₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
Most men experience their first sexual encounters with sex workers. The picture there cannot work. Now, I see where the problem comes from. Also, some men believe it's traditionally odd for them to give head.

Most men? Are you speaking from experience or what? Where are the facts and figures to back this claim?

Yeah, they believe it's traditionally odd for them to give head but they want their b@lls suçkéd. How convenient.

folake4u:
Most men? Are you speaking from experience or what? Where are the facts and figures to back this claim?

Yeah, they believe it's traditionally odd for them to give head but they want their b@lls suçkéd. How convenient.

Thanks for the correction. I used old data as I checked and realised that I was wrong.

Such men are inconsiderate. A man who does not want to give head should not request the same.

Gerrard59:
Thanks for the correction. I used old data as I checked and realised that I was wrong.

Such men are inconsiderate. A man who does not want to give head should not request the same.

Glad to see you admitting your error. You're welcome.

Yeah they're very inconsiderate. They complain of "smelly pussy" whereas some of them are terrible with hygiene and don't wash their b@lls. So hypocritical.

Real2088:
Don't remind our men of their homes, let most of them keep facing the road and other people's family,most of them don't even believe a woman can orgasm, please don't raise this topic again,Na these married women dey help my life now,Rent and all just because of slight orgasm..abeg no spoil this my new business ooo

I am happy for you. Going by their responses here, they are always right. They don't ever take advice or corrections.

Chilipepper:
90% of Nigerian men cannot take their wives to the ‘promised land’ - Nigerian woman says

harder, faster, don't cum

They're all in their grave

folake4u:
Lol and what body type is that?

Well, physical fitness is important, I'd add flexibility too.

Yeah, the average Nigerian man would label a sexually expressive woman a sl_t.

You are right men see experience lady as bad girl .they prefer to teach them .

But there are some woman that you will take to the promise lady several she will still be cheating .
To take a woman to promise lady is not buy how big it is or small just be romance that all .touch her softly kiss her from slowly .kiss her while you go in .suck her boob while you go in do it at once .
As a man if you give a woman real orgazim you will know she will come several times in one round she will hold you while you lay on her she will press your body Down to pin her body down .

folake4u:
I know right!!

A lot of nigerian women haven't experienced orgasm in this big 2025.

Most especially older women


They re so shex starved af

A gender that God himself can not please. Who are you the sons of man to please.

Don't remind our men of their homes, let most of them keep facing the road and other people's family,most of them don't even believe a woman can orgasm, please don't raise this topic again,Na these married women dey help my life now,Rent and all just because of slight orgasm..abeg no spoil this my new business ooo

Lmaa! Nawa

brain54:
They can never reach the promised land...

Just like Moses they can only view from a far.


A man Digging a hole vigorously hoping to take them to the promised land is invariably digging his own grave.

It's not a Nigerian woman thing...as a man just dig your best and get out!

. Correct. You cannot come and kill yourself

The best answer is:

Make e bi. I cannot come and kill myself

You want to satisfy someone who cannot be satisfied by electric vibrator

Do your best and leave the rest , let her move to the next person

lilyheaven:
Orgasm in a woman comes from the mind.
It’s not from digging.
If you like dig from now till tomorrow, if her mind is not there, there’ll be no satisfaction.

Orgasm comes from multiple factors including the mind.

That's why it is your duty as her man to ensure that her mind is in the right place.

Like they say, sex starts in the morning.

Germi9:
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Yes you need to taste cocoanut rice before telling if it is well made/ sweet ..yes

Well, some of us have active taste buds and a vivid sense of imagination.

folake4u:
Lol and what body type is that?

Well, physical fitness is important, I'd add flexibility too.

Yeah, the average Nigerian man would label a sexually expressive woman a sl_t.

Stop saying the average Nigerian man please. Instead, say primitive Nigerian man. I don't think any modern Nigerian man wouldn't want his wife to be sexually expressive in bed because that's where the fun is. As far as I am concerned, there's no fun in the act if the woman cannot express her needs in bed. It becomes monotonous and boring if she just lays there without participating.

Jman06:
Stop saying the average Nigerian man please. Instead, say primitive Nigerian man. I don't think any modern Nigerian man wouldn't want his wife to be sexually expressive in bed because that's where the fun is. As far as I am concerned, there's no fun in the act if the woman cannot express her needs in bed. It becomes monotonous and boring if she just lays there without participating.

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I think the problem here is people not going for what they want especially Nigerian men.

They like sex a lot but would go for women who have low libido/not sexually expressive and then complain later citing the woman gives them peace of mind whereas the heart want what it wants.

Anyways, I think the solution is for like-minded people to follow themselves for a happy home.

folake4u:
😂😂😂😂😂

I think the problem here is people not going for what they want especially Nigerian men.

