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Help Me Decide My Faith by doublechief96(op): 11:34pm On Nov 01, 2025
Good evening great mind, I'm here to seek for your sincere advice. My cousin brother who's doing business in one of the African countries has occasionally told me to come over and start my own business ( motor parts) . Now my problem is that his immediate younger brother is telling me not agree to live with him neither should I accept to do business with him that he's not good in maintaining a good relationship with people and that he would not give me the necessary support for me to stand on my own.before i forget He is the one that sponsored my university when i lost my mum .His younger brother is telling me that when i come i should start my own like every other young person is doing and as well hustle on my own.This his younger brother is also in the same country with him doing the same business. Remember I have not learn this trade I'm just about to start. What would you advice me to do to avoid him as well as save myself from future problem.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by dawnomike(m): 12:27am On Nov 02, 2025
No
doublechief96:
Good evening great mind, I'm here to seek for your sincere advice. My cousin brother who's doing business in one of the African countries has occasionally told me to come over and start my own business ( motor parts) . Now my problem is that his immediate younger brother is telling me not agree to live with him neither should I accept to do business with him that he's not good in maintaining a good relationship with people and that he would not give me the necessary support for me to stand on my own.before i forget He is the one that sponsored my university when i lost my mum .His younger brother is telling me that when i come i should start my own like every other young person is doing and as well hustle on my own.This his younger brother is also in the same country with him doing the same business. Remember I have not learn this trade I'm just about to start. What would you advice me to do to avoid him as well as save myself from future problem.
Go and test him out by yourself first before listening to anyone
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by MaziObinnaokija: 12:27am On Nov 02, 2025
sad what else do you want from us/to tell you undecided undecided sad? Somebody familiar with him/know him well already caution u to stay away from him/avoid story that TOUGH grin. Maybe u go wake up when hand touch you.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by MaziObinnaokija: 12:29am On Nov 02, 2025
sad may you not see CASE/enter trap/may your organs not disappear while asleep with him
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by doublechief96(op): 7:09am On Nov 02, 2025
MaziObinnaokija:
sad what else do you want from us/to tell you undecided undecided sad? Somebody familiar with him/know him well already caution u to stay away from him/avoid story that TOUGH grin. Maybe u go wake up when hand touch you.
Thanks for your advice. Just want the best way to avoid him.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by doublechief96(op): 7:13am On Nov 02, 2025
dawnomike:
No
Go and test him out by yourself first before listening to anyone
Bro I'm really confused this his younger brother is of the opinion that i shouldn't try stay in his shop or try to live with him.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by MaziObinnaokija: 7:17am On Nov 02, 2025
doublechief96:
Thanks for your advice. Just want the best way to avoid him.
People are WICKED. Abi the immediate younger bro is JEALOUS sad? Just do yo background/discreet investigation why he doesn't wants you to join his bro.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by SleekyP(m): 7:22am On Nov 02, 2025
doublechief96:
Bro I'm really confused this his younger brother is of the opinion that i shouldn't try stay in his shop or try to live with him.
This guy will squeeze your buttocks with no one coming to help you in a foreign land. Please run with your toes grin grin

He's Gay!!!
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by keemsleek(m):
Let me break it down for you.

1) The brother might be jealous or might be telling the truth.

2) Some people are good from far away, but when you get closer to them, they are demons, while others, from far away, don't look good, but when you get closer to them, they are God sent.

If you want to take the risk, you can, as long as you can leave when things go south, or you can take the brother's advice. Always have a plan B when you're taking a risk.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by doublechief96(op): 7:36am On Nov 02, 2025
SleekyP:
This guy will squeeze your buttocks with no coming to help you in a foreign land. Please run with your toes grin grin

He's Gay!!!
According to him he said that he's not good in making someone to grow in business and staying in his shop might lead to accusing of me of taking his money that staying with him will be waste of time and years.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by doublechief96(op): 7:43am On Nov 02, 2025
MaziObinnaokija:
People are WICKED. Abi the immediate younger bro is JEALOUS sad? Just do yo background/discreet investigation why he doesn't wants you to join his bro.
I really appreciate your input i'm already on it. Not really jealous he support me to come over but kept on telling me avoid his brother because he doesn't support someone to grow in business that he always like people to be under him for years without any meaningful support to stand on my own .
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by SleekyP(m): 9:31am On Nov 02, 2025
doublechief96:
According to him he said that he's not good in making someone to grow in business and staying in his shop might lead to accusing of me of taking his money that staying with him will be waste of time and years.
Means you won't grow under him, then avoid him.
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by Alphafarms(m): 12:21pm On Nov 02, 2025
Then go stay with the younger brother, since they both do same business
Re: Help Me Decide My Faith by doublechief96(op): 4:05pm On Nov 02, 2025
Alphafarms:
Then go stay with the younger brother, since they both do same business
This has been my thought i appreciate your response.
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