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Sonnobax15:
. Bros,I totally understand your point

Sir, please ignore him and his message

Personally,I don't reply such messages...Dem full my WhatsApp..i don't even read them . I just open and waka pass them..

Kalulu44:
What should I tell him guys? Or just completely ignored him and pretend I didn't see the msg?

Emceecee:
Don't take it so serious, ask him what he thinks about the message, and share your understanding with him.

SpencerForbes:
He is your son, and if you break it down for him, I think he will get it. I am good at making points with a bit of humour, without stepping on anyone's toes (if that is what is bothering you), and you might just be showing him a path he will vibe with and appreciate.

Plenty of the struggles we guys face in the dating game, especially young men, come from dads not being open with their sons. I reckon the more we connect with our boys, the more it will shape how they act and think down the line.

Think about a teenager who is lacking in the sex education department just because he has not got that bond with his father?
We men gotta share our wisdom with the young ones, our way, and they will be looking up to us in the long run.
🚶‍♂️

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I swear the thing tire me. And to think the way he ends it with I will go broke if I don't send the msg makes me hmmmmm....

Mariangeles:
No offense, but are you sure the sender is your son?

Kalulu44:
Since I have been on social media for the past 20yrs or so. I used to see this kind of messages once in awhile and it irks me so much that I barely think about them nor do what the senders always wants me to do.
Most times, the senders are people very close to you or your bosses or acquintainces.
I always ignored them, cus they look and sound childish and stupid to me.
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Now, my 18yr old boy sent this to me ystday or so. Uptil now, I haven't even reply him nor what to exactly to say to him. I don't even have any positive thing to say to him nor wish to send it to anyone. I am just thinking what to tell him for such msg I have detested my all life.
What should I tell him guys? Or just completely ignored him and pretend I didn't see the msg?

Godfrey858:
I 1st bust laff as I read the message
It's shows you have good communication and connection with Ur son
Embrace it with full chest, you self do the needful and forward it too , don't forget to forward it to his mother too

Kalulu44:
Since I have been on social media for the past 20yrs or so. I used to see this kind of messages once in awhile and it irks me so much that I barely think about them nor do what the senders always wants me to do.
Most times, the senders are people very close to you or your bosses or acquintainces.
I always ignored them, cus they look and sound childish and stupid to me.
.
Now, my 18yr old boy sent this to me ystday or so. Uptil now, I haven't even reply him nor what to exactly to say to him. I don't even have any positive thing to say to him nor wish to send it to anyone. I am just thinking what to tell him for such msg I have detested my all life.
What should I tell him guys? Or just completely ignored him and pretend I didn't see the msg?

AndroBlaze:
Do your fatherly role and explain to him why sending these kind of messages are wrong, especially for a man, who should know better and is suppose to be the "stronger sex".

Its only Nigerians I am aware that do this stupid thing.... Nigerians and probably other weak peoples struggling with inferiority complex trying to masquerade that they have some sort of divine calling to bless and send rubbish.

The threat at the end always reveals their weak nature and true intention.

The Almighty God that gave us freewill doesn't force us to bow to him, its now whatsapp message one should be afraid of shey !

Sonnobax15:
. Bros,I totally understand your point

Sir, please ignore him and his message

Personally,I don't reply such messages...Dem full my WhatsApp..i don't even read them . I just open and waka pass them..

Kalulu44:
Since I have been on social media for the past 20yrs or so. I used to see this kind of messages once in awhile and it irks me so much that I barely think about them nor do what the senders always wants me to do.
Most times, the senders are people very close to you or your bosses or acquintainces.
I always ignored them, cus they look and sound childish and stupid to me.
.
Now, my 18yr old boy sent this to me ystday or so. Uptil now, I haven't even reply him nor what to exactly to say to him. I don't even have any positive thing to say to him nor wish to send it to anyone. I am just thinking what to tell him for such msg I have detested my all life.
What should I tell him guys? Or just completely ignored him and pretend I didn't see the msg?

ChybuzzDD:
The mindset behind the message is the bigger problem
He believes sending the message to 15 people as instructed will make him rich, while refusal will get the opposite result
This mentality is what has driven many Nigerians into laziness and poverty
You need to let him that life doesn't work that way, and that all those stuffs do not materialise.

Kalulu44:
Honestly Mariangeles, that's my 2nd son. Look up the chat I even promised him money by month end.

Mariangeles:
So, how did you handle the matter eventually?
Tell me you gave him the scolding of his life.

Samantha125:
You sound like a boring uptight parent... You don't have to take the message seriously.

Kalulu44:
Lolz! I have been seriously busy at work till now. I haven't given him a thought yet. I will do that tmrw when I am off. Thank you

congo4ka:
I have been on your profile for almost a week now, I will follow you because your stories are interesting

You are one of the few pple i respect in this platform including sonnobax15, childofdoom and mrcork.

Have a lovely weekend sir

congo4ka:
I have been on your profile for almost a week now, I will follow you because your stories are interesting

You are one of the few pple i respect in this platform including sonnobax15, childofdoom and mrcork.

Have a lovely weekend sir

kingthreat:
Seems the boy is quite disrespectful to actually forward this kind of message to you in the first place.
I doubt he will send it to his employer or his school principal.

Ganicus676:
This thread just made me open my Whatsapp block list begin laugh tire.....


I hardly block anybody, but if you do mistake send me this kind message, instantly you go just see my profile pic disappear from your side, the only people that managed to get a warning na my parents of all people 😁😁😁


I didn't block them, just ignore the message without a single word until they send something else that I can relate to.

No wonder e don tey wey I receive such message, my remaining contacts wouldn't try such...

Samantha125:
You sound like a boring uptight parent... You don't have to take the message seriously.

DMCA:
Awwwwwwn my baby, I missed you so soooooo much. 😘
It's been exactly 3 weeks. 😍

YoobaNesan:
Anyone sending this kind of useless messages, I see them as people with weak intellect.
Not only will I be afraid my son is exhibiting such, but he also moves with people of that low caliber.

I'll sit him down, explain things to him, talk to his common sense and ask him to delete that rubbish from his phone.