They like sex a lot but would go for women who have low libido/not sexually expressive and then complain later citing the woman gives them peace of mind whereas the heart want what it wants.

Anyways, I think the solution is for like-minded people to follow themselves for a happy home.

That is why I am of the opinion that the side chics are winning. A side chic who means and knows business would win way more than the man's wife. Bimbo Akintola also mentioned the bold a few weeks ago: these men marry women they are not sexually compatible all in the name of wife material, now they pursue side chic upandown.

Gerrard59:
That is why I am of the opinion that the side chics are winning. A side chic who means and knows business would win way more than the man's wife. Bimbo Akintola also mentioned the bold a few weeks ago: these men marry women they are not sexually compatible all in the name of wife material, now they pursue side chic upandown.

Nigerian men gave the upper power to their side chicks and I like the fact that these women make money off their heads since they're brainless.

I have married colleagues who complain about their wives denying them sex, anytime I inquire about their exes, their eyes shine and they begin to narrate the good ol' days. It raised my curiosity to what made them marry their current partners and of course, the person was ready, or a virgin and a religious person. No substance whatsoever.

It is why I like my generation, Gen Z, we like what we like, good or bad and go for it.

folake4u:
Nigerian men gave the upper power to their side chicks and I like the fact that these women make money off their heads since they're brainless.

I have married colleagues who complain about their wives denying them sex, anytime I inquire about their exes, their eyes shine and they begin to narrate the good ol' days. It raised my curiosity to what made them marry their current partners and of course, the person was ready, or a virgin and a religious person. No substance whatsoever.

It is why I like my generation, Gen Z, we like what we like, good or bad and go for it.

the whole business of exes is not quite that straightforward. more a case of thinking the grass is greener where you did not plant it. unfortunate truth across the world is that most women change radically once they have children and the children become the center of their existence. no guarantee that the exe would not have also changed.

a funny multilayered story of when we were on site for a project and the engineer in charge had to start going home late. this man had married a second wife not so long ago and the woman started getting extremely jealous. it was very funny. the woman assumed her husband was messing round and looking for wife no 3, and there was nothing the man could do to convince her otherwise. he said we are working in optimo relay and she responded, that optimo na asha-w-o woman. anyways - my boss, who was incidentally also p***y whipped by his own second wife said a lot of things, but one thing he said - once the man gives the woman pikin all this will die down and she will not have his time anymore.

GloriousGbola:
the whole business of exes is not quite that straightforward. more a case of thinking the grass is greener where you did not plant it. unfortunate truth across the world is that most women change radically once they have children and the children become the center of their existence. no guarantee that the exe would not have also changed.

a funny multilayered story of when we were on site for a project and the engineer in charge had to start going home late. this man had married a second wife not so long ago and the woman started getting extremely jealous. it was very funny. the woman assumed her husband was messing round and looking for wife no 3, and there was nothing the man could do to convince her otherwise. he said we are working in optimo relay and she responded, that optimo na asha-w-o woman. anyways - my boss, who was incidentally also p***y whipped by his own second wife said a lot of things, but one thing he said - once the man gives the woman pikin all this will die down and she will not have his time anymore.

You are right, however there are still women that have sex after childbirth and enjoy it.

I'm very aware that caring for children takes a toll on women and tanks their libido but one thing is certain, if there's no stress and she's very much relaxed, pvssy is sure especially if she enjoys sex with her partner.

folake4u:
Nigerian men gave the upper power to their side chicks and I like the fact that these women make money off their heads since they're brainless.

I have married colleagues who complain about their wives denying them sex, anytime I inquire about their exes, their eyes shine and they begin to narrate the good ol' days. It raised my curiosity to what made them marry their current partners and of course, the person was ready, or a virgin and a religious person. No substance whatsoever.

It is why I like my generation, Gen Z, we like what we like, good or bad and go for it.

You see am! It is the reason I insist men are the cause of everything.

A man who loves sex should marry a lady who adores it. Going ahead to marry a lady who is a Mary Amaka or Deeper Lifeish babe is being on the road to misery. It is a major reason I am not fazed about virgins and try to stay away from ladies who have explicitly stated that they don't like sex or find it annoying/tiring.

I jump and pass!

Gerrard59:
You see am! It is the reason I insist men are the cause of everything.

A man who loves sex should marry a lady who adores it. Going ahead to marry a lady who is a Mary Amaka or Deeper Lifeish babe is being on the road to misery. It is a major reason I am not fazed about virgins and try to stay away from ladies who have explicitly stated that they don't like sex or find it annoying/tiring.

I jump and pass!

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I also think they also factor in other criterias when choosing their spouse.