for over 15 years, this my guy is the definition of hardworker...he has done many hustles you will never believe a graduate can do because he's the kind of person that isn't ashamed once money is involved.

He was a teacher for good 3 years, it was when the 30k can't sustain him that he left to learn shoe making, after making shoes sales weren't coming so he started working at a paint sales company where they market paint in the market.

It was there he was able to gather money for pos and gas retail business, after sometime he tried traveling and it didn't work and he lost money.


We his friends came to his rescue and he got another shop but sales isn't moving, then he started agent work, after a while he got married because he's no longer getting young and hustle never pay.

After marriage, things were harder than diamond that he applied and applied for job and nothing was forthcoming, he even applied for higher purchase bike and keke napep but them no give am. All these just to make you know he can do any work.

His wife is working in a company n she resumes to a shop in d evening, this our guy decided to be going to the wife's shop so as not to be idle since work never come, believe you me this graduate guy was selling cups of rice, beans , garri, kulikuli n co and he wasn't ashamed.

With time the shop rent was due and no money to pay so his wife friends abroad decided to open warehouse so the wife can be the manager, they opened it with over 3 million and since they needed logistics they bought a small car, my guy as an hustler didn't think twice he discussed with his wife that he will b d driver so as to ease house burden even with no pay and the wife agreed.

My guy was seeing small change and he used all the money to apply for drivers license to do Uber since e-hailing won't take affidavit for drivers.


Lo and behold, just last week my guy call me say car engine don knock and right now he's confused, though the company said they will fix it with time but this guy is just tired of life.

It's been 10 years we graduated but this guy can't afford 5k in his account after all the hustle, right now I don settle quarrel tire because his wife believe he's d one bringing him misfortune.

He's contemplating suicide now, I called him not quite long today and I sent my token to him but I am worried for my guy, he has fasted tire, right now he's too lean that I told him to stop fasting.

He's just tired of life now and at home, please what should he do?

He's just tired of life now and at home, please what should he do?

You’ve done your part. Leave him to find his feet.

The bitter truth is there are some times things will just work against your plan, the real question is is your own situation the worst of it all? No, it's just a phase in life

Life is unfair is not just a saying but reality. For him to have made such efforts, he shouldn't relent. Winners don't quit while quitters don't win

Borrow2222:
Nothing like your friend.
Just say it's you.
Nobody is giving you kobo go and complain to APC to help you.

Note, I am not here to beg for money for anyone so don't think anyone wants your money or wants to scam you, all I need is advice for him.

Even when the op made it clear from the beginning. Some of you are just too bitter for any discussion. The Nigerians who are going through hardship are irrespective of political party affiliation, tribe or religion.

helinues:
Even when the op made it clear from the beginning. Some of you are just too bitter for any discussion. The Nigerians who are going through hardship are irrespective of political party affiliation, tribe or religion.

just leave that ignoramus.


They think supporting Peter obi means they are free from life problems, an obidient dey owe me 60k since last year.

I don't care about his political affiliation, I understand it's life.


Everyone have their own problem irrespective of political affiliation