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I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Bigdickmoney:
I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Explain this to the police and let them escort you to the house, package you belongings and go.

But if you allow love control you, one day she would broke your head.

That lady needs serious help and treatment to overcome that habit which you can not render.

Even Your profile name self no show say u be gentleman o

Mugu stay there dey form lover boy till she lies against you to the police and you open your eyes waa to see welcome back to MMIA.

The shiver wey go run down your spine ehn, make I no talk much sha

You’re the one paying rent but afraid to go back home, make she no beat you why not just install camera so police go get evidence. Also try learning karate and watch plenty action movies. Always stay guiding.

You left Nigeria for the UK in search of greener pastures,but all of a sudden you've forgotten why you went there and abandoned all your dreams simply because of one banny who may lead you to your doom

Bro, you're a Nigerian and we Nigerians don't give up ....We're known for that.......Leave that house for her....In fact,leave that relationship cuz it seems she's a weapon fashioned against you .....no loose guard bro..

After my gender will say Nigerian girls in the UK are worse

Alatenuje ni yin Sir

When you are ready, you will leave the bondage abi working on eggshells of a relationship you are in

You left to make money and start chasing women

Nigerian women are too demanding, Nigerian women are this and that, foreign women are the best, bla bla bla , all because you men don’t want to spend and take care of us.
now you have found your perfect match who is a foreigner and you’re still crying.

Biko, remain in that relationship, till death do you both apart.

You will cry. shior!!!

If she's an alcoholic and she's violent, why don't you break up and go your separate ways? Why're you afraid of going back to the house that you're paying for? You say you don't want to call the police again because you don't want anything to affect your dbs. What's dbs? Does that have anything to do with you getting papers there (you don't have papers?)? Or what's making you hesitant to call the police again? If your claims are true and you're innocent and have nothing you're hiding, then calling the police again, this time to have her removed from the property, shouldn't be a problem.

Bigdickmoney:
I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Alcohol...

Bigdickmoney:
I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

This story is made up
Just look at d inconsistencies

It not true....

Cos if you really are tired, the topic should have been " why I broke up with my gf"

Break up with her.
Is it till she kills you?

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

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You are one false accusation away from ending up in prison in UK. It will be her words against yours. Take note.

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You go UK go dey date instead of chasing money? The joke is seriously on you.

It's like you want to be deported. I can imagine your parents already weeping for you for failing them. They sent you to UK to make money and bring back home and not this nonsense you're doing there

Jennyclay:
Nigerian women are too demanding, Nigerian women are this and that, foreign women are the best, bla bla bla , all because you men don’t want to spend and take care of us.
now you have found your perfect match who is a foreigner and you’re still crying.

Biko, remain in that relationship, till death do you both apart.

You will cry. shior!!!

Una don find your voice now abi... the thing is that this is a third world countries' pandemic. Slay queens from broke parents are going to use you. Especially those that are not ready to work their way out, legitimately, out of poverty...

The are among the white people as well. They trap our brothers who are successful sportsmen abroad, into unholy marriages, to get divorce settlements that their papa generation can never hustle,

Most men see the signs but will allow their erection think for them...
#spits

Here to read yet another lie. Another beautiful tale from Uganda. 🥱

Are you sure that you are a Naija guy? Cos I trust my Naija guy. You are there playing lover boy until she ki*ll you abi. You'd better be smart and use the Naija strategy to get rid of her.

Please kindly give me her contact. Allah asked me to pray for her

These UK people and their wahala

Her name is in the contract of the house?

You are a goner!

The law does not know who is paying 🤣😂🤣😂

Cohabitation gone wrong!

My bible tells me in Sirach 26:8 - A drunken woman (wife) is the same as rage; she won't hide her disgraceful conduct.

DMCY:
Mugu stay there dey form lover boy till she lies against you to the police and you open your eyes waa to see welcome back to MMIA.

Thank God Nigeria is preparing to go to war with US. We need able men in the war front..

So what do you want us to do about it?

You ignored Nigerian ladies and went with a foreigner, now you're coming to us to complain - for what?!

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.

Lol, you should ask people living abroad with you, we are here In Nigeria and don't have your advice we can only advise you to go back home and throw her out with her bags, but you will just end up in jail over there,

So it's your only problem deal with it.

You need peace in life.

End the relationship while you still can.

What’s a dbs? You better find an escape route from your predicament before she deports you back to Nigeria from her actions.

Bigdickmoney:
I’m Tired Of My Girlfriend Here In The Uk , She Frustrating Me. She Is An Alcoholic

I have been dating this lady for two years now here in the Uk I’m Nigerian and she is from Kenya. Have only been in the uk for 3 years, and she been here 20 years. She is an alcoholic and alcoholic is affecting her day to day life as she can’t even work or get things done. She lives on benefits.

Each time she drinks she becomes violent and fights me. we live together. Most times I have to run out of the house. I’m the one paying the rent.

2days ago she got violent and hit me several times. The neighbours call the police and I was taken to custody. Now I am out and afraid to go back to the house cos I don’t want to go to police again cos I don’t want anything to affect my dbs.

I’m squatting with a friend. Though her name is also in the contract of the house but I’m the one paying. I can’t even go home now as I’m afraid don’t know what to do. I’m no longer interested in the relationship. But I’m afraid to go to the house even though police didn’t restrict me from the house